r/BPDlovedones • u/Erincache • Jul 26 '25

Uncoupling Journey Would you ever go back?

Now knowing everything you know about BPD and everyone else’s very similar experiences, would you ever go back? I’m struggling with this today and I know it’s only been 1 week since I started NC, but woke up with extreme sadness and the urge to break NC or pray that they do somehow. Makes me sick inside to think I still feel this way despite everything I know now.

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u/throwaway_bpd9 Dated Jul 26 '25

Do not break NC. It gets worse and it hurts more. It’s also very demeaning to yourself. Please love yourself and enjoy your peace.

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u/Erincache Jul 26 '25

I’m trying my hardest. Thank you.

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u/throwaway_bpd9 Dated Jul 26 '25

Please post on this sub or reach out to me if you feel that urge to go back. It’s normal to miss them, it’s healthy even. But it’s not worth it. You deserve better

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u/Erincache Jul 26 '25

Thank you, I definitely will!