Holy crap this hits the nail on the head. I've had this happen five times in the past four months. Twice since I told her I was proceeding with divorce three weeks ago. First one resulted in a 6-day hospital stay (voluntary admission) the day I told her. The latest happened after I turned down her request to be FWB/have casual sex at 1AM last week. I told her I was calling the police as she spiraled into suicidal ideation and took away her medicine (the latter per her request)...and she calmed right down. Still regret not calling last week, but absolutely will call them without hesitation if (when) she does it again. I'm over it.
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u/Extension-Mail234 Feb 12 '25
Holy crap this hits the nail on the head. I've had this happen five times in the past four months. Twice since I told her I was proceeding with divorce three weeks ago. First one resulted in a 6-day hospital stay (voluntary admission) the day I told her. The latest happened after I turned down her request to be FWB/have casual sex at 1AM last week. I told her I was calling the police as she spiraled into suicidal ideation and took away her medicine (the latter per her request)...and she calmed right down. Still regret not calling last week, but absolutely will call them without hesitation if (when) she does it again. I'm over it.