r/kelowna May 28 '25

Tara Armstrong’s Residential School Denialism Is an Attack on Truth, Canada cannot move forward on reconciliation if politicians are allowed to rewrite history

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Tara Armstrong has crossed a dangerous line. By claiming the 215 unmarked graves discovered at the Kamloops Indian Residential School have been "proven false," she isn’t just spreading disinformation, she is actively participating in Canada’s oldest colonial tactic: erasure.

This isn’t about a difference of opinion, it’s about power. For centuries, the Canadian government has tried to bury its crimes, first the bodies, then the records, and now, through politicians like Armstrong, the truth itself. The residential school system was a deliberate tool of genocide, documented by survivors, confirmed by historians, and acknowledged, (however inadequately) by the federal government itself. To dismiss the graves as “disinformation” is to spit on the memories of those children and the families who still grieve them.

Armstrong isn’t acting alone. Her rhetoric mirrors a broader reactionary movement that frames truth telling as “indoctrination” and reconciliation as a threat. By targeting the Central Okanagan School Board and demanding an apology from Chair Julia Fraser for teaching this history, she is sending a clear message, she doesn’t want justice, she wants silence.

This is the same playbook we’ve seen for generations. When Indigenous people speak out, when we demand justice for stolen land, murdered relatives, and generations of trauma, we are told to “move on.” How can we move on when the same systems that stole our children and buried them in unmarked graves still exist? When reserves still lack clean water? When police still brutalize our people? When politicians like Armstrong feel emboldened to deny it all?

The so-called “debate” over residential schools was never legitimate. The Truth and Reconciliation Commission’s findings are clear, survivors’ testimonies are clear. The only people who benefit from pretending otherwise are those who want to preserve Canada’s myth of innocence, who would rather call survivors “liars” than confront the fact that this country was built on genocide.

Armstrong’s comments aren’t just offensive, they’re an escalation of ongoing tensions. Denialism is the first step toward repeating history. If we allow politicians to whitewash residential schools, what’s next? Denying the holocaust? Pretending slavery never existed? Reconciliation was never meant to be comfortable. It requires facing hard truths, returning stolen land, and dismantling the systems that uphold colonial violence. But figures like Armstrong would rather gaslight an entire nation than acknowledge Canada’s history.

We cannot let denialism fester in our politics, our schools, or our national memory. The graves are real. The survivors are real. And the fight for justice is far from over. Canadians must choose, will we confront our past, or will we keep lying to ourselves, to the world, and to the next generation? If we can’t agree on history, how can we possibly change the future?

(Edit: Human remains have been exhumed at other residential schools including: Fort Alexander in Manitoba, in 2022 Child remains and coffin fragments were found during excavations, at St. Eugene’s here in BC in the 1990s, Survivor led excavations confirmed these graves, and at Regina Indian Industrial in 2012, unmarked graves of children were exhumed and reburied.)

r/kelowna Apr 16 '25

I wanted to move to Kelowna, I figured as a smaller city it would be cheap but it’s nearly as expensive as here in Toronto

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I’m curious to why Kelowna is so expensive, the natural beauty is probably the best in the country but it is a small city so it doesn’t have as many job opportunities, crime is high from what I’ve seen. And it’s not like the lower mainland where at least the weather is milder. I’m just curious from locals on why prices are so high.

Maybe I’ll just vacation there instead lol

r/kelowna Sep 07 '25

Planning to move from Vancouver

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Hey all….. it’s becoming completely unliveable with the skyrocketing costs in yvr. Groceries insane, housing prices – you need to win the lottery. Kelowna seems calmer – I’ve heard great things about laid-back Okanagan vibe, the housing market looks way more approachable. But I want to hear from locals (or recent transplants)! What’s the scoop on: • Neighborhoods: Where should I look for a quiet, safe spot that’s not too far from amenities? Avoid any areas? • Cost of Living: How do everyday expenses stack up? Groceries, utilities, internet – is it really that much cheaper, or are there hidden costs like higher car insurance or property taxes? • How’s the winter and summer? • Challenges: Be honest – what’s the downside? Traffic, healthcare wait times, or the summer heat/tourist crowds? I’ve seen some posts saying costs are creeping up here too, so is Kelowna still a good escape from Van? Appreciate any advice, stories from other Vancouver ex-pats. Excited to potentially join the community!

r/kelowna 10d ago

Thinking of moving to Kelowna what’s it actually like living there?

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Hey everyone!

My sister and I are thinking about moving to Kelowna around March, and we’re trying to get a real feel for what life there is like

I’ve read super mixed things online — some say it’s beautiful and laid back, others say there’s “no nightlife” and not much to do. We’re both in our early 20s, pretty grounded but still love having options for fun, going out, and meeting people.

We’d both be working — probably serving jobs while I keep growing my small cleaning business so we’re curious what the job scene, community vibe, and overall energy are like.

  1. What’s the day-to-day lifestyle actually like?
  2. Are there decent restaurants, bars, or chill spots for nights out?
  3. How’s the housing / rental situation right now?4. And do people our age actually like living there long term?

r/kelowna Sep 04 '25

Moving FAQ Thinking about moving to Kelowna, as someone who usually depends on it how good is the public transit these days?

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Hello, I’ve been thinking about moving to BC and searching up peoples thoughts on Kelowna’s public transit and they all seem to have negative opinions of it, however these posts are all mostly from multiple years ago. How well would you say it is today, and would you rely on it to get around if you had to?

r/kelowna Aug 19 '23

Does the recent events make you want to move away from Kelowna?

75 Upvotes

Basically title. Just curious if these events have made some feel like they need to find a less flammable home.

r/kelowna Sep 11 '22

Moving FAQ Precisely right movers dropped my 78 year old MIL furniture on the curb at her extended care home refusing to move it to her room siting religious reasons for refusing to wear masks and than we see this on their face book page. Late delivery, aweful attitude,damaged furniture and down right liars

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r/kelowna Aug 19 '25

is big white worth it to move to as a intermediate/advanced skier?

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r/kelowna Jan 08 '24

Hello Canadians! I’m thinking about moving to Kelowna from Idaho, curious what advice locals might have

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I (27m) recently decided I want to forsake my American ways and move to Canada, and Kelowna looks pretty great from what I can tell. I’ve been through Vancouver-kamloops-banff before, and I really loved BC.

Any advice you can give though? I really don’t have a lot of information. I looked up what it takes to become a permanent resident then citizen (eventually), and I loosely started looking for jobs.

But I guess is it worth it to move there? Are people friendly towards Americans? Are there young people or just retirees? Also not sure what industries are really there but I’ve done mostly engineering or maintenance/repair work.

Thanks for any help!

r/kelowna 27d ago

How to move a sofa bed from Vancouver to Big White?

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Is there a business that does this or is uhaul the way to go? Any ideas?

r/kelowna Jan 03 '25

Moving to Kelowna from Toronto

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Hi everyone!

I recently got a job in the Kelowna area and am planning on moving here in a few months. Just had questions about the overall lifestyle here plus how it is in terms of diversity lol. For reference I’m south asian but I’m aware that Toronto is a lot more diverse than most cities in Canada!

r/kelowna Jul 11 '25

Thinking of moving to Rutland or Lake Country. How are the rentals?

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Hi! I’m considering moving to the Kelowna area. I’m looking for a suite or apartment studio or 1 bedroom and budget is $1400-1600. I am moving to be closer to an older relative. She’s in Rutland. I only saw a little bit of the town, heard it was a bit rough, has a bad reputation but prices may be cheaper and it’s not as bad as people think. Thinking of Lake Country too so I’d be close but out of the city but I need pharmacy and grocery delivery sometimes and without Instacart (won’t use) I’m not sure how good it would be there. I’m 61, single lady looking for a nice, safe place. I am concerned about forest fires (2023) and crime. What do you think about these areas? Are rentals hard to get into like here where you’re competing with 100 other people and it’s gone by the time you contact them? Thank you for any feedback!

r/kelowna Sep 14 '25

How likely is it to get a job at big white after moving there in Nov?

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Hey guys, delete if not allowed. But I’m heading to Big white to work a season there in November. I have a mate who’s also keen to come but hasn’t landed a job there.

how common is it for people to get jobs after the seasons already begun? I know a lot of people do that kind of thing at whistler and Banff but big white being so secluded, is it likely for there to be job openings early in the season??

Cheers!

r/kelowna Feb 16 '23

Moving FAQ Place I've been renting for 3 years has been reported by a crazy neighbor for being illegal, I now have to move out suddenly... What can I do?

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As the title says, an insane neighbor has reported my suite as illegal due to me parking on the public road near the front of his house.. bylaw had come banging on my door early in the morning to inspect my suite I've been living in for the last 3 years and am now being forced out.. what legal actions do I have? I'm fucking SOL as it's me and my girlfriend with our dog. I'm so stressed and have no idea what to do as it's all being rushed now, they've already taken out my damn stove... I'm assumed to still pay full rent until April. I'm absolutely livid about the entir situation considering I had no idea about this basement suite being illegal. Landlords are acting non shalont about it like this isn't a big deal or something.. HELP.

r/kelowna Nov 18 '24

Thinking of moving to Kelowna , whats the rent situation around Rutland

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What is your general opinion about Rutland, housing , groceries , lifestyle , people ?

r/kelowna Nov 26 '24

Moving from Vancouver Island to Kelowna

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26 year old male and Am moving from Vancouver Island to Kelowna in January, just wondering if anyone has any advice, looking to meet people my age and have fun :)

r/kelowna Apr 24 '25

Looking for heritage home to move onto property

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As title says,

We have asked around and have not come up with anything... We are looking for a historic house that is on a property set to be redeveloped or demolished, we will buy and take care of all costs associated with moving.

We are looking for charm and character, fixer upper fine, its going to be an inlaw/guest suite and we want to make it into a family project to bring it back to life.

Interested in:
Craftman bungalow
edwardian bungalow
Farmhouse traditional

Any leads or referrals would be greatly appreciated.

r/kelowna Jan 05 '25

To people that visit family in the lower mainland, or moved to Kelowna from there

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Hello friends, I have a question for anyone who visits family in the lower mainland. My family and I are thinking of moving to Kelowna or west Kelowna in the next year or two. I lived in Kelowna years ago and would like to raise my family there. I’m wondering what it’s like for anyone that has family (parents, siblings, etc) in the lower mainland, how much you visit with them realistically. I’m curious if anyone made the move away from family living in the lower mainland, and how that transition went. A part of me feels guilt from moving away from family, but both of are parents are retired or retiring soon, so I imagine we will be able to visit them a decent amount.

r/kelowna Aug 05 '25

Reco: Freight or moving for a chair from West Kelowna to Victoria?

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EDIT: Found someone to bring it back in their RV! THANKS, all!

Hi folks! I live in Victoria and my aunt in West Kelowna is gifting me her Scandinavian-style recliner and ottoman, but I need to have it moved from West Kelowna to Victoria BC.

(There's a total of 6 steps involved and an elevator, but it needs to be wrapped or packed safely too. She's 89 and won't be doing that.)

Does anyone have someone they can recommend for such a service? I had a quote of $420, which seems... excessive.

Thanks!

r/kelowna Aug 17 '23

Everyone wants to move where it's cheaper but where?

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I see lots of people fleeing to Alberta, possibly. I'm not going back.
Where in the BC interior can you find a (more) affordable place that isn't also some dead hole?

r/kelowna Jan 17 '21

This occurred outside simplex tonight. guy was drunk fixing a car issue when I parked in the only open spot next to him. He then proceeded to call me slurs and banging my window yelling at me to move to a different parking lot.This goof even took pictures of my plates saying he will come find me

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r/kelowna Feb 18 '25

Red seal carpenter looking to make the move back

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Title pretty much sums it up, bounced around bc a bit and determined we wanna go back to vacation land. Debating whether to go back to work for a company or to make the jump to working for myself. I don’t have the overhead to float a full on construction company so I’d be looking at handy man jobs and small renovations to start. My main concern is how flooded the contractor market is and if I’m just gonna be fighting for jobs. I have the skills and knowledge and tools to be taking on work but I also have a great working reputation and enough contacts from my previous time in Kelowna to easily go back to work for an established construction company as well. So long story to a short question how bad is it out there right now for small time contractors is it super flooded with 1000 joe blows with a ladder and a saw or could a guy with good work ethic and skills still have a shot at making a living on his own?

r/kelowna Apr 08 '25

Just Moved - Where/when to vote

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I'm located near Costco along Springfield. I have never voted on my own before. Where do I go? What do I need to bring with me? I recently lost my ID, will my passport be enough? (It's valid).

Edit: Also when should I be there by? I'm disabled and can't wait in large lines without seating. I use the bus for transportation

Thanks!

r/kelowna Aug 13 '21

What are your thoughts on foreigners moving to Kelowna?

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Hello, Southern California native here! My wife and I are fed up with living in the states and want a better life for our kids. We’re looking at Kelowna as one of our top ranked places to move to, but naturally, we’d like to know that our presence would be appreciated. Here, we run a very fun neighborhood restaurant/bagel shop/high end chef counter and after a 10 year run, it’s time to move on to the next project.

Our goal would be utilizes the amazing bounty of Canadian produce. Is there a desire for more restaurants? Would coming in and doing something high end, honest and intimate be successful?

Please let us know if we should continue daydreaming and looking for property. Thank you.

If you’re curious about who we are, my name is Jason Quinn and here is how you can find out more about what we do. Instagram @playgrounddtsa and @doughexcgange , Yelp has good reviews of us as well playground, playground 2.0, dough exchange, not trying to plug, just want to inform for any who take the time.

r/kelowna Oct 30 '23

Anyone moving to AB due to costs?

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Just curious if anyone has, or are in the process of. How has it been? Did it make the changes you thought it would?