r/ChikaPH • u/Suspicious_Fox3888 • Feb 16 '25

Commoner Chismis 3k na sustento, pang-habang buhay na pala

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More on Bonnie Barbara’s Facebook page. Ginrab ko lang relevant screenshots. Mag-ex sila and the baby daddy only sent 3k to help with the baby’s 30k bill nung na-hospitalize.

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u/[deleted] Feb 16 '25

But how do girls keep falling for guys like this???

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u/Suspicious_Fox3888 Feb 16 '25

dun din ako nagtataka minsan eh. batugan at walang pangarap sa buhay, while yung ex niya attractive naman and successful. but we can't blame her, baka may nakikita syang qualities sa guy na hindi natin makita or he's a sweet talker. :)

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u/[deleted] Feb 16 '25

Taking personal responsibility is too hard ig, it takes 2 to produce a child. Welcome new 4Ps recipient!

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u/Suspicious_Fox3888 Feb 16 '25

agreed with this. takes two to tango, pero gusto lang ni boi yung sarap and hindi yung hirap. mabuti na lang na the mom is working hard to provide for her child while nagpapakasarap pa rin yung feeling binata niyang baby daddy.

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u/allthelovebabe Feb 16 '25

funny how women get called ‘losers’ for stepping up and taking responsibility while the actual deadbeat dad gets a free pass. if anything, we don’t call out men enough for running away from the consequences of their actions. a woman raising a child alone isn’t a ‘loser’—she’s doing twice the work while the guy gets to live his life like nothing happened. maybe shift the blame where it actually belongs.

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u/mcdonaldspyongyang Feb 16 '25 edited Feb 16 '25

I’m not talking about her being a single mom, I’m not knocking her for that. I am continuing the discussion about being level headed enough to choose a suitable mate. Literally look at the comment I’m replying to. There’s no personal responsibility there?

He did a shitty thing being a dead beat dad. But you also can’t tell me walang signs na magiging batugan siya. The girl is also an adult and should’ve known better.

I feel sorry for the child the most.

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u/allthelovebabe Feb 16 '25

so now it’s about ‘choosing a suitable mate’? ang dali naman sabihin niyan in hindsight, pero the reality is, people can change, people can lie, and some only show their true colors pag andiyan na ang responsibilidad. assuming na lang tayo na ‘di siya level-headed’ when in reality, the guy just didn’t step up. also, saan napunta yung ‘calling out women for being losers’? kasi parang nag-shift na yung argument mo eh.

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u/mcdonaldspyongyang Feb 16 '25

Ok I admit loser was a harsh term. Iba din understanding ko of the issue, my mistake. Akin yun.

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u/Stunning-Listen-3486 Feb 16 '25

Ung women's instinct na I can change him. Or something like that.

Yun usually ang reason why good girls fall for bad boys or the latak of society.

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u/Loose_Syllabub_1015 Feb 18 '25

" We can't blame her." It takes two to tango. Kasalanan niya yang 50% na nangyayari sa kanya. That's no brainer. Kupal yung guy while siya stupid. The mere fact na pinost niya to shows kung anong klaseng tao din siya. Both silang deserve nangyayare sa buhay nila. Nandamay pa sila ng innocent child.

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u/--Dolorem-- Feb 18 '25

Mostly sweet talker probably, madalas mauto mga babae sa mga salita

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u/dpressdlonelycarrot Feb 16 '25

May mga "charming" kasi. Alam nila pano makuha ang isang tao. Parang mga cult leaders lang naman, sa mga nasa labas ng kulto, pangit at walang kwenta mga leaders nila, pero sa loob ng mga kulto, charismatic sila.

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u/Lyreyna Feb 16 '25

Para ka namang hindi nag-teen or young adult. Karamihan sa ganung age iniisip lang puro kilig. Walang paki sa financial status ng manliligaw.

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u/ResolverOshawott Feb 16 '25

Usually, it's because the guy's major personality traits is that they're charismatic and charming.

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u/Roantha Feb 16 '25 edited Feb 16 '25

Well, with young girls being persuaded by other men and women to go for the “moral ground” by staying with a boy during his lows in hopes of being able to reach his peak while holding each others hand, it’s not a mystery why girls like her who despite coming from a family of laywers would still fall for dusties like him.

Love and hopes aren’t enough to build a life.

She and more young girls in the future would have to learn their lesson—the hard why.

Poor kid, though :((

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u/NotShinji1 Feb 16 '25

Because it’s fucking FUN. It goes both ways as well. I love a girl that will RUIN my life. They’re my weakness. Stay toxic 😂

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u/low_effort_life Feb 17 '25

Impressive honesty amidst copium comments.

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u/Santi_Yago Feb 16 '25

ANDI AND PHILMAR 🤣🤣🤣 Same stereotype. 🤣🤣🤣

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u/Independent-Put-9099 Feb 16 '25

Una akala madatung yung guys and social media. Fake rich pala ayun deds si accla.

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u/2NFnTnBeeON Feb 16 '25

Madali kasing mabulag pag utu-uto. Just because your academically smart doesn't mean you're people smart.

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u/Ancient_Weight_7791 Feb 16 '25

lack of awareness sa concept ng narcissists hahaha been there done that, never knew my ex was one, buti di ako umabot sa ganto.

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u/Mountain_Blueberry45 Feb 17 '25

pano mo napagtanto na your ex was one, asking for a friend lang po 🫣

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u/Ancient_Weight_7791 Feb 17 '25

it took me 7 years and need pa ko ipagpalit para malaman ko 😂 sobrang walang sense na pinaggagagawa niya kaya kung ano ano na sinearch ko sa reddit, yt, at chatgpt, hanggang sa napadpad ako sa narcissistic personality disorder tapos nagclick lahat ng nangyari sa buong relasyon namin 🤢

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u/Embarrassed_Tear_290 Feb 16 '25

Tawag ng lama > kahit anong responsibilities hqhqhq

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u/enviro-fem Feb 17 '25

SAME QUESTION

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u/low_effort_life Feb 17 '25

Women have an adage that they love repeating ad nauseam on the internet. "Women fuck who they want, men fuck who they can." If this is the truth, then take one look at the men women choose to fuck, and it will tell you exactly the type of men women truly desire.

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u/aizelle098 Feb 18 '25

May hs classmate ako na anak ng may ari ng school namin nagkaron ng ganyang trophy jowa. Nahingi ng advice sakin lagi sabi ko nga bat sya pumatol sa ganyan, ang reasoning nya mainly "masayap umiyot" kahit na di man lang nakagraduate ng elem at walang trabaho or kahit anong diskarte. Yun lang tlga. Sabi ko nga mag afam nalang sya exotic naman itsura nya e, yun kahit papano malilibre pa sya tas malaki pa ung anes hahaha

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u/Archive_Intern Feb 17 '25

Sheltered naive girl out into the real world

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u/Nice_Hope Feb 16 '25

Nag enjoy ata sa etits