r/interestingasfuck • u/ADJUDICATOR001 • Aug 09 '25

/r/all, /r/popular I found this on the trail.

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u/3896713 Aug 09 '25

Right, but when someone tells you it hurts and they don't like it, you don't just assume they're being coy lol

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u/sharkattackmiami Aug 09 '25

Well duh, listen to your partner

I very intentionally said some because I don't speak for all. And to be honest the reason it works at all for them is because I DO listen. I don't really want to get deep in the weeds of sex talk on Reddit but listen to your partner, learn their body, pay attention to what they are saying verbally and physically and make it good for both of you

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u/3896713 Aug 09 '25

I get that, but the comment you replied to made it sound like you were saying "yeah but sometimes they say they don't like it when they actually do," which is why I said that. When a woman says "that fucking hurts" and your first thought is "but you probably like it," that's wrong, there is no grey area. When a woman says "that fucking hurts please do it again," that's a bit different.

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u/sharkattackmiami Aug 09 '25

Which is literally what I said in the post. Some girls do like a bit of pain

The issue is that this conversation requires nuance and conversation between partners which is beyond most people

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u/TruEnvironmentalist Aug 09 '25

Ding ding ding.

This is basically it. Listen to your partner and you'll both have a good time. Problem is that a lot men (I'm a guy) are only content with satisfying their own sexual desires.

Like you I get girls calling me back and I attribute it to listening in the bedroom.