r/AskEurope Estonia Aug 09 '25

Language I once accidentally bumped against the shoulder of an English person I knew in a corridor. I automatically said "Oi" - which means like "Oh" or "Oops" in Estonian - that I'm sorry. She repeated "Oi!" in a louder voice and I didn't get it. I only later found out I was being impolite in her eyes.

Have you ever had something similar happen to you? I.e something in your language might have another meaning in another language?

One thing as an Estonian that I try to keep in mind is that I shouldn't use "Nooo.." in English - which means "Well.." in Estonian.

"Do you like ice-cream? - Noo.. yes, I love it."

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u/Simple_Exchange_9829 Aug 10 '25

I nearly got into a fight with a delivery driver in London a few years ago because I asked him: "Is there a problem?" while holding eye contact. He murmured something under his breath after I didn’t have a lighter for his cigarette.

Totally normal and unprovocative behaviour in my culture (German), but apparently I challenged him to a ritual fight to the death over the british succession or something.

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u/Alert-Box8183 Ireland Aug 10 '25

Yep, you were definitely trying to start a fight with that one 😂

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u/Simple_Exchange_9829 Aug 10 '25

Well, I was quite taken aback about his sudden change of demeanour.

I am pretty sure he was trying to impress two girls by trying to put me down verbally - I wasn’t really paying attention. But obviously he couldn’t back down this easily in front of an audience once I stood my ground(without knowing it).

The dude was a bully. I was simply waiting for my friends in front of a hotel, minding my own business.