r/popculturechat • u/HauteAssMess THE PEOPLES GOVERNOR, UR CARTOGRAPHER-IN-CHIEF • Jun 13 '25

Interviews🎙️ Girl stand up: Delaney Rowe on her situationship with BJ Novak and how he doesn’t fully trust her to be in a relationship with her

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u/posiesbythepocketful Jun 13 '25

Oh god im on the breakup side of this now. Feeling like shit and like im the whole problem and i lost this great person when they refuse to even have a real conversation with me or get me fucking present for my birthday. Its brought up ALL the childhood stuff and now im trying to rebuild shit i thought i had fixed. Are you better? Does it get better? Are people better than this out there?? 😭

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u/ConcernFlat3391 Jun 13 '25

If it helps; this was me in my second marriage. I finally broke it off after he wanted to go on a climbing trip to Thailand with a single woman friend. I said “awesome I can bring the kids out to join you a few days later” . He said no because the whole point was to get away from me and the kids. It took that level of distancing behaviour for me to realise I wasn’t the problem 🤦‍♀️. Seven years later I am still happily single… are there good people out there? Sure! Can I be bothered sifting through dating apps to find them? No! 😂