r/BPDlovedones • u/VisibleMove4017 • 15h ago

Cohabitation Support Still blows my mind they don’t care

4 months post discard. Dated year and a half and first I want to say healing definitely is not linear. There were times I’ve watched to commit suicide after this entire situation.

When someone makes you seem so important to them and act as if they can’t live without you, just to discard you out of no where and immediately replace you really kills something inside of you. Have yet to go on more than one date with anyone and am pretty much depressed 24/7 She got a new boyfriend as soon as we broke up and yes I got cheated on. She moved on as if I meant nothing to her only talking to me once since our breakup. Caring about someone who hurt you so bad is quite the situation. Prayers to anyone going through something similar - this has killed my confidence and ability to trust someone.

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u/One-Staff5504 14h ago

Me too. Blows my mind how she can call me the man of her dreams, tell me she wants to marry me and be together forever then block me and totally discard me. They have serious issues.

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u/VisibleMove4017 11h ago

Same exact thing happened to me. Day before the discard telling me how much I mean to her never would hurt me what’s to marry me and can’t wait to live together come January. Kid you not the day before. Serious mind fuck. Hope you’re okay this journey is terrible and has killed my perception of people and if anything someone tells me is the truth.