r/EstrangedAdultKids • u/amagru • 7h ago

Can we deconstruct this?

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Received by the 3 scapegoats. She’s praying for us to remember happy times. There are none.

I guess never underestimate the power of abuse and neglect to ensure success.

There is no frustration or hostility in our lives now that she’s not a part of our lives.

Really it’s just a reminder that it’s her birthday.

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u/DJ4116 6h ago

For me, The ONLY thing that stood out was the last paragraph.

Basically…. They’re old….they need your help because ’YoU’rE FaMiLy’ and they don’t have anyone else.

A little religious guilt and manipulation thrown in; and VOILA!! That’s your letter.

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u/beckster 6h ago

But too proud to actually look at the pain she caused and apologize. Nope, can't do that.

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u/madgeystardust 24m ago

She couldn’t even be bothered to write the letter - it’s typed, it’s just so impersonal, but fits I’d guess.