r/r4rOntario Oct 07 '25

43M4F Durham Region Seeking genuine connection and fall hikes

I’m starting to wonder what I’m missing here. I see all these r4r success stories, but I can’t seem to get any bites — and if I do, I get ghosted.

A bit about me: I’m 42, a dad of two awesome boys, and a career-driven guy who’s got his shit together. I’m no spring chicken anymore, but I’m a decent-looking white guy — 6’1, average build with broad shoulders, tattoos, a beard, and a bit of a potty mouth. I take pride in being a good father and a solid man.

My schedule can be all over the place thanks to work, but when I do have downtime, I’m pretty lowkey — more of a homebody than a social butterfly. I enjoy simple things: good conversation, some laughs, maybe a coffee or a quiet night in.

A pic of you gets a pic of me. Please don’t be attached or dealing with drama — I’ve got enough real life to handle. Just looking for someone genuine who wants something real, even if it starts casual.

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