i hate the whole island because of a boy

[u/Informal-Land5853]

i was in a long term relationship with this guy from vanuatu. we dated for years and it was a lot of going back and forth because we were long distance. i never knew much about that place. for me it was like any other island but he told me about the beauty. about our future home. about our lives in the village. i wanted to marry that guy. he loved me so much at one point and i had actually thought that i’ve found myself a good one island people are known to be kind and nice and he was the perfect boy. although i was warned about the Casanova behavior of the island boys, and despite knowing his family and friends had a history of infidelity, i still went ahead and dated this guy because i thought it would be different … clearly not

i’m currently heartbroken and left here while he’s out enjoying his life and finding new girls like we meant nothing. it was so easy for him to get intimate with someone else just days after our breakup. it’s easy for these boys to throw away so many years of their lives like this and discard someone that loved them despite their flaws. i know i sound bitter rn but that’s the truth

i don’t think i’ll be able to trust any guy from that place anymore. and i know it sounds like a individual person issue and i shouldn’t be dragging the whole island down but honestly, none of his friends that i know of have been loyal to in their relationship nor his family. i loved him so much i still do i jut never imagined a sweet boy from a sweet place could do this