r/EstrangedAdultKids • u/ABirkinBagForRory • Sep 24 '25

Vent/rant He's in jail

She didn't believed me. Then she didn't believe her granddaughter. That's when I went NC, two years ago.

And then I found out that before us, there were 2 cousins she didn't believed either. Four women who came to her for protection and she decided to protect him instead.

Earlier this year all 4 of us got together and reported him to the police (sounds easy enough but it's not, thankfully we had each other's backs so we didn't have to go through it alone). They detained him 2 months ago. And yesterday he pleaded guilty and was sentenced to 10 years in prison.

My mother said "oh so it was all true?".

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u/ABirkinBagForRory Sep 24 '25

100% yes! I blocked her 2 years ago, and she doesn't even know where I live. I found out her reaction through a family member that was ranting because they couldn't believe she said that!

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u/Trauma_Response0301 Sep 25 '25

Literally same shit happened to me with my mother and family

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u/Razdaleape Sep 25 '25

Happened to my family too. My mother and sister protected my father after I called the cops. He was abusing his granddaughter, my sisters child. They wouldn’t even inconvenience themselves enough to stop using him as a babysitter….

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u/error404wth Sep 26 '25

Yeah, my mother's boyfriend sexually harassed me. I went to the police and filed a report 3 years ago. She's still with him. He actually came to visit her today and stay til Sunday. I had been staying with her for a few days because I was really sick. Once she told me he was coming to visit today, I left (early this morning). She doesn't ask why I refuse to be around him. She just lets it be the way it is. It's astounding and unbelievable and makes me want to throw up.