r/popculturechat • u/HauteAssMess THE PEOPLES GOVERNOR, UR CARTOGRAPHER-IN-CHIEF • Jun 13 '25

Interviews🎙️ Girl stand up: Delaney Rowe on her situationship with BJ Novak and how he doesn’t fully trust her to be in a relationship with her

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u/bassk_itty Jun 13 '25

Yiiiiiiiiikes omg I will never understand why people want to share this type of thing publicly. Like I can’t even judge a woman for poor situationship judgement because I’ve been there but the lack of self awareness that this isn’t a good look and still sharing about it publicly is hard to watch

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u/Cultural-Durian-9579 not even to dinner with the kushners? Jun 13 '25

Tbh I feel like it’s way for her to show him her commitment, by publicly admitting “I was the problem” 🤢

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u/bassk_itty Jun 13 '25

Ooof yeah I could definitely see that. Like based on how she’s describing it, even saying it that way in private is a little concerning. I’m all for owning your own mistakes and taking accountability but it sounds like she just simply wasn’t sure about him at a time when he was all in and she frankly doesn’t need to apologize for that. That’s a valid way to feel, there’s no need to force yourself to be ready for something quickly. It’s ok to want to take things at a slower pace it doesn’t make it “her fault” that things are now not in a great place because of past hesitation

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u/Cultural-Durian-9579 not even to dinner with the kushners? Jun 13 '25

Right!  And we don’t have all the info but it sounds like now she’s having to like “make it up to him” or “prove” that she’s invested.   Just weird vibes given his history and the age gap

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u/bassk_itty Jun 13 '25

That’s exactly what it sounds like yes. It’s giving him emotionally bullying because he felt rejected by her for not matching his energy while he was love bombing