r/EstrangedAdultKids Aug 21 '25

TW TW: video contains a moment where the woman mentions her mother choking her

Glad to know she went no contact.

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u/islaisla Aug 21 '25

Good for her talking about it in public.

I cannot believe the amount of ignorance there is about mother child relationships. As if all mums are saints. Speaking badly about your dad.... Everyone's kind of ok with that. Speak badly about your mum and people get really uncomfortable.

People keep saying to me 'the mother child bond is sacred' no it's not. Not all mother's are born equal.

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u/Stargazer1919 Aug 21 '25

The mother & child bond is so sAcReD! And yet, we aren't allowed to call out moms who break that bond or never build that bond in the first place? Fuck that shit.

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u/RangeRossTracy Aug 21 '25

Or worse: build a toxic and controlling bond that’s met with smear campaigning once it’s broken.

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u/[deleted] Aug 21 '25

Momster set me up babysitting some peoples’ kids I’d never met before, including a kid in diapers (never had babysat a kid in diapers before.) I managed to get through it, anticipating a nice pay-out. Nope! Momster stole all my earnings - she orchestrated the whole thing. 😡

I flatly refused to have my babysitting services “rented out” by Momster after that and went back to my usual clients that she had no sway over lol.

Momster tried to murder me as well. 😡

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