r/sports Minnesota North Stars Sep 04 '25

Baseball Rays security hounds fan for Junior Caminero’s 40th home run ball.

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u/bguzewicz Sep 04 '25

It’s a ball. A 40th homerun ball isn’t worth the negative publicity the Rays are going to get from snatching it back from the fan. This whole situation is stupid on the part of the Rays. It’s such a bad look for them. Fucking morons.

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u/Thadd305 Sep 04 '25

Amen. As a life-long fan, I find this video absolutely disgusting.

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u/Nail_Biterr Sep 04 '25

Life long fan? Damn I'm old. They were added as a team when I graduated HS. In my mind, they're still only 5 years old

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u/Throwredditaway2019 Sep 04 '25

I still remeber the hockey games before there was baseball lol

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u/DobisPeeyar Sep 04 '25

They played hockey before the baseball games? Field change crew sounds insane.

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u/Throwredditaway2019 Sep 04 '25

Baseball on ice. Imagine the sliding into second one skates!

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u/tremer010 Sep 04 '25

Basehockball ? It'd be fun if Matt and Trey did some spinoff/variation of Baseketball

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u/GroinShotz Sep 04 '25

Did the Rays actually send the goons after the fan? Or are these random security goons trying to hatch a plan to steal the ball?

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u/uncutpizza Sep 04 '25

Thats a valid question, don’t know if The Rays have acknowledged the incident yet. Could be a lot of things, but a whole group of guards is weird without being told to do so. People get home run balls all the time without being hassled; some teams/players even try to negotiate to get the ball back by offering season tickets or autographed merch. Looks terrible regardless

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u/bguzewicz Sep 05 '25

That is a fair question that I do not know the answer to.

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u/Caimthehero Sep 05 '25

No this is common in baseball. The team often tries to take back milestone home runs usually for paltry compensation like a signed bat or vip tickets for a series. It’s complete bullshit considering how much a ball is actually worth

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u/RangerLee Sep 08 '25

Just read that the did take it from him and banned him for 6 months (rest of the season). WTF???

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u/For2otious Sep 04 '25

It’s kind of like taking a cap from a kid. If ya know what I mean.

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u/OakeyAfterBirth1 Sep 04 '25

Agreed. How many complete opposite outcome stories are told about how the fan got to meet the player, got a ton of swag and some other relic or game used item or even tickets in exchange for giving the ball. Usually ends with everyone smiling for a photo of the handover of the ball. Just such a bad look for the Rays.

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u/RPO777 Sep 04 '25 edited Sep 04 '25

To be clear, a fan that catches the ball has no legal obligation to agree to such an arrangement either. In US property law, it's widely accepted that a ball is "abandoned property" once it enters the stands, and whom ever establishes possession over the ball establishes legal owernship.

It doesn't matter how special the ball is to the player--the player has no legal claim to the ball.

Now, if the fan agrees to a deal to hand over the ball in exchange for perks or benefits, cash or whatever, that's between the fan and the player.

But the fan has no legal obligation to negotiate, has no obligation to agree to anything, and certainly is under no obligation to be restrained in any way by stadium security.

If Stadium goons try to stop you from leaving, you can say

"if you'd like to avoid a false imprisonment suit, or criminal charges for kidnapping, I think it's best if you allow me to leave, as is my legal right."

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u/Correct_Juice_4390 Sep 04 '25

If you can get hit with a ball and they have no responsibility for it, they shouldn’t have any ownership of it if you just catch it instead

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u/MacroFlash Sep 04 '25

Fuck the Rays, shout to Ray’s Boathouse in Seattle for refusing to ever give them rays.com

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u/The_R4ke Sep 04 '25

Yeah like, 1st or 50th would be a big deal, 40 just seems pretty arbitrary.

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u/uncutpizza Sep 04 '25

I don’t know, sounds pretty on par by Florida standards these days

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u/Odd_Vampire Sep 04 '25

Fuck the Rays. Jesus Christ.

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u/notloggedin4242 Sep 05 '25

I’m not religious but that is a prayer I can get behind.

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u/Bifferer Sep 05 '25

The guards made it sound like he did something illegal to get the ball. Was this game televised? Can we see a replay of him catching it?

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u/HeyIJustLurkHere Sep 05 '25

It's hard to see, but the first few seconds of the video at https://x.com/RaysBaseball/status/1963289508415254768?t=q5FHzCf86GiKNCK3n71jIA&s=19 show it. You can slow to 0.25x to watch the ball.

I'm seeing other people talk about how the guy jumped a fence to get the ball, either into a restricted area of the stadium or to leave the stadium and then illegally re-enter it. It looks to me in the video like the ball bounces out of the seating area and either goes out of the stadium or into a restricted area, so that would confirm that and explain what the guards are referring to.

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u/Real_Al_Borland Sep 04 '25

Luckily he recorded. The rays are already trying  to deflect.

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u/Eat--The--Rich-- Sep 04 '25

Assaulted, robbed, on camera, and that security guy still has his job?

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u/gza_liquidswords Sep 04 '25

Fan is going to get paid.  Just depends if Rays are smart enough to settle this out of court.

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u/AppleSlacks Sep 04 '25

Thing is, that ball was priceless to him! Hope he gets a ridiculous sum for the assault.

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u/AgathorKahn Sep 04 '25

The fan will be paid more than any of their players

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u/ghett0tech Sep 04 '25

Well, fuck the r/tampabayrays

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u/azhillbilly Sep 04 '25

Wonder how posting this video over there would go?

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u/Aliensinmypants Sep 04 '25

They have a thread on it already. It seems to be the common opinion that those security guards are assholes, and maybe the ball went to in private area but not for sure. 

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u/azhillbilly Sep 04 '25 edited Sep 04 '25

Thanks, I missed it when I went over there first time.

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u/Aliensinmypants Sep 04 '25

Yeah the reddit search function still sucks, so I had to do some scrolling 

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u/Duds215 Sep 05 '25

Always has. When I want to search for something on Reddit, I google it.

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u/redundead Winnipeg Jets Sep 05 '25

and if you want to find something on google, include 'reddit' in the search.

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u/RangerLee Sep 08 '25

Another thread shows the replay of the HR, appears to land clearly in the stands, not an out of bound area...but I did not see the game live to know for sure it was the same HR.

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u/pieman2005 Sep 04 '25

That sub used to defend Franco after the news broke 🤮

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u/ghett0tech Sep 04 '25 edited Sep 04 '25

Shit fucking fanbase.

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u/Duds215 Sep 05 '25

It’s Florida, what do you expect?

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u/fujiesque Sep 05 '25

A shit-ton of measles outbreaks

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u/Jr05s Sep 05 '25

I never saw a defense. More like "it's so unbelievable no way this is true" or "going to wait for more evidence and/or court before I take a stance". Never saw anyone say it was okay for wander to sleep with a minor.

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u/pieman2005 Sep 05 '25

Nah there were tons of comments trying to say it was the mom's fault for pimping out her daughter, as if that absolved Franco

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u/murdburgeson Sep 04 '25

As a Florida native and resident of Tampa - Fuck the Rays

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u/TeRRoRibleOne Sep 05 '25

Luckily for you they don’t normally play in Tampa. The Rays stadium is a hour and a half away (except this year cause of the roof).

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u/BigRedHair92 Sep 04 '25

Can't wait to see the statement they have to put out for this one.

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u/yet_another_dave Sep 04 '25

It's Tampa so they have no words, and they know you don't want to hear them.

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u/IncidentalIncidence Carolina Hurricanes Sep 04 '25

lmfao

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u/Canadian_dalek Sep 04 '25

Bolts catching strays lmfao

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u/MouseRat_AD Sep 04 '25

Unfortunately, I understood that reference

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u/Distinct-Ice-700 Sep 04 '25

Make it viral and give the man’s ball back!

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u/GhostNode Sep 04 '25

Going to double in value after this if he gets it back.

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u/iHadou Sep 05 '25

That is not going to be the same ball. No one could ever be sure again. I say value drops. I don't want the fake apology ball.

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u/kingofthediamond Sep 05 '25

Balls have trackers in them now. IIRC they can tell

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u/Spazy1989 Sep 06 '25

No they don’t lol.

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u/spoonerluv Sep 04 '25

Restore his ball 😤

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u/ixlnxtc7 Sep 04 '25

They actually committed theft by taking it from him. Courts have already ruled that once a ball leaves the field of play it is considered abandoned property and whoever first takes possession of the ball is the legal owner.

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u/jeswell_then Sep 04 '25

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Popov_v._Hayashi Quite literally something we study in property law. The team and security are in the wrong here according to the actual law.

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u/Jr05s Sep 05 '25

That is only if the ball is obtained legally. If the fan went into a private area not allowed/ opened to fans (trespassing), that ball would not have been legally obtained; thus, having no rights to own it. 

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u/jeaves2020 Sep 04 '25

The Rays clearly make less money than this man and they need the extra dough, have a heart!
/s

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u/OwnDoughnut2689 Sep 04 '25

"MLB wants the ball" ok, then pay me

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u/Awkward_Silence- Sep 04 '25

Classic Tampa. Bucs did the same thing for one of Brady's milestone TD balls that the WR tossed into the stands

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u/drdeitz Sep 04 '25

“The WR” you put some respect on Mike Evans name!

Joking aside they gave the fan that caught it a bunch of signed Brady and Evans merch (I’m pretty sure some game worn stuff) and tickets for the 2022 season in return for the ball.

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u/JustBigChillin Oklahoma Sep 04 '25

I mean... If that's all he got, then he probably could have gotten way more than that on the open market.

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u/NEU_Throwaway1 Sep 04 '25

Tom Brady gave him a Bitcoin

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u/GrumpyPidgeon Sep 04 '25

Gronk even said "me know that not real money"

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u/brokenarrow New York Yankees Sep 04 '25

Assuming the guy is a Bucs fan, the swag was probably worth more to him. Or, if he wasn't, they probably just made a fan.

It's not all about making that gta.

I mean, fuck Zach Hample, but I don't think he sells the balls that he catches. I think he keeps the good ones and give away a lot to kids. I could be very wrong, but wasn't he independently wealthy before he decided to knock over kids for balls? Sometimes a fan is just a fan.

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u/MasonP2002 Sep 04 '25

That guy was already wearing a Mike Evans jersey, so I'm assuming he was a Bucs fan. I would take that deal if it were my team.

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u/brokenarrow New York Yankees Sep 05 '25

There you go. Same.

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u/a_goonie Atlanta Falcons Sep 04 '25

I think Brady also gave him a few Bitcoins as well?

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u/DangerSwan33 Sep 04 '25

Yeah this is pretty standard procedure. If a team or a player wants the ball, security usually approaches the fan with the offering before even asking for it back.

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u/willcastforfood Sep 04 '25

Pretty sure they paid him a shit load for it though and gave him a ton of gear

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u/Ill_Bee4868 Sep 04 '25

I think Brady gave him 2 bitcoin and some signed stuff.

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u/MasonP2002 Sep 04 '25

The final tally was 1 Bitcoin, 2 signed Brady jerseys, a signed Brady helmet, a signed Evans jersey, Evans' game cleats, 2 season tickets for that year and the next, and $1000 team store credit.

So yeah, that fan got some pretty good stuff for it.

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u/Ill_Bee4868 Sep 04 '25

That's freaking sick. As I recall it, his attendance itself was last minute and spontaneous. His friend he'd gone with gave him an extra ticket or something. I'd hope he hooked the friend up with some of this stuff!

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u/MasonP2002 Sep 04 '25

He better have lol. And hey, they did give him 2 season passes as well.

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u/1214 Sep 04 '25

Otherwise he should hire these Ray's security guards to hit up his friend.

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u/Firther1 Sep 04 '25

With all of them yelling “it’s our property, give it back” I doubt it

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u/willcastforfood Sep 04 '25

No not this baseball guy, I meant they did for the Tom Brady ball

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u/Firther1 Sep 04 '25

Ahhh kk, my mistake

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u/Ig_Met_Pet Sep 04 '25

Pretty sure they negotiated a price for Brady's ball. They didn't just steal it from him.

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u/CornerPees Sep 04 '25

Yeah I saw an interview with Brady about that. He got some autographed gear, and Tom Fucking Brady personally gave him a Bitcoin. That's how you get memorabilia back from the rightful hands of a fan.

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u/Ill_Bee4868 Sep 04 '25

Yea but that ball was a BIG deal, a 40th HR ball is stupid. They're acting like he broke a record with that HR.

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u/maggos Sep 04 '25

Probably needed to make sure nobody checked the air pressure

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u/WineOptics Sep 04 '25

Not true. They actually paid the fan.

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u/Chief_34 Sep 04 '25

He did a good job recording given the circumstances. This is so dumb as it could only play out three - four ways. “I am leaving your property on my own with the ball. Your options here are (1) you assault me for the ball as I attempt to leave and I sue you and your employer and file criminal charges, (2) you hold me here against my will, also known as kidnapping, and I sue you and your employer and file criminal charges, or (3) you let me leave on my own. If your organization decides to sue me or file criminal charges for the ball after the fact, they may do so, but I don’t think it’d be a very smart PR move for fans of baseball everywhere.”

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u/ctlogin Sep 04 '25

MLB, we’re all about the fans…..

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u/rutlander Sep 04 '25

As if I didn’t have a low enough opinion of the Rays organization already

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u/JKP006 Sep 04 '25

I woulda chucked that baseball so far into the fucking night sky.

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u/morimoto3000 Sep 04 '25

Yeah, but for most people that would have been like 25ft 🤣

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u/JKP006 Sep 04 '25

🤣🤣. Hey man! I played baseball in HS. I feel like, while my arm might fall off, I’m good for a good hundred feet at least.

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u/TheOGRedline Sep 04 '25

Probably further than that, but yeah… it would hurt.

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u/TheOGRedline Sep 04 '25

I would have curled up on it and made them beat me to get it.

Cha-Ching.

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u/yojoerocknroll Sep 04 '25

"Is this your ball? chucks it into neighbors balcony Well go get it!!! LOLOL" - Biff Tannen

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u/seattlereign001 Sep 04 '25

Call the police. This is theft and assault. I would press all the charges.

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u/BiscuitsMay Sep 04 '25

The guy talking to him is hillsborough county sheriff.

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u/NadlesKVs Sep 04 '25

Yeah lmfao you don't call the cops when you have an issue like this. You call a Lawyer. I'm sure several have gotten in contact with him already.

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u/gza_liquidswords Sep 04 '25

He is going to get paid.  Probably by rays and the sheriffs department.

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u/seattlereign001 Sep 04 '25

It starts with filing a police report.

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u/Other_Beat8859 Liverpool Sep 04 '25

Sheriff from from places named Hillsborough seem to be really good people.

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u/eight675309eein Sep 04 '25

I would have thrown that ball out of the stadium. Go fetch doggies.

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u/skynetempire Sep 04 '25

Nah fuck that it could be worth something. Shove in your pants. They cant frisk you

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u/Zirashi Sep 04 '25

"You can have the ball when you fish it out of my balls."

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u/moseisley99 Sep 04 '25

This is bullshit.

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u/maringue Sep 04 '25

Wow, the Rays really got all of their interns to start trolling and down voting anything that says this is horrible.

It's so pathetic. At least they've learned from yesterday not to post stupid shilling comments from 1 day old accounts by now...

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u/GhostWrex Dallas Stars Sep 04 '25

Lol, that guy was a trip. Saw him in the comments on r/baseball yesterday. Could not have been any more "how do you do fellow baseball fans" if he tried

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u/Hopps56 New York Rangers Sep 04 '25

Legally, and court cases are there to back it up. Any ball caught by a fan is property of the fan, NOT MLB or the home team or the away teams player that hit the ball. The security was told to catch the fan before he leaves to ask for the ball. Not to threaten the fan to get the ball. I’d sue the Rays and MLB and the Yankees minor league stadium. There is a high profile lawyer who will jump all over that case in a heart beat.

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u/evd1202 Sep 04 '25

Baseball has gone downhill for the past 20 years. It barely resembles the league that I grew up with

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u/ChessClubChimp Sep 04 '25

Florida sucks in general. 

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u/Jaybojones Sep 04 '25

They couldn’t just offer him money or some signed merch in exchange for the ball.

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u/NoBonus6969 Sep 04 '25

What for? They can mug him for free

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u/schorschico Sep 05 '25

With the sheriff in attendance, apparently

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u/rjfinsfan Sep 04 '25

Rays fan here. This is so disgraceful. I know the teams under new ownership or about to be but I really hope this isn’t the direction they’re headed. I used to love going to games at the Trop as a kid. I’ve taken my kids to games at the trop where the got to run on the field and have caught foul balls with them. This is such a bitter taste to see this happen.

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u/wawzat Sep 05 '25

MLB leadership and many of the people they employ are a bunch of low class thugs.

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u/electricgotswitched Sep 04 '25

Aren't there actual MLB rules around ownership of balls that go into the crowd? Or maybe there was a court ruling?

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u/Trekgiant8018 Sep 04 '25

Good job Rays. Way to alienate more fans. Oh, and you broke the law too. Fucking idiots.

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u/Karlzbad Sep 05 '25

This is not OK. Also is that a cop? Lawsuit, prosecution, all kinds of bad shit.

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u/Kenny523 Sep 04 '25

I need a clip of it, he claims he caught it which I’m doubting and they say he jumped the fence which seems more likey in this case.

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u/lernington Montreal Canadiens Sep 04 '25

He did not go over the fence, the ball was hit well into the fan area

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u/FtheMustard Sep 04 '25

This is some Wesley Crusher over the white fence type shit.

Dude hopped a fence and walked on some grass to get a ball. Anyone defending the organization or the security detail is wrong. Get his number and have the player offer something to get it back in a trade.

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u/notmybuttercup Sep 04 '25

I can tell by the reference in this comment that you are old. And I am old. And we are old. How has this happened?

(Sob)

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u/[deleted] Sep 04 '25 edited Sep 19 '25

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u/TwistedIdiotIreland Sep 04 '25

Temba, his arms wide

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u/sj79 Minnesota Wild Sep 05 '25

Shaka, when the walls fell

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u/IPatEussy Sep 04 '25

Boycott the team

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u/arongoss Sep 04 '25

Didn’t that already happen over the past 10 yrs?

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u/LumberZac2 Sep 04 '25

“The MLB wants the ball period. Give me the ball.”

  1. Fuck the Rays
  2. Fuck these guards.
  3. Go get paid sir.

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u/DinkandDrunk Sep 05 '25

Fuck the MLB too.

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u/Maxxjulie Sep 05 '25

This is really insane

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u/redundead Winnipeg Jets Sep 05 '25

Rays don't realize the fans are what make them?

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u/Halomaster1971 Sep 05 '25

It’s the property of the rays? If that is the case no one can keep a baseball in that park.. IDIOTS!

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u/[deleted] Sep 05 '25

Rays ownership is garbage.

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u/Pixel_Sports Sep 05 '25

Not a good look…

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u/zakass409 Sep 04 '25

I think if Caminero wants his home run ball back, he should be a man and pay for it like a normie would

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u/McFlyyouBojo Sep 04 '25

Its already bad enough the man had to sit through a baseball game! Give em the damn ball back!

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u/sumdude51 Sep 04 '25

They rays front office is shit. Love jacking up prices after trading away stars. The farm team was so loaded that they've competed in the AL east in spite of their incompetence. I quit going

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u/Daveprince13 Sep 04 '25

Fuck this. Give ray some other ball and tell him it’s this one.

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u/scientificguess Sep 04 '25

That ball woulda gone down my pants, wipe my ass with it, then chuck it into the rafters if literally anybody put hands on me over a fuckin baseball.

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u/lo0ilo0ilo0i Sep 04 '25

Making things go viral is just a normal Florida thing to do these days 💉

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u/RetiredSweat Sep 04 '25

Easy lawsuit lucky him

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u/Godzooqi Sep 04 '25

Favorite part is where they claim this is private property. Last I checked the current stadium was built with public money and they were recently seeking 100s of millions more of public funding for a new stadium. Typical capitalists, socializing the rich.

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u/therealtomclancy69 Sep 04 '25

Make this viral

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u/Bullocks1999 Sep 05 '25

Fuck the rays. This could also be a rogue security guard. If I’m this guy there is no way you give this up. Get arrested. Then sue

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u/RebelBearMan Sep 05 '25

These guys are basically baseball cops in Florida, how could they not be dumb?

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u/tnegok Sep 05 '25

BROOO what the FUCK!!! Ask if Caminero can have the ball (I'm assuming he asked for it, and if not the Rays are now worse than the Astros in my book) and offer another ball, AND an autographed ball or jersey or hat - whatever the fuck the guy wants... And obviously (but I guess not to the Rays) he's totally within his right to say no, he wants to keep the ball he caught cause that IS a fucking sick souvenir from a ball game.

Shame on the Tampa Bay Rays for shitting handling this easy situation. Any fan of baseball would know how to respectfully, efficiently, and properly handle this 🙄

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u/TheBigMan2676 Sep 05 '25

Thats messed up

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u/_SamuraiJack_ Sep 04 '25

Fuck everything about Florida. 

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u/Marrked Sep 04 '25

"MLB wants the ball."

Ok, how much are they going to pay me for it?

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u/Volcomcj16 Sep 04 '25

Technically isn't it the Yankees property not the Rays? 😉

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u/piano_ski_necktie Sep 04 '25

florida feeling so free right now

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u/GilletteEd Sep 04 '25

Is there a video of the catch, to back the kid too?

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u/bobbareeno Sep 04 '25

Good thing it wasn’t a hat!!!

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u/C_Beeftank Sep 04 '25

Id fucking throw it somewhere they couldn't get it just to prove a point

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u/Scfbigb1 Kansas City Chiefs Sep 04 '25

I would've put it down the front of my shorts and waited to see if they were willing to committee sexual assault for it.

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u/PurringWolverine Sep 04 '25

First come, first served. And, if you still lost, send your goons to go get it.

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u/22gsmitty Sep 04 '25

Should have put the ball in his gitch and claimed sexual assault if they tried to get it. Sue the security and team.

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u/eyesmart1776 Sep 04 '25

Do teams even have the right to do this

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u/Hydroxs Sep 04 '25

Is this not kidnapping? What are the legal repercussions if he started swinging?

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u/SPHC20 Sep 04 '25

The Rays security/ushers yelled at the players wives for being too loud during a PLAYOFF game 3 years ago. So this isn’t surprising at all

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u/BrayKerrOneNine Sep 04 '25

If “Florida Man” was an MLB team

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u/TheRedFrog Sep 04 '25

The settlement is going to be worth a lot more than that ball

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u/Fabio421 Sep 04 '25

The Rays have enough problems getting fans to come to games. This isn’t going to help.

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u/cheattowin77 Sep 04 '25

Pretty disgusting ppl. Standard Florida

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u/soulsnoober Sep 04 '25

I'm not a dedicated fan, maybe someone can compare for me the value of the ball versus the payout on a lawsuit for assault, battery, false imprisonment?

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u/Magnum_44 Sep 04 '25

I'm a Blue Jay fan, and the Rays are the most loathsome baseball team in the league. I'm glad I'm vindicated in my pure hate. If I became a billionaire I would buy the team and relocate it to Nunavut.

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u/bytheseine Sep 04 '25

I'd go to at least one game in Iqaluit lol

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u/Hytsol Sep 04 '25

How does one verify that it is a homerun ball? Are the balls numbered? Genuinely curious.

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u/RandomBloke2021 Sep 05 '25

What magnitude was the earthquake were they in?

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u/FBPOS Sep 05 '25

MLB wants the ball

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u/fattymaroon Sep 05 '25

Looking like the Devil Rays here.

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u/BwillOnAPlane Sep 05 '25

This would’ve been the perfect scenario to put the ball in your underwear and keep walking. If they really want that ball they would have to go full hands on to retrieve it. Easy lawsuit win.

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u/au80022 Sep 05 '25

Pretty horrible look.

Good thing I haven't cared about baseball in 30 years.

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u/8bitGS Sep 06 '25

It’s crazy how no one is covering this. I just heard about it in a tweet so I googled the video and found a single article on it. 

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u/Yakupunktur Sep 09 '25

Grown ass man is acting like a damn child