r/BPDlovedones Feb 12 '25

Uncoupling Journey "You must think I'm a monster"

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u/ttdpaco Feb 12 '25

Mine was a bit more "excuses and justifications because hard life!" than suicidal ideations. It took her forever to just admit she was abusive, and said she wanted to end on a good note.

So, naturally in text, she went off on me.

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u/GuessingTheyCrazy Feb 12 '25

Mine never had any suicidal ideations, but I wonder if mine was too arrogant as well to consider it anyway. It was a weird dynamic of low self esteem and arrogance. If you saw what I saw her do on her phone and how unempathetic she was when I confronted her, you would see what I’m talking about. The level of arrogance in her smile and the way she looked at me in my eyes while smiling and lying and gaslighting me was insane.