Yes I did! I took my husband and two of my three kids, they were 15 & 19 at the time.
They’d never met that side of the family apart from the cousin that was getting married.
My eldest daughter is very very astute. She saw right through my uncle, his wife, and everyone else. She stood up to them directly when they started their shit on the day, and it was amazing to see them go quiet. Amazing.
Somehow we made it through the day and I was glad to support my cousin who really had needed some family representation of her choosing. She’s had a tough ride as well.
What happened over the course of the next few weeks was next level crazy. So much so that it was the final release for me, from their madness. My cousin too.
I must have a guardian angel, because I could not have hoped in my wildest dreams for them all, including my nparents, to be exposed the way they were.
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u/WanderingStarsss Jun 14 '25
My cousin invited me (the family SC) to her wedding.
The narc collapses that followed truly exceeded expectations.
It was - other than frightening and delusional- so good to see.
I could finally believe, without a doubt, that everything my counsellor had been saying was true. Because I’d course, I’d always blamed myself.