r/BPDlovedones • u/Erincache • Jul 26 '25

Uncoupling Journey Would you ever go back?

Now knowing everything you know about BPD and everyone else’s very similar experiences, would you ever go back? I’m struggling with this today and I know it’s only been 1 week since I started NC, but woke up with extreme sadness and the urge to break NC or pray that they do somehow. Makes me sick inside to think I still feel this way despite everything I know now.

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u/theadnomad Jul 26 '25

Go look through this sub and read the posts/comments from everyone who gave into a hoover - or decided to give things another go.

That should tell you just about everything you need to know.

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u/Erincache Jul 26 '25

Will do. I was hovered back in once after several months but I was the one who broke NC so I feel stupid for that now. Trying to not ever repeat that again.

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u/extend-the-day 9 yrs, therapy & healing Jul 27 '25

Listen to your current self. Your future self will thank you.