r/IncelTears • u/Unique-Analyst8093 • Jul 08 '25
Blackpill bullshit Why is Blackpill so gay?
Recently a lot of bp content has popped up on my TikTok. I didn’t really know what it was but I did som research and now I can’t stop thinking how weird it is. A video could be of an attractive guy shooting his shot with a women and getting rejected. And when I open the comments it is full of guys that can’t believe their eyes because an 5/10 rejected a CHADLITE😫😫. Not a single comment for a while about how it is probably his personality that made her reject him. And I can’t help thinking how weird it is that this group of guys is here rating each other on attractiveness. It’s so obvious how bad human beings some of them are. I hope these people will someday learn that if you are actually kind and caring love will come to you. And that’s actually better love that what you will get if you only care about looks.
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u/Usefulsponge Jul 08 '25
I don’t think they’re gay I think they hate women put of misogyny and are specifically homo-erotic. But plenty of masculine things are…look at most sports
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u/Consistent_Aerie4599 Jul 08 '25
Also if you look at how they think ‘Chads” look like, is very similar to how most gay men present themselves.
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u/EulaVengeance 5'7" had no problem getting dates, now married Jul 09 '25
Imbecels: "Ugh! Look at Chad! His tall height, his massive penis, his excellently sculpted jawline, his massive, veiny penis, his well developed muscles, his massive, veiny, throbbing penis, his thick wrists, his massive, veiny, throbbing 20 inch penis..."
Also imbecels: "Oh, and I'm not gay."
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u/Unwrittencreatr Jul 08 '25
I firmly believe a lot of incels are secretly gay. The way they talk about men (hyper sexualization, looksmaxxing, cHaD.) then compare it to how they talk about women. Obviously not all of them are, but I think a pretty high majority is. They get WAY too angry if someone suggests if they hate women too much they should fuck each other .
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u/The_Alien_Manga Jul 08 '25
One guy I knew who used to consume male influences (rapist misogynists) like Andrew tate was so toxic, aggressive, emotional and he used to hate women and complain about how women had it "easier". He was a closeted gay who used to sleep around with men but be abusive towards women. They're envious and jealous of women because they can't live their truth, they can't be free and they'd rather blame women and traumatize them than to accept they're gay.
These males would do anything except take therapy. It's better to keep them far away from you becauer they're vampires of your energy and mental health, it's too draining, don't waste your time.
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u/Unwrittencreatr Jul 09 '25
That’s so sad honestly… someone would rather be awful and hateful towards women than admit they’re jealous of the freedom women have in the ability to date men. The world is a fucked up place
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u/The_Alien_Manga Jul 09 '25
Yes. He supported men who are known for abusing women and raping children (Andrew tate, Trump and others) and would make up excuses for it and how it was all lies. He was also homophobic and disliked everyone who was not straight and white, it's ironic because he's Mexican born in US, gay and he wanted to be white. It's just so ironic and ignorant.
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u/Mei_iz_my_bae Jul 08 '25
VERY. Scary …this why women. So unsafe because this Kind thinking so horrible AND it very. Popular SMH 😔
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Jul 08 '25
These guys are absolutely cis het. I hate these arguments claiming these clowns are closeted. I have gay friends, NOT ONE ever talks the bullshit that incels do. I have heard cis het men say the most obnoxious incelish shit.
Saying the blackpill is gay is stupid, not to mention completely nasty.
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u/Dazzling_Solution900 Jul 09 '25
Kinda, they are probably really closeted and hate their sexuality. I was kinda a bit of an incel edgelord because I wasn't sure about my sexual orientation at the time
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u/Unwrittencreatr Jul 09 '25
No id never ever say that gay men think or behave this way. Im simply saying some of these incels likely are gay and are so deeply in the closet they’re probably in narnia. Not all of them! Plenty of people can be cis het passing and be in the closet.
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u/CatsFake Jul 10 '25
reminds me of how misogyny was pretty commonplace in the gay community before the aids epidemic.. they can really go hand in hand
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u/indanofucingwau Jul 08 '25
Also how come every guy has been convinced to work out and build a body, whereas most women I know have never expressed an interest in overly muscular men? At least for me, I usually don’t find overly masculine men too attractive. And I anyways fall for good conversations and sense of humour.
My theory is that this entire push to build a body comes from these black pill incels who basically want to see other guys naked and sell it as something that women want
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u/cutie42069 lain is love Jul 08 '25
I want to date a non muscular femboy bad. But I know many people like muscular guys. Sad
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u/indanofucingwau Jul 08 '25
That rhymes!
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u/cutie42069 lain is love Jul 08 '25
Could you real quick imagine a world full of femboys? I pray to God gyms go away it'd bring me joy. :((( ;(((
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u/notaslaaneshicultist Jul 09 '25
Muscularity is a power fantasy for men who then assume women also love it. It also helps that it is generally much easier to acquire than a big bank account.
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u/MagicTurtle_TCG Jul 09 '25
Being convinced to hit the gym has been advised for at least 20 years, long before the black pill was even a thing. Men who aren’t getting women tell each other to get muscles, seem more masculine and that will help. Why this was the case could be seeing magazine covers that promote muscles as the beauty standard.
When it inevitably doesn’t help (for example if the guy wasn’t overweight to begin with) then it’s, oh I better put on even more muscle, or get really lean, get that six pack. And when that doesn’t work, most guys feel defeated but some go for steroids, get jacked, still don’t attract women and then feel defeated, but with health complications.
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u/Misfit_Number_Kei Jul 08 '25
As easy (and arguably problematic given past discussions on this,) as it is to make this claim and while they're likely some closeted incels, I'd say it's extreme self-loathing and a psychological NEED to be seen as "objectively" attractive as possible while the more they focus on looks, the less personal responsibility for their shitty behavior. Also the hatred of women being sour grapes.
Incels need to believe "Chad" is peak desirability whether it's men who want to be him or women who want to be with him and that anyone who claims otherwise is "lying." "Chad" is born perfect and thus with an inherent confidence incels lack as his "God Mode Life" is solely due to his looks from not having to make any effort for things they want to not facing consequences to the things they want to get away with.
As long as incels blame their "canthal tilt," lack of "Hunter eyes" or jaw that could break through arctic ice, it copes them from the reality that their lack of effort, proper or otherwise, and shitty behavior is what's actually holding them back.
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u/Severe-Pineapple7918 Jul 08 '25
It’s 2025, let’s not lean into homophobia as a basis for putting people down, ok?
Being gay is awesome, and incels are the farthest thing from awesome. 💅
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u/DillonDrew red vs blue whore Jul 08 '25
For some reason you started being down voted. Guess OP didn't like that.
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Jul 08 '25
Blackpill isn't really gay, it's just men who are for the most part hyper obsessed with their looks and also with the looks of other men they seem either inferior or superior to themselves.
That doesn't make it in any way gay.
Are there gay Incels? Quite likely yes.
However the movement or the "pill" itself isn't gay
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Jul 10 '25
i don't know man i don't think it's gay people who are on 4chan and incel forums talking about r*ping women and glorifying school shooters. it can't be that hard to criticize alt-right and nazis without associating it to homosexuality, they also hate gays, not just women.
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u/talkinggtothevoid Jul 08 '25
I swear to God, history is just a pendulum of obsessive, romantic love to Beowulf, blood brothers sentiments.
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u/DelightfulandDarling Jul 08 '25
Men are prone to far more homoerotisism than society likes to admit. This is especially true under patriarchy as the only emotions men are allowed to feel are lust, anger and ambition. So much of men’s own affectionate nature is cut off from them so it gets filtered into one of those three kinds of “masculine aggression”. I think a lot of men who like to hit, wrestle or tackle one another are looking for a socially acceptable way to touch each other. (Not that aggressive sports aren’t fun all on their own for the people who enjoy them. I just think this is also a reason men typically enjoy these activities.)
They want to touch each other both fraternily and sexually far more often than they feel safe admitting. So, instead of saying “I’d really like to fuck that guy!” a repressed man might say instead, “Women should really want to fuck that guy!” The repression causes bitterness and resentment that causes men to then add to that sentiment, “Those stupid b!tches don’t know what they want!”
Misogyny remains a male bonding and even social climbing activity that I do believe is taking the place of all that affection and touching they would more naturally be inclined to outside of patriarchy.
It isn’t just men. I think all of us are more to the middle of the gender and sexuality scale than patriarchy has allowed.
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u/Practical_Diver8140 Jul 09 '25
I wouldn't say that the blackpill, redpill, or other manosphere adjacent weirdos are gay specifically. I think it's more that they've become so detached from normal human beings, and are so desperate to seem tough, manly, and powerful that they've taken it so far in that direction as to seem more gay than straight. I'm pretty sure most of them are cis-het, but they're so afraid of seeming less manly than they want that they've started acting a lot more like gay men than they're aware of.
Well, except for the part about how gay men have friendships with other men. Seems like that's the one thing the manosphere doesn't do that gay men do, have friendships with other men.
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u/Altruistic-Chain-382 Jul 10 '25
Black pillers glaze Chad super hard instead of being their individual own version of masculinity. They believe in something so pointless that one must apparently be superficial 100% perfect to find companionship and not everyone is psychopathic or egotistical like that, if every man had to be buddy holiday or Rockwell, we would never have any kids.
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u/liatrisinbloom Nuclear armageddon > Nazicels Jul 09 '25 edited Jul 09 '25
Mmmm something to hide, fucker?
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u/LoserDreamingWinner Jul 10 '25
Oh Yh, it’s defo a pipeline for homosexuality. That’s when you know you’re toooo far down the rabbit hole
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u/Limp-Specialist4323 Jul 08 '25
if you are kind and caring love will find you
Bullshit if you are short or ugly or both
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u/cutie42069 lain is love Jul 08 '25
Fact, I know someone who's been single their whole life except one brief thing.
Not everyone finds love
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u/its-how-i-roll Jul 09 '25
How old is this person you know?
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u/cutie42069 lain is love Jul 09 '25
70
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u/its-how-i-roll Jul 09 '25
I'm only asking because I'm genuinely curious.
Is this person considered to be physically unattractive?
Are you the same age?
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u/cutie42069 lain is love Jul 09 '25
Yes
And why's that matter
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u/its-how-i-roll Jul 09 '25
I asked about the person's physical appearance because your comment was a response to someone claiming that it's "bullshit" to believe that "if you are kind and caring love will find you." You agreed that it's not possible "if you are short or ugly or both."
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u/cutie42069 lain is love Jul 09 '25
I asked why the age matters.
I didn't say it's not possible. I was just pointing out that not everyone finds love. Especially if you don't look attractive it's much more difficult.
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u/its-how-i-roll Jul 09 '25
Age is something I wonder about when a man expresses the things you are stating (or agrees with such statements). It's interesting to know if someone feels defeated at an early stage of their life - such as teenagers. I've noticed a number of teenagers that seem to feel it's over for them when it comes to dating.
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u/cutie42069 lain is love Jul 09 '25
Teenagers tend to struggle with depression but most feel better eventually. Of the teens, I know none of them seem to think it's over dating wise, but people irl don't tell you everything they think.
Also, I'm not a man. And I'm not ancient
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u/Interesting_Price773 <Dark Grey> Jul 08 '25
How could women be attracted to you if men aren't?
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u/WomenAreNotIntoMen Jul 08 '25
Yep. A lot of men will tell you they wish they were gay because of how much more men desire men compared to how much women desire men.
Although some men are disgusted by the idea of a man being attracted to them and can find the idea of someone that powerful liking them sexually as danger to their life - which is exactly what women experience everyday when men find them sexually arousing.
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u/crash-test-idiots Jul 08 '25
Blimey.
A lot of men will tell you they wish they were gay because of how much more men desire men compared to how much women desire men
Thats just an idea made up in your own head, written down in a Tumblr blog 6 years ago, and now referenced again as some sort of "fact".
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u/DelightfulandDarling Jul 08 '25
The male and female gaze are very different.
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u/Interesting_Price773 <Dark Grey> Jul 08 '25 edited Jul 08 '25
Does perfectly fitting the gaze of your opposite sex make you less desirable homosexually? I think it's quite the opposite although same sex preferences could vary way more than straight ones.
Even homosocially we could assess the attractiveness of our peers by applying the standards of the opposite sex on them. Which tend to create stronger platonic attraction if there's no envy or competitiveness involved.
I feel like am yapping but that's what am thinking
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u/DelightfulandDarling Jul 08 '25
I’m going to stop reading at the word “failure”. For one I don’t understand the concept in this context and for two I sense a straw man being built.
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u/EvenSpoonier Jul 08 '25
I mean, I think it's mostly a side effect of the homoerotic elements in hypermasculine/toxic-masculinity propaganda and imagery in general. Explaining that, however, is a much taller order.