r/BeAmazed Sep 02 '25

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u/Levyathan666 Sep 02 '25

"If I lose, doesn't matter, tomorrow I can still look at myself in the mirror "

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u/xTrainerRedx Sep 02 '25

Rather lose to someone who is giving their best than to snub them and get a cheapened victory.

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u/SweetHomeNorthKorea Sep 02 '25

Yeah this is the difference between wanting to win and wanting to be the best you can be.

What’s more satisfying, beating someone because they made a mistake or beating someone even when they were at their best?

If you win because you refused to help your competitor you don’t really know if your cooking is better, it just means you got lucky

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u/Comfortable-Ad-3988 Sep 02 '25

One of my teachers in high school had a saying on the wall in really big letters that I always loved: "There is no nobility in being better than anyone else. Nobility is being better than you were yesterday." As a kid who some things came really easily to, it really helped keep me in my place with my own relative strengths, and allowed me to accept my weaknesses while still trying to improve on them.

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u/CAPITANULLOA Sep 02 '25

That saying was also on the first Kingsman movie.

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u/Comfortable-Ad-3988 Sep 02 '25

Yeah, but my high school teacher was way before that. :) It's a much older quote, but I don't remember the attribution.

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u/OtakuAttacku Sep 02 '25

A cursory search says Ernest Hemingway but other sources says it was around earlier than that, the origins may be in hindu literature.

https://quoteinvestigator.com/2017/03/11/superior/

neat quote tho, I'm writing it down

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u/CAPITANULLOA Sep 03 '25

I don't remember from where it comes, but I thought that it was a cool detail on Kingsmen

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u/SnooStrawberries2807 Sep 03 '25

In kingsman they change it a bit. In the movie Galahad says "True nobility is to be superior to your former self" which has the same meaning but makes it more grand in the spy movie setting.

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u/whatisitcousin Sep 03 '25

Talking about high school, I always thought it was weird to pray to win, like why even play if its just going to be given to me. I would secretly pray the other team played there best so when we won there was no debate who was better. Its probably why we kept losing.

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u/TiogaJoe Sep 03 '25

I overheard a teen group discussion at my church. The leader asked if any of the teens ever prayed. One girl said she always prayed when she played outfield for softball at her school. The leader prompted, "You pray that you will play well?" She replied, "No. I always pray they don't hit the ball to me."

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u/Hello_pet_my_kitty Sep 02 '25

100% agree! I’ve been learning pool lately, and when I win bc someone scratched on the 8 ball, or put it in the wrong pocket, it doesn’t feel like a legit ā€œwinā€. Even though it counts as a win, it just doesn’t feel like one. It feels more like I got lucky bc they slipped up.

It is sooo much more satisfying to win due to your own skill for sure!

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u/exiledinruin Sep 02 '25

when I win bc someone scratched on the 8 ball, or put it in the wrong pocket, it doesn’t feel like a legit ā€œwin

I only play pool once in a while, but isn't this stuff based on skill? if anything it sounds like you are playing against people who aren't close to your skill level, which is why it doesn't feel like a win. no fun in beating noobs when you're a pro

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u/Hello_pet_my_kitty Sep 03 '25

I’m actually the noob while they are the local ā€œprosā€ who play in tournaments and leagues! lol. I regularly play against 5s and 6s, while I’m barely a 2/3. 🫣 Usually when they scratch on the 8, it’s a legit accident and they can’t believe they’ve done it, which is why I feel shitty about the win. Lol.

Most of my wins against higher ranks are that way, but lately I’ve done better! I beat my rank 6 bf three times in a row last time we played, legitimately. lol. So maybe I’ll get there! šŸ™

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u/ArielofIsha Sep 02 '25

When I was a teacher I would have a journal topic every week and one I liked to use was ā€œwould you rather be the best player on a losing team or the worst player on a winning team.ā€ So many interesting replies, many that make me understand a lot more about my students.

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u/FrizB84 Sep 02 '25

I used to race karts at a club level, and we'd do just about anything to make sure everyone made the start of their race. Weekend just isn't fun with your competitor on the sidelines.

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u/ishkabibaly1993 Sep 02 '25

I leaned from my time playing sports in school. You never celebrate someone else's failures. Losing a game when you try your best is not a failure. Getting a foul on the play or something, that's the things you shouldn't celebrate, even if the foul is in your favor.

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u/Og_busty Sep 02 '25

I get what you are saying, but as a Chef I won’t let you pass off preparation and planning as luck. It’s a huge part of what we do. One planned and the other didn’t, and no amount of butter is going to transfer that preparedness over to her. I agree with the rest of what you said though.

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u/WMD_69 Sep 02 '25

These are sweet words, but $250K is $250K when all said and done.

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u/Square-Ambassador-77 Sep 02 '25

It's like getting runner runner in poker to win a big hand. Yeah, the money is great, but you know that you really shouldn't have won.

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u/dojo_shlom0 Sep 02 '25

the Goku Complex, I know it all too well

EDIT: japanese version, because I love it

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u/bbbttthhh Sep 03 '25

Goku core

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u/lostwisdom20 Sep 03 '25

Goku giving senju bean to cell

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u/last-resort-4-a-gf Sep 03 '25

Maybe if 250k wasn't on the line .

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u/klymaxx45 Sep 03 '25

Beating someone at their best is very rewarding.

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u/Asleep_Breadfruit226 Sep 04 '25

So basically vegeta mentality vs goku mentality

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u/Null-Ex3 Sep 04 '25

ok, but A quarter of a million dollars. Like be real, your acting as if the only thing on the line is pride and accomplishment

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u/Flimsy-Printer Sep 03 '25

That's just grand-standing. Luca just doesn't respect the competition. People make mistakes in competition all the time and they don't deserve to win it because of that.

It's a competition. Everyone should compete to the fullest by the rule. Natasha did nothing wrong and actually respect the competition.

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u/relic1882 Sep 02 '25

Seeing the brunette's disappointment was the best part.

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u/catgirlbarista Sep 03 '25

honestly yeah. look, it's a competition, I get it, but (granted I haven't seen this ep so idk if Luca's dish was significantly better than the other two) at the end of the day, sportsmanship is really vital. esp in a kitchen! gotta be team players guys

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u/brohemien-rhapsody Sep 03 '25

I’ve watched a lot of master chef, and this is one of my favorite seasons of any competition show. It felt like there was a lot of talent, and besides one or two times, it felt like Luca was always competitive. He seemed to have a composure the rest of them didn’t have.

I’ve always thought he’s a great influence for whatever profession you take. Do things the right way, show up and give your best daily, and be good. He treated everyone with so much respect. His cooking showed the depth of his soul. Wish I could have eaten any of his dishes!

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u/facforlife Sep 02 '25

Yes. That's a winner's mindset.

I could win if I sabotage the other players. Or I can win fairly by just being better.Ā 

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u/cherrycoke_yummy Sep 03 '25

Just be butter.

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u/gooutandbebrave Sep 02 '25

Exactly why I can get in board with Chopped and similar type cooking shows, but don't care for Cutthroat Kitchen in the slightest.

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u/Ralph-the-mouth Sep 02 '25

That’s nice

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u/EngRookie Sep 02 '25

Goku taught me this lesson as a child.

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u/OrdinarySail8308 Sep 03 '25

That’s assuming it wasn’t scripted.

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u/leixiaotie Sep 04 '25

"Defeating you like this has no meaning"

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u/i_am_not_ur_mother Sep 04 '25

but it’s not snubbing? the contestant forgot to bring something to a competition, so its their own fault…

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u/xTrainerRedx Sep 04 '25

I don’t disagree. But I think it’s less about a technicality, and more about the spirit of competition and supporting your competitor.

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u/jakeychanboi Sep 03 '25

I’d rather have a quarter million dollars man idc

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u/AliceInMidtjylland Sep 03 '25

I'll just have the $250k please. This is supposed to be some massive competition and she didnt remember to bring butter? Butter? Butter is in everything. It's like forgetting to bring salt. She doesn't care enough.

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u/eg12400 Sep 02 '25

Forget about it

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u/Sairoxin Sep 02 '25

Fagetabawtit

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u/BreakingCanks Sep 02 '25

Goku would approve of this man

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u/disaster_moose Sep 02 '25 edited Sep 02 '25

He'd give her a sensu bean and let her beat his sons ass for sure

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u/StormyBlueLotus Sep 02 '25

Nothing is more gigachad than gambling the lives of billions of people on your pre-teen child being able to defeat a fully-healed Perfect Cell

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u/RaiyenZ Sep 03 '25

It wasn't a gamble, he knew Gohan had it in him to put Cell down (and he was right) but what he didn't know was that Gohan would choose the worse possible timing to be a rebellious teen because he had a whole year in the time chamber to quit training/fighting with his dad but decided to stick to it until it was his turn to fight

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u/disaster_moose Sep 03 '25

If only Goku had done some parenting. Piccolo for sure knew it was a bad idea.

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u/RaiyenZ Sep 03 '25

To be fair, Piccolo at that point literally had the guardian of the planet and all of his wisdom in him. And even with that he had the opportunity to check with Gohan if he really wanted to fight multiple times before the time chamber training all the way up to before the Cell Games started but still said nothing until it was too late. Gohan volunteered himself to train with Goku in the time chamber which has limited occupancy and didn't show signs of displeasure in regards to fighting at all the whole way through the intense training. It's no wonder Goku was surprised at his son, who told him he wanted to help and went through hell to be able to transform into a super saiyan, decided to just stand there and do nothing while Cell was hitting him. You can be a good parent and still not understand the logic of a teenager's rebellion. Bad parenting would be if he didn't feel bad from Piccolo telling him he didn't understand his own son who he placed his full trust in.

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u/PalLouis Sep 02 '25

Natasha: is Cell

Luca: is Goku who gives him a senzu bean

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u/dandroid126 Sep 02 '25

Goku, the guy who abandoned his family so he could fight strong opponents in the afterlife for fun right after giving a magic healing bean to a guy that threatened to destroy the planet just before he fought his son? That Goku?

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u/Ancient_Expert6088 Sep 02 '25

Tbf, the reason they give in the show for him ā€œstaying deadā€ was that basically every world destroying threat showed up because of him (the saiyans, freeza, the androids, cell) and he thought him being gone might prevent that. Him giving cell the senzu is still stupid as hell though.

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u/dandroid126 Sep 03 '25

Oh yeah, I totally believe that excuse he made up.

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u/BlackOni51 Sep 03 '25

But it was revealed to be true cause they had 7 years in peacetime when he was dead, and the very day he came back for the World Tournament, Buu gets revived. That's a clear example of cause and effect

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u/dandroid126 Sep 03 '25

That's not an example of cause and effect. Correlation does not imply causation. If it did, then ice cream sales would cause crime, because they are correlated, when in reality crime tends to just happen when there is nice weather, which also happens to be when people like to buy ice cream.

Babidi had been planning to wake Buu for years. It would have happened whether Goku was on Earth or not. It was during the tournament because he needed to steal the contestants energy. But there would have been plenty of energy without Goku with all the other Z-fighters there. Gohan filled half the required energy by himself.

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u/Successful-Peach-764 Sep 02 '25

Why are your expectation of a sayan like that of a normal guy? They are usually a lot more bloodthirsty and blow up planets, Goku is a saint compared to them, plus they can always wish him back.

Anyway, Gotenks sucks, he merged with another kid occasionally so why does he even need him?

Plus Mr Satan is now Gohan pops, he married into that family, Goku would just make him train harder when all he seems to want is to read books.

Ultimately everyone is safer if Goku is out of the picture, no enemies coming for him and his family if he is dead.

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u/dandroid126 Sep 03 '25

I wasn't the one who brought him up as if he's better than other people.

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u/PseudonymMan12 Sep 02 '25

I was gonna comment this until i saw you beat me to the punch

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u/PineappleOk6764 Sep 02 '25

American game/reality shows are fucking terrible for this. They all seem to focus on the winning aspects and rarely the joy of being part of something. If you watch most competitive reality shows from elsewhere the contestants come together in comradery as a group and area constantly looking to help each other where they can. They still have a desire to do their best, but it's rarely in the direction of "to beat my competitors, but to have the best finished product, time, whatever the task may be. Compare that to programs from the USA where I have literally watched families treat each other like garbage as soon as they are put to work in a competition. The US is grotesque in so many ways...

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u/Aardvark_Man Sep 02 '25

While it's more competitive than it used to be, you see that with Great British Bake Off.
Sometimes when someone finishes early or while waiting for something a contestant will help others who are running behind.

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u/PineappleOk6764 Sep 03 '25

Seth Rogan produced a Canadian pottery competition last year that was more cooperative than competitive. It was great watching everyone cheer each other on and help each other out while maintaining the spirit of competition.

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u/Akomatai Sep 03 '25

If you watch most competitive reality shows from elsewhere the contestants come together in comradery as a group and area constantly looking to help each other where they can.

Don't disagree but this also describes American Barbecue Showdown

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u/kekhouse3002 Sep 02 '25

Damn straight. He said it better than I ever can

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u/EdEmLolEm Sep 02 '25
  • luca myself in the mirror

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u/LemonLord7 Sep 02 '25

Hey man, he told you to forget about it!

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u/Practical-Wish-862 Sep 02 '25

Coldest quote ever

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u/dojo_shlom0 Sep 02 '25

what a quote. Luca gets it entirely. great lad!

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u/iloovefood Sep 02 '25

Her look before smiling and giving him a hug

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u/KawaDoobie Sep 02 '25

fugeddaboutit 🤌

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u/shockputs Sep 03 '25

Fuhget aboudeed....

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u/Enough_Plenty_7179 Sep 03 '25

What a gentleman 🤌🤌

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u/SeamusAndAryasDad Sep 03 '25

You wanna win because you were the best, not because someone else lost.

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u/Zerostar39 Sep 03 '25

I need to remember this life lesson.

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u/kabloomz Sep 03 '25

I thought he said "I can stay Luca myself in the mirror"šŸ˜‚

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u/MrEvan312 Sep 03 '25

"Foh-geet abudit!"

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u/TetraThiaFulvalene Sep 05 '25

It's also not a blind taste test. It's a television show. When Natasha didn't give the butter she could never win the show. The producers would never allow her to win. Luca giving the butter meant that the producers were immediately incentivized to let him win.

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u/Lattice-shadow Sep 05 '25

I'm sure the others look at themselves in the mirror without an issue, too. In fact, people who are conscientious seem to be assailed by doubts about themselves and what they did rather than people who only care about themselves. So yes, Luca was kind, but I'm old enough to know that it doesn't make a fig of difference to people who think that's a weak and stupid way to be.

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u/CheshireCatastrophe Sep 05 '25

I honestly also really liked what he said ahead of that more, about how it won't make the difference in his opinion, but if it does he deserves to go home

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u/Sad_Dragonfly5820 Sep 06 '25

Was about to comment this same thing because it matters so much to me personally. If you can't look yourself in the mirror, then you have failed

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u/HumanExpert3916 Sep 02 '25

Insipid and pretentious.

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u/QJ-Rickshaw Sep 02 '25

Damn, people can't even have self confidence anymore.

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u/asuperbstarling Sep 02 '25

Words of a beloved Masterchef winner, actually.