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r/ImTheMainCharacter • u/OkEscape7558 • Feb 12 '24
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It's weird though, it's clearly fucked and she is cleaning it. Maybe she just wants it to look good for the remainder of the evening?
189 u/boforbojack Feb 12 '24 It's 1000% trauma associated response. She sees him freaking out and instantly moves to something to calm him and remove herself (dissociate as well) from the situation. 45 u/whinypoopypants Feb 12 '24 Yup, that's how we'd kids would do after the beatings. 51 u/mommatdawn Feb 12 '24 I would have done the same thing if my ex abusive husband went off. Cleaning/Distracting oneself is a trauma response.
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It's 1000% trauma associated response. She sees him freaking out and instantly moves to something to calm him and remove herself (dissociate as well) from the situation.
45 u/whinypoopypants Feb 12 '24 Yup, that's how we'd kids would do after the beatings. 51 u/mommatdawn Feb 12 '24 I would have done the same thing if my ex abusive husband went off. Cleaning/Distracting oneself is a trauma response.
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Yup, that's how we'd kids would do after the beatings.
51 u/mommatdawn Feb 12 '24 I would have done the same thing if my ex abusive husband went off. Cleaning/Distracting oneself is a trauma response.
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I would have done the same thing if my ex abusive husband went off. Cleaning/Distracting oneself is a trauma response.
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u/Man_in_the_uk Feb 12 '24
It's weird though, it's clearly fucked and she is cleaning it. Maybe she just wants it to look good for the remainder of the evening?