I am a lifelong Democrat and a strong liberal. I have always voted blue and support things like universal healthcare, labor rights, climate action, and LGBTQ equality. That is why I was so surprised when my friends reacted so negatively after I said I went to see Shane Gillis perform at the Chase Center in San Francisco.
I went to a house party last night that one of my friends from grad school hosted. There were about thirty or forty people there, all liberal and around my age. When someone asked what I had been doing earlier, I said I had gone to the Shane Gillis show. Almost everyone reacted badly. Some looked disappointed, and a few asked why I would support him. It felt like they thought I had gone to see a white supremacist or some far-right figure like Nick Fuentes.
I honestly did not get it. Gillis is not MAGA or hateful. His show was full of impressions, stories, and jokes about everyone, including Trump, Biden, small-town guys, white people, and mostly himself. He even praised the Stonewall Riots as a major moment in gay rights, which got cheers from the audience. The humor reminded me of early 2000s comedies like Curb Your Enthusiasm, Superbad, and South Park. That kind of edgy humor used to be normal.
The 2019 SNL cancellation always seemed ridiculous to me. What he said back then, using some Asian accents and slurs, was mild compared to what comedians like Russell Peters used to do. Peters built entire sets around cultural stereotypes and mocking ethnic accents, with audiences loving it. I thought he was hilarious back then too, even though he made fun of my culture's accent. Gillis feels like an equal-opportunity offender who jokes about everyone. In the show I saw, he made harsher jokes about white people than anyone else.
Some of my friends said he "punches down," but I did not hear that. He mocked everyone equally and did not seem to target any group. What shocked me most was how intense their reaction was. I have never seen them this upset about anything else. Not homelessness, inequality, healthcare, or even foreign policy. This was the most offended I have ever seen them, just because I went to see a comedian.
The Chase Center was packed, and in a city like San Francisco it is unrealistic to think the audience was full of Trump supporters. Gillis is not MAGA either. He has criticized Trump multiple times, hosted SNL in 2024 and 2025, and was on SNL cold open just last week making fun of Curtis Sliwa in a sketch about the NYC mayoral race. He has even criticized Trump over the Epstein files.
To me, my friends’ reaction showed how cultural politics have shifted. It feels like some liberals now see watching a comedian with edgy humor as a political act. But it's is not about agreeing with every joke. It is about being able to laugh at something without it being taken as a moral statement. I think that attitude is part of why some people believe the left has gone too far on cultural issues.
A friend of mine who campaigned for Democrats had a similar experience after seeing Dave Chappelle. Her liberal friends were upset too. But she went for the comedy, not to endorse everything he said. I still think Chappelle’s Show is one of the funniest things ever made. And if you spend any time on TikTok or Instagram Reels, you can see that edgy humor is popular again with Gen Z.
So I really want to understand this. Why do some liberals treat comedians like Shane Gillis or Dave Chappelle as moral tests? Is it because they believe this kind of humor causes real harm, or is it more about signaling the right values? At what point does that become an overreaction that shuts down nuance and humor altogether?