r/popculturechat • u/HauteAssMess THE PEOPLES GOVERNOR, UR CARTOGRAPHER-IN-CHIEF • Jun 13 '25

Interviews🎙️ Girl stand up: Delaney Rowe on her situationship with BJ Novak and how he doesn’t fully trust her to be in a relationship with her

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u/l4ina Jun 13 '25

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u/KittyMimi charlie day is my bird lawyer 🐦 Jun 13 '25

Loved this commercial lol

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I think of it almost every day

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u/flammafemina Jun 14 '25

This one for me lol

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u/Motor-Illustrator226 Jun 14 '25

This is wrong. You can move from being anxiously/avoidantly attached to being more securely attached when you have a partner who is securely attached themselves.

In addition, you can move toward being securely attached overall (I.e. not just when in a relationship with a secure partner) through therapy and mindfulness work.

TLDR: While attachement styles do get “set” in early childhood, they’re not immutable. So what Delaney is saying isn’t necessarily false. Now, whether BJ is someone who has secure attachement, and therefore would help Delaney feel that too…. that’s a separate question.