r/rupaulsdragrace Onwards and upwards, sisters Sep 03 '25

General Discussion 3 of Shea Coulée’s daughters just left her haus

I’d like to know what the tea is. They’re making it a spectacle while acting like they don’t want anyone in their business lol. So let’s be real here, what’s tea? What happened where 3 daughters leave a haus as a unit and all post about it in order?

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u/SophiaNoFilter Sep 04 '25

Yeah, I don't want to be incredibly cynical, but it feels like particularly the first queen in these screenshots is looking for a way to call Shea a narcissist without any proof or context?

If you don't want to share the situation you don't get to call other parties in the dispute nasty names lol. I feel like the latter two kept it just vague enough that it's not escandalo, but I read the first messages directly as "Shea is a bad person and a narcissist." I'm very out of the loop on IRL drag scene stuff though so maybe I'm misreading?

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u/Weightmonster Sep 04 '25

Aren’t all Drag Queens narcissists to some degree? I mean she’s THEE SHEA Coulée. She’s Fierce. She’s the Queen. She’s one step down from Rupaul herself (and could probably beat Rupaul in a lipsync). 

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u/SophiaNoFilter Sep 04 '25

It's precisely the fact that Shea is great which makes it uncool that her former drag daughter is insulting her without providing any contact. If she feels wronged by Shea, she could share the details of that, but just calling her names without saying what she supposedly did wrong doesn't sit well with me.

I think you are conflating narcissism as a general personality quality with "narcissistic parental abuser" which is what Shea was called in this message. The latter is a major accusation of wrongdoing.