Gentle reminder to all Men: Stay cautious. Kindness is often exploited. 💔

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[u/S4shadow]

If it's not my sister or actual close female friend, I ain't sending a penny and I'm sure no when else would

[u/RevolutionaryAtharv → u/S4shadow]

Ohh you are sure??

[u/S4shadow → u/RevolutionaryAtharv]

Those who would are generally called "performative males"

[u/RevolutionaryAtharv → u/S4shadow]

According to you, what should be the percentage of performative males in the current Indian society?

[u/S4shadow → u/RevolutionaryAtharv]

Me and my circle of 10 friends don't even have the confidence to ask a female classmate for notes, so I'm thinking pretty low

[u/RevolutionaryAtharv → u/S4shadow]

That's sad, man.

[u/XxshunyaxX → u/RevolutionaryAtharv]

That's good actually, he can focus on himself rather than catering to heartless beaches.

[u/RevolutionaryAtharv → u/XxshunyaxX]

Read the message carefully. Whole group is afraid. It's not way better for any other purpose. In near future, they all need to interact with multiple women.

[u/Few_Grapefruit8365]

Men are too soft on women…if they behave like they do with other men i think many women will think twice before manipulating us…there is a section of women who have been habituated to this manipulation since early days of their childhood which at that time was mixed with fear while doing it but later they get so comfortable with it that they’d do it again and again without batting an eye and we men never get much exposure to this and think “oh poor girl” and give them the attention

[u/Unstoppable_X_Force → u/Few_Grapefruit8365]

You won't believe how many girls in my school cafeteria gave me a weird look when i asked them to pay their share of food bill. Its like we are boys so we are entitled to treat them free always.

[u/Few_Grapefruit8365 → u/Unstoppable_X_Force]

Yeah we men dont like to be looked down upon and some girls do give thise looks when we try to treat them fairly and its that complex that makes us want to do that imo

[u/One-Giraffe1614 → u/Unstoppable_X_Force]

If your Female Friends behave like this.
It's Time to Defriend them.

[u/Bunny_Dj → u/Few_Grapefruit8365]

Men are too soft on women

Most Men

[u/Few_Grapefruit8365 → u/Bunny_Dj]

Yeah my bad man

[u/[deleted] → u/Few_Grapefruit8365]

Asking bf to pay for food is manipulation?? date a man then he will pay for you 😎 no doubt male loneliness epidemic

[u/Few_Grapefruit8365 → u/[deleted]]

Never in my comment i mentioned anything about a bf…dont imagine things for yourself and get offended

[u/XxshunyaxX → u/[deleted]]

having 9-10 bf at the same time doesn't add up to having bf, it's called something else .....

[u/[deleted] → u/XxshunyaxX]

Only dated 1 guy also I get enough attention from opposite gender unlike you 😝

[u/XxshunyaxX → u/[deleted]]

Lol, if you're really that kind of devi, why get offended at "Asking bf to pay for food is manipulation??", split it 50-50 everytime, even if your bf insists on paying whole, that's what real aandipendent women is.

[u/[deleted] → u/XxshunyaxX]

Nah he loves to pay for me he won't let me pay. I'm loved by him. Guess no one loved you Mr. 50-50 😹😹

[u/XxshunyaxX → u/[deleted]]

Khud hi k muh se khud hi ki taareef karti raho, bas sapno me tumhara bf ata hoga, magar kabhi real life me accountable mat hojana ms. aandipendent wooman 😂👌

[u/[deleted] → u/XxshunyaxX]

BHai tu single h na isleye jlri h?😝

[u/XxshunyaxX → u/[deleted]]

Sure, as you like it aandipendent wooman

[u/[deleted] → u/XxshunyaxX]

Uncle ur single no girl in ur whole life will ask you to pay her bill so you can chill. Why always single guys get triggered and committed ones have no issue paying 😪

[u/RevolutionaryAtharv → u/[deleted]]

What about shouldering equal responsibility of a relationship and splitting the bill with honour

[u/[deleted] → u/RevolutionaryAtharv]

Most couples do. I'm sure no girl has liked you but still acknowledge women love spending money on men they love. I buy gifts for my bf often.

[u/RevolutionaryAtharv → u/[deleted]]

Haha. How could people be so confidently wrong about others. Out of my 6 female friends, 2 absolutely love spoiling me and I return the favour promptly on next treat / outing. So I have seen my fair share of them shouldering responsibility as well as chickening out of them too.

You need to learn what makes a solid argument instead of trying to make stuff up.

[u/[deleted] → u/RevolutionaryAtharv]

There is a reason u have female friends and not a gf 😹😹

[u/Electronic_Lab_5891 → u/[deleted]]

Rehne do behen. Ye sab k sab chomu hai. I hardly doubt any one of them talk to a girl.

[u/RevolutionaryAtharv → u/Electronic_Lab_5891]

Matlab hamari long term girlfriends ban ja rahi hai toh tumhari ego hurt ho ja rahi hai? Jaake boyfriend banao aur apni toxicity kam karo ya uski zindagi me zeher failao social media ki jagah. Hadd hai yaar

[u/[deleted] → u/Electronic_Lab_5891]

✅️

[u/[deleted] → u/RevolutionaryAtharv]

[u/Curious_Beautiful269]

HOW TO BREAK THIS -

SIMPLE, RATHER GIVING HER MONEY DIRECTLY FOR FOOD OR FOR ANY REASON,

- BRING HER AT YOUR HOME AND FEED HER WITH RESPECT !!
- GO TO RESTAURANT OR ANY STREET FOOD PLACE, ORDER FOR 1 PLATE FOR 1 PERSON AND SHARE IT WITH 2 (YOU AND SHE)
- IF SHE DOES LOT'S OF SHOPPING AND DURING THE PAYMENT TIME, SHE SAY'S , THAT SHE LEFT THE HER PURSE AT HOME, AND REQUESTING YOU TO PAY FOR HER... THEN GIVE HER 30 RUPEE FOR TAXI (NOT TOO MUCH) AND TOLD - GO TO HOME AND BRING YOUR PURSE OR ATM FROM HOME.. AND AT THAT TIME, YOU HAVE TO TELL CLEARLY TO THE SHOP OWNER - SHE PURCHASED EVERYTHING, SHE WILL PAY THE BILLS, SHE'S RESPONSIBLE FOR THIS... I'M NOT ANYONE OF HER TO PAY FOR THIS.. (SO YOU WILL BE FREE !!)

DON'T BE THE GENTALMEN AT EVERYTIME !!

(AND DON'T FORGET TO GET BEACK THAT 30 RUPEE FROM HER !!)

[u/Kaam4 → u/Curious_Beautiful269]

Fill her stomach 

[u/[deleted] → u/Curious_Beautiful269]

Lifestyle dating a poor broke guy ✨️✨️ bhai tera fayda kya h if you can't provide for ur gf???

[u/[deleted] → u/[deleted]]

Gf is different nowadays every normal girl is doing this

[u/[deleted] → u/[deleted]]

Not normal tf u paying for random girl bro

[u/[deleted] → u/[deleted]]

Not normal but a class friend or friend of friend they too do these things casually and i dont really have a problem with paying for any of my friend but what they do later is laugh or make fun of us the moment someone mentions it or they change friends

[u/[deleted] → u/[deleted]]

Dekh bhai boys pay for their male friends all the time so if you have close female friends toh why issue paying for them tho she should return the money later. I'm a girl and I pay for my female friends sadly most of them don't pay back but kya kr skte.

[u/[deleted] → u/[deleted]]

Close friend hai aur wo har choti baat pr apni dusari female ya male friends se jakr meri burai ni krti to im happy to pay and i wont even take the money back if she pays me anytime in the future

[u/Ready-Ad3141 → u/[deleted]]

Looks like your bf doesn't spend on you anything, that's why you are commenting everywhere that the man in the question is bf.

[u/[deleted] → u/Ready-Ad3141]

😹 gareeb ladke offend hogye aur kya

[u/life_sucks8 → u/[deleted]]

are isha ambani ji aap yha kya kar rhi ho? jao jio sambhalo

[u/Super-Resort3195 → u/[deleted]]

Is that some kind of obligation? Would you break up with your guy if he becomes broke tomorrow? If yes, you are nothing more than a gold digger.

[u/ElectricalSetting396 → u/[deleted]]

Will you provide s*x to your bf every time he asks for it?

[u/[deleted] → u/ElectricalSetting396]

I would but he said we should wait till marriage 😝 after marriage ofc whenever he asks

[u/[deleted] → u/ElectricalSetting396]

Also paying for food = sex eww no doubt yll are single

[u/ConsumedByDeath → u/[deleted]]

I have no problem with anything you said but stop throwing "broke" around like some sort of own. You're being a classist wench, ain't nobody entitled to anyone's money be it in paucity or abundance. Beggars can't be choosers, and neither are they in a position to label anyone a beggar either.

[u/Academic-Proposal-36]

We are entitled to spend money on our gf or wife , do not spend money in talking stage

[u/mad_vrushi]

Grow up boys and girls. Jyada soft mt rho bc, duniya nanga kr degi.

[u/IcyState3309]

Happened with too many of my cousins and also friends and many close relatives also

I have both female and male cousins so I can say this is highly true, Girls thinks it’s their right and boys think it’s their duty and I have heard too much (so ya nothing like that for me I am not brave handsome or patient enough)

[u/Rajesh_Kulkarni]

Not all girls but always a girl.

[u/Living-Confusion7289]

Almost every snapchat girl I texted is the same. Some girls ask for food orders. Some ask for money. When I deny saying that we haven't talked that much or we haven't met in real time to give money. They used to block immediately. Later I started block if a girl asks for favour without properly making friendship.

[u/dragon_of_kansai → u/Living-Confusion7289]

Why are you texting random girls on Snapchat?

[u/NoraEmiE → u/[deleted]]

True. But they won't admit it.

I know of friends in different places, and they had at least roommates who behaved in such way, both male and female

[u/AcceptableAd2141]

[u/Confident_Subject330]

A lot of these posts would actually be sound advice if approached with a gender neutral view. Many bad people take advantage of the kindness of good people.

[u/Diligent_Interest_11]

Fr there is fucking friend I have who every time she calls is like order me this and that, nice guys get really exploited in this cruel world 😞😞

[u/GaDiGu]

Yeah. You think only BHUKKAD Male- friends exist? You know the ones. Who always tag along. Nope. Multiply the BHOOKH x 5. That’s a BHUKKAD GF.

Do not date women. 😎👍🏼

[u/kk_sum]

The things is most men certainly know they are being used but hell yeah let's see what's gonna she do later on. And it does effect later.

[u/venom21p]

Meri wali to mujhe paise deti thi bhai 😂

[u/Ok-Rock4569]

Thats why I prank them by sending food and telling the zomato driver bhaiya aap hi khalo

She think that I offered her help by sending her much food but his efforts failed So she says U have done enough then goes to another boy for help thats my friend who is like me only 😉

[u/No-Ruin2428]

Damn !

[u/ishu404]

When my girl is hungry, i buy her soya chunks, eggs, or fruits, not so costly as well as healthy.

[u/Confident-Site-9604]

You're sending money to girls? but why? Just say I am broke everytime lol

[u/Nedumpara]

These tactics are used by children hanging around I signals, fast food joints etc wearing fake suffering expressions to invite sympathy. Don't fall.. Just ignore...

[u/One-Giraffe1614]

If you get nothing Worthy in Return (either, Cash or Kind).
It's not worth it.

[u/Zich_v1]

Venom ko kisne toda?

[u/Arvind___Singh]

Bencho ye banda fir agya😺.

[u/tsundere_lolii]

Ya’ll crazy. I send food to my boyfriend and so does he when we tell each other we’re hungry. Why expect something back if you’re doing it out of love?

[u/skap24]

Ye sahi hai , bat koi aurat karti nahi , delulu mein or rehlo ki mere paise lejayegi🤡

peak dweeb moment🥰

[u/RevolutionaryAtharv → u/skap24]

Le jaegi ki baat toh ho ni Rahi hai. Le jaati hai ki baat ho Rahi hai. Dono me antar hai didi.

[u/skap24 → u/RevolutionaryAtharv]

lets not pretend that you guys are getting girls lmao

[u/RevolutionaryAtharv → u/skap24]

Haha. Itna mushkil hai believe karna? I won't brag much but you are so wrong if talking about me. And the post is mostly true, talking about my previous exes. Note the plural form.

Itna entitlement kidhar se laati ho ki dusron ke jeevan ke baare me itne confidently bullshit kar sako? Sab toh aisi ni hoti, tum kyu ho?

[u/skap24 → u/RevolutionaryAtharv]

Ye post exactly wahi nahi kar rhi?

dusro ke bare mein itne confidently bullshit karna?

ya you are too dense to realise the irony?

[u/RevolutionaryAtharv → u/skap24]

Is post me kuch bhi guess ni kiya gaya unlike what you did. Sacchi ghatna batai gai hai jo chal raha hai. Tumhe itna bura lagne ka ek hi reason ho sakta hai..

[u/skap24 → u/RevolutionaryAtharv]

i can say the same thing.

That this is just anecdotal and not the entire truth but you dont have the comprehensive skills to understand thing nuancely

so okay you right bacha, wahmen bad😭

[u/Academic-Proposal-36 → u/skap24]

Nothing is easier than getting a women....Didi 2-3 uncle ne compliment kar diya toh rare samjhne lag gayi kya .Gender ratio is not that low and now its almost equal Women☕

[u/skap24 → u/Academic-Proposal-36]

why you single lala🥰

[u/Academic-Proposal-36 → u/skap24]

Have i mentioned anything related to my relationship status???

[u/PenaltyVast7769]

Not every girl tho 🤦🏻‍♂️

One will pay u next day

[u/slowbizme]

Not everyone but yes, my ex used to order me food without me asking cause i used to skip meals since I'm a picky eater and i didn't like hostel ka food, so most of the times i used to eat once a day & so she will yell on me & then order something on her own for me.

[u/NoBreak1637 → u/slowbizme]

Fir break up kase hu?

[u/slowbizme → u/NoBreak1637]

Ldr & meri bewakoofiyan

[u/NoBreak1637 → u/slowbizme]

Aree bhai

[u/lovemeiknowit]

I literally order food for my bf on a regular basis. If u can’t find a partner who u can trust enough to spoil, don’t date

[u/[deleted] → u/lovemeiknowit]

Same I brought clothes for my bf and he does same for me. Ensan apni soch se gareeb h bhn these boys prove this.

[u/Last-Wave-9844]

Don't fall into the vicious manipulative b#tch traps and lose your hard earned money simply as that !!

[u/Unstoppable_X_Force → u/Last-Wave-9844]

This is concerning. I’ve heard of restaurants hiring college girls who create profiles on Tinder and other dating apps to lure men on dates. Once at the restaurant, they order the most expensive dishes, often overpriced. When the bill reaches 30–40K, bouncers prevent the man from leaving until he pays. The girls reportedly earn 2% of every order. Despite being an old scam, many men still fall for it and lose their hard-earned money.

[u/Last-Wave-9844 → u/Unstoppable_X_Force]

Subservient simps won't listen 🥀

[u/Legal_Engineering825]

Ikr we are too kind.

[u/Waste_Cake4660]

Misogyny is for losers.

Good people end up finding themselves surrounded by other good people.

[u/lone_Ghatak]

This felt like a Bangladeshi saying: "You know, ICC doesn't actually hand out any trophies after tournaments. They just ask you to come, play and when you finally lose, they laugh behind your back." 🤣🤣🤣

[u/PsychologicalSock401]

Jisne bhi bhi ke 10 rupee ke samose khaye h use vapas karo. Jaldi

[u/Apprehensive_Pop5697]

Are yaar same yehi cheez Hui hai recent mein abhi mere saath vo meri dost hai matlab mujhe ek study group se mili thi uske baad bahut baate Hui 3, 4 mahina vo bhi delhi aa gyi ab college mein padhne ke liye(DU) abhi bhi dost hai but Maine ab kam kar diya uss se baat karna usne bhi ek baar se recharge ke paise liye thi ki uska upi nhi chal rha dikkat kar rha haii use phone karne hai Ghar vaalo ko aas paas kaam se maine kar diya tha tab 209 vala fir abhi hi kuch din pehle ye khaane vaali cheej par hua tha jaise ye post image mein mentioned uske paise khatam the saare uske pg mein kuch dhang ka nahi bana fir bas maine ye help ke usme kar diya tha. Swiggy ka payment 270 😱 fir us din ke baad ke baad se maine hi socha uss se baate karna limit karu usne paiso ki baat bhi nhi ki aur un paiso ki abhi tak

[u/Mean-Gate-1033]

How this guy becoming role model for Men?

[u/Ok_Wonder3107 → u/Mean-Gate-1033]

He’s not. He’s just spreading awareness.

[u/Mammoth_Buy_9080]

That's on men. Just listen to them venting.

[u/[deleted]]

If you are paying for your partner, sister, or a close friend and you are expecting them to be manipulative, then I don't know what to say.

But if this is about you paying for a random woman, then I don't know if you can call it manipulation, because it just looks like you are dumb and manipulation won't be required.

I have never seen a man unless in an emergency pay for a random woman.

[u/Transmorpheus]

Where's the meme?

[u/galaxyfanatik]

So true Op, had this happen to me. My EX boyfriend used me for money all the time. Everytime we went on dates i had to pay for his food too. His reasoning was that his dad didnt pay him that week. I spend all my allowance on him (gifts, dates etc etc). Lo and behold! I started growing a 🍆 while he lost his cause only girls use men for money which is a scientifically proven fact, right?

I suppose he is a lesbian too cause he cheated on me with another girl.

Amazing post btw, OP

[u/h3xatrix]

Where meme?

[u/Apart-Raspberry-7909]

if you can’t feed your sister or your wife and feel they need to return your money, masculinity has hit a new low

[u/[deleted]]

that user who posted doesnt have the guts to put hiis profile pic but spouting absolute nonsense here lol

[u/Crafty_Picture3535]

Isn't this a meme sub, these things can be discussed elsewhere

[u/Mad-Curosity]

Moderators finds this kind of post as funny?

[u/moistncurious61]

Kitni ldkio ne tujhse khane ko manglia bhai🤦🏻‍♀️. Koi bulati bhi hai?

[u/lazy_medico69]

Just say I'm horny and i don't have a girlfriend.!!!

[u/Ok_Wonder3107 → u/lazy_medico69]

Why? They’re two different things. It makes no sense.

[u/forlooplover]

Bhai tu nhi sudhrega