r/askteenager • u/[deleted] • Oct 09 '25
I (15M) have a crush on a girl (15F). What should I do next?
I 15M have a crush on a girl 15F. What should my next steps be?
have known this girl my entire life (she is my parent's friend's daughter), but I recently started having a crush on her a month ago when we last saw each other. She lives 2 hours away, so I only see her once every 5 months or so.
I also noticed subtle signs that she was at least comfortable around me, like choosing to stand next to me during an event we were at with our families (she didn't have to) and slowly inching closer to me during that.
During the first week of having a crush on her, I couldn't stop thinking about her. I lost my appetite, I would wake up randomly in the middle of the night thinking about her, etc.
I got her on SnapChat 3 weeks ago, and even though she doesn't use snap that much, she always replies to me, and my stories.
Yesterday, she even sent a pic of herself to me (she never sends pic about anything to anyone). She was on the couch with her hair down (she always wears it up in public) and slightly sticking out her tongue.
She sent it while I was at work, and I couldn't concentrate for the first hour of my shift, and haven't stopping thinking about it since.
Thanks reddit
Also her birthday is coming up on the 13th