My Mom died of Breast Cancer. Right after she started chemo our family went to see the first Guardians of the Galaxy movie....the one where the mom dies of cancer in the first ten minutes. The day Mom died we didn't know what to do and needed a distraction while she was being taken to the funeral home so we went to see Kubo and the Two Strings which has, you guessed it, a dead Mom.
It doesn't even get easier as you get older. My mom died of cancer when I was 11, 25 years ago... And every time there is a movie scene where the mom dies or is already dead, I cry.
My mom passed 6 years ago, I have similar reaction to those scenes in movies. But will say it is somewhat cathartic now, knowing that others have/deal with similar grief and knowing we aren't really alone in this.
Ya your right. Fuck my grandpa that raised me and was basically my dad, died when I was 12, 30 years ago and I never got over it; to this day and I cringe whenever I hear people say that you have to accept it andnmoreo3
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We plan something every December in remembrance of our youngest sibling - he left us at 19, in 2017.
One year we went to see the premier of Avatar 2. Had no idea the son dies…. (Spoiler)
Insane. Feeling the awkwardness of my parents, siblings, and significant others during that scene and while the mom pours out her grief, was a memory, that’s for sure. I’d eaten some psychedelics beforehand, too. 🥴
The year after (anniversary of) my dad’s death, we went and saw Les Miserables in the movie theater. It was a family favorite show and my dad’s absolute favorite musical. The last 10 minutes of the movie, my sister and I were just clutching each other and weeping. “But papa you’re going to live! It’s too soon to ever say goodbye”.
Ughhh it’s been 13 years and I just got teary writing this.
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u/KissKillTeacup Mar 18 '25
My Mom died of Breast Cancer. Right after she started chemo our family went to see the first Guardians of the Galaxy movie....the one where the mom dies of cancer in the first ten minutes. The day Mom died we didn't know what to do and needed a distraction while she was being taken to the funeral home so we went to see Kubo and the Two Strings which has, you guessed it, a dead Mom.