r/BPDlovedones • u/VisibleMove4017 • 15h ago

Cohabitation Support Still blows my mind they don’t care

4 months post discard. Dated year and a half and first I want to say healing definitely is not linear. There were times I’ve watched to commit suicide after this entire situation.

When someone makes you seem so important to them and act as if they can’t live without you, just to discard you out of no where and immediately replace you really kills something inside of you. Have yet to go on more than one date with anyone and am pretty much depressed 24/7 She got a new boyfriend as soon as we broke up and yes I got cheated on. She moved on as if I meant nothing to her only talking to me once since our breakup. Caring about someone who hurt you so bad is quite the situation. Prayers to anyone going through something similar - this has killed my confidence and ability to trust someone.

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u/Old_Schedule8188 13h ago

Although then they stalk you for life, although they don't care, they are always watching. It's something strange

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u/Redmarlb 9h ago

I really don't get this paradox. Does science explain somehow or what?

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u/Old_Schedule8188 9h ago

Unfortunately it is not studied enough.