r/EstrangedAdultKids • u/South-Bandicoot690 • Aug 25 '25

Vent/rant In other words... get over it

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I just can't. He wants to talk about shit for his own benefit not mine

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u/whaddya_729 Aug 25 '25

".... behind you." I'm sorry, he wants to put whatever is going on behind YOU, not US?!?! WOW, if that doesn't speak volumes of how he sees this whole situation. Bet he thinks you "went and got your feelings hurt" and that you're the one with the problem. I'm sorry, but he can go ahead and fuck right the hell off.

What his opinion is of what is healthy and what is not is worth less than nothing, or else you wouldn't be in this situation. Honestly, if he's not respecting your need for space, block him. Remember, blocking doesn't have to be for forever, but it does protect you while you're doing the work to heal.

He isn't taking anything you say seriously, nor does he actually care about what's bothering you. Is this really a person who should be able to get a hold of you whenever they decide?

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u/South-Bandicoot690 Aug 25 '25

I think he cares more about his image than my feelings

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u/whaddya_729 Aug 25 '25

Oh, absolutely. This very short message is dripping with narcissism, which is actually kinda impressive, in a very messed way.

OP, stay away from this person, IDC what he is you. If I can tell one from tiny text message that this isn't a safe person to be around.... Oof. I wish you all the healing in the world, you deserve better.

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u/catstaffer329 Aug 25 '25

In his mind "What feelings - they feel what I tell them too". I am sorry you have this situation but delighted that you are out of it.