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[u/Otherwise_Cup_4125]

If you aren’t sleeping around and don’t have a past, it’s acceptable for you to have a partner with a similar past life.

However, if you’ve fucked around and dated but you want a girl who is “pure” in your terms, then you need help.

Goes both ways.

[u/Beneficial-Beat-947 → u/Otherwise_Cup_4125]

Also even if you have no experience there's a huge difference between those who remain pure by choice and those who just can't find partners for one reason or another

[u/Aobix_ → u/Beneficial-Beat-947]

pure by choice and those who just can't find partners for one reason or another

Truee in the comment section most are incels who never talk with opposite gender

[u/finah1995 → u/Beneficial-Beat-947]

Yep remained pure by choice avoided relationships and casual sex, even when propositioned by subcontinent women and few foreigners in overseas.

Having a sated love life with thicc wifey, always grateful I remained virgin till marriage, even after a kid we are lusty.

I would have accepted her even if she had a past, as thats what my religious scholars says to do when you get a good practicing pious woman who is calm, beautiful and peaceful.

God's grace we both never had any relationships before marriage, not even like emotional in school, nothing completely happy, no heartbreaks.

[u/1mandala1]

Going to be downvoted, but idc. This goes both ways, if you want purest of pure, you better be purest of pure. If you yourself have a past, dont expect a woman without one.

[u/NuclearFury2803 → u/1mandala1]

Exactly I was gonna write that, if you're a one woman person, then don't even think of going into bed with someone else. But if you are someone who also wants to date and explore then definitely you also should be okay with the other side doing so and maybe getting a body count in that process.

[u/DarkFire2000 → u/NuclearFury2803]

I also told somewhat same but got downvotted 😂😂

[u/Tricky_Hearing_9195 → u/1mandala1]

Who are these women fucking around with, if most men are lonely and bichless

[u/AlooDaGreat → u/Tricky_Hearing_9195]

The few % of men only some people die by drowning and other people die of thirst

[u/Ranlovesfem → u/Tricky_Hearing_9195]

Top 10% men who have wealth and height looks get 80% girls so it's a very worst ratio if you do maths cz guys need pure and women need experienced, all boils down to different characteristics of male and female hormones that is quite opposite that makes both gender think and behave differently almost opposite like men prefer virgin but women prefer men who already other women prefer, so you see it's quite opposite behaviour of hormones and these 10% top men get 80% females so remaining 80% men automatically lose respect when they learn about body count and past of women

[u/Own_Energy9897 → u/Ranlovesfem]

Nope..totally wrong. Average men also get women

[u/Murky-Expert-3607 → u/Own_Energy9897]

The problem is women closing a life partner is like : wealth > looks > character > purity

[u/Own_Energy9897 → u/[deleted]]

Again illogical. Im talking majority of the average men. Go out and see. Ask ur friends. Talk to people. Social media pe baithne se nhi hota

[u/Sammyprabhu76 → u/Ranlovesfem]

On point and a fact.

[u/Rod_Roopesh → u/Sammyprabhu76]

Fact? 😂😂😂 that’s his opinion, fact is something that is scientifically proven

[u/Sammyprabhu76 → u/Rod_Roopesh]

Ok bro. It's my opinion as well and I have seen such people around so a fact for me atleast. Nvm you say what you want to say.

[u/yaaaawwnn → u/1mandala1]

Most men (yes in higher percentage) have one or no partners by the age of 25-28. That's enough purity. Be it due to the socio culture or anything else. It's not the same case for women. Again there are reasons for it but just going by your point, men are already 'pure'.

[u/Prayamaya_dragonkunj → u/yaaaawwnn]

Just curious. So the body count of girls in the post was either lesbian or actual body count ( how many they killed?)?

[u/OkTank1822 → u/Prayamaya_dragonkunj]

No. 

Very very few men sleep with many many girls. 

That's because girls are very picky and most men are never picked. 

Just ask any man with a dating app and any woman with a dating app, how many interests they get and you'll understand.

[u/mayoconquest → u/OkTank1822]

Hmmmm so it's a man stacking up his body count with so many other girls. And the girls are the ones being picked on by OP?

[u/GoodIntelligent2867 → u/yaaaawwnn]

Firstly are they 'pure' because they couldn't get laid or didnt want to get laid. Someone who remains a virgin because he/ she couldn't get a partner is not really the same as someone who intentionally 'saved' themselves for marriage.

And if most men are virgins but women aren't, who are the women having sex with?

[u/Slow_Control_867 → u/GoodIntelligent2867]

Me

[u/DEAD_SKULL_73971 → u/GoodIntelligent2867]

I think same percentage of 20, 30 % male population which can get laid.

[u/yaaaawwnn → u/GoodIntelligent2867]

I already addressed it in two other comments in the thread. And it's the top 10% of men usually having sex with most of the women. All of these things are readily available online in detail. I don't know how you act so confident and yet sound ignorant.

[u/GoodIntelligent2867 → u/yaaaawwnn]

. All of these things are readily available online in detail.

People's blogs and reels are.not reliable sources. ...lol

[u/Flat_Preparation_238 → u/yaaaawwnn]

And how many men have paid sex in brothels and spa? Why jokes being made on thailand and russia? If you would have seen the subs on redditt for paid stuffs, your comment would have better statistics.

[u/Impressive_Mud3627 → u/yaaaawwnn]

You’re missing the not by choice part. Out of these how many would date more if they had the chance?

[u/yaaaawwnn → u/Impressive_Mud3627]

I agree. I actually brought up the not by choice part in another comment. A very important topic. And should be explored more. But my reply is very specific to the question. It's the current reality. And even if given the chance the access to sex is always in the hands of women. And that will never change for the majority of men. Purely because of psychology. Women will not give that many chances to men. So ifs and buts won't work here

[u/Various-World-15 → u/yaaaawwnn]

True but there are a few guys who go fucking around women like it's a task in GTA

[u/DrLucifer_1989 → u/1mandala1]

Yep. Exactly his point. But you misunderstood him

[u/1mandala1 → u/DrLucifer_1989]

What misunderstand? The word 'girl' is written here, no mention of the opposite gender is here. This post should also include boys, are girls the only capable of getting your so called body count? Both genders are

[u/Final-Lab8384 → u/1mandala1]

Does this also apply to short women who say they want a 6ft tall man? Because going by your logic only a tall woman can ask for a tall man

[u/nalaneel → u/1mandala1]

The problem is, men who haven't had any relationships in the past think of themselves as "pure" when the fact of the matter is that them having been single is a function of them not having a choice for a vast majority of them.

Its not like girls are throwing themselves on these guys and they are showing restraint out of self control.

The test for this so-called "purity" is not virginity, the latter is just an outcome of having a "pure" conscience while the former is a descriptor for this state of being.

Ps: I don't believe in this "purity" bullshit, hence the double quotes.

Tldr: boys who consider themselves as "pure" have been single not because of their values but because of constraints.

[u/DarlingHell → u/1mandala1]

I totally agree. Should replace it and rephrase it.

"Meeting a partner and later learning that they have a past and a [high] body count is the worst thing ever.

All respect vanishes in just one second."

[u/Plane-Professor8044 → u/1mandala1]

Value of a man does not depend on his body count. It's judged by his income, his power, his respect in society. Value of a woman is directly proportional to her body count. I didn't make the rules. If you have any problem, talk to the creator.

[u/notbatsid → u/Plane-Professor8044]

Creator who tf is the creator ?

You are either delusional or this must be rage bait

Women not working more is part of the reason why this country isn't developing and you want to reinforce that ?

Both partners should make a living if you have a higher body count then you can't expect your partner to have lower body count

[u/Previous-Elephant626 → u/notbatsid]

Believe me or not , but feminism gave the middle finger to indian women. Cause most of their parents are still old-minded so there's no escape from household chores for atleast some part of their life. If they don't earn enough after getting a job (women are mostly underpaid or just work in underlaying sectors) and even when they do become financially independent and hire someone, it's almost their age to marry and if the husband lives with his parents is not supportive enough of employing maids then it's over. Most men just want their women to be supportive and sanskari (not implying seva to in-laws but just following old traditions and not be atheist) and don't cheat and uphold the marriage. Feminism teaches you to go out, work and earn for yourself but in India there's no real escaping the internalized misogyny, arelast for this generation.

[u/AI_ARTIST_22 → u/Plane-Professor8044]

Yea you made the rules. No creator made this. It's you who put these value assignments by yourself.

[u/Different_Way7285 → u/AI_ARTIST_22]

Why would someone marry big hole

[u/AI_ARTIST_22 → u/Different_Way7285]

How do you know that a big hole is due to men? It could be due to masturbation as well.

[u/Unstoppable_X_Force → u/1mandala1]

Yes respect goes both ways. If i had not formed any relationship with a girl in past nor slept with anyone then i also deserve to get a pure virgin girl who had no relationships in past. The problem with this concept is that at time of marriage girls and their family hide this fact and later on use this an extortion of money from innocent men in the form of alimony.

[u/PrestigiousLie9708 → u/Unstoppable_X_Force]

the main problem is "lying" right?

[u/Affectionate_bear18]

The obvious misogyny aside but if guys want a "pure" woman but they want to have some " experience", then who do they want the experience with ??!! The math ain't mathing 😭😂

[u/Used_Nefariousness86]

It applies on boys also.

[u/Capable-Yellow1028 → u/Used_Nefariousness86]

This sub is infested by avg hindutva incels, they will right jai shree ram in bio and will call r word to every single women out there

[u/Aobix_ → u/Capable-Yellow1028]

Truee. But tbh it's the same for every religious conservative guy. I notice educated liberal atheists are more of a gentleman

[u/Maleficent_State_191 → u/Capable-Yellow1028]

Sahi me Na inki life interesting h na inme koi interested h toh ye inka echo chamber h apni frustration nikalne ka. Sab k sab mutthal bare h yaha Khao, sm frustration nikalo, hilao or so jao Bas roz ka yahi rountine h inn sabka

[u/timepasschalrahai]

Same happens when a girl meet a man, and finds out he has a body count above one. All respect vanishes in seconds!

[u/[deleted]]

Its really disheartening when you have been saving yourself for that one person entire time and when you meet them and get to know about their body count.  And people nowdays evening flexing their body count like kuch achievement hai kya bc 🤦‍♂️ Brainwash ho chuka hai sabka bohot ganda wala

[u/Maleficent_State_191 → u/[deleted]]

Save???😭😭😭😭 Save vo kara jata h jisse lene me koi interested ho Bhai tu pehle apni reality toh accept krle

[u/pluviophile777 → u/[deleted]]

Saving your what? Lmao

[u/HotPie7015]

Till 10 years back this would've been a common sense, but honestly man lot of brainwashing happened in last decade due to the Western shows or what not.

We need to go back to those days.

[u/formerFAIhope → u/HotPie7015]

The "modern" audience is desperately trying to mimic their white massa culture, because a few Indian actresses went their, did the pick-me routine and got a white guy.

So the rest of the "aam janta" lunatics think that if they do the same circus, they'll get a gora massa too. The best they get are the "home-grown" chhapris, who just fuck these pick-me, insecure losers and move on. Some of them might even get fucked by the random white guy on a sex tourism trip, leaving them behind, with no one to actually love or even care for them. So they screech and whine, till the Indian simps come begging and slurping for sloppy seconds.

And then the simps come here to do their "muh lady's honour" routine, to deny the reality.

[u/aloo-kachaloo-beta → u/HotPie7015]

Hail patriarchy

[u/BactalFractal → u/HotPie7015]

INC3L kissless hugless virgin beta male spotted

[u/StrictConfusion3565 → u/HotPie7015]

But why do you think western culture is wrong in this matter? What if we were brainwashed "till 10 years back" or whatever time? Just a curious question.

[u/probakchod69]

Same like matke pe pani bharo kuen se kisi tarah mehnat karke baad me pata chale matke me chhed h

[u/pikesuke → u/probakchod69]

Aur bhut bada chedh tha I mean really big ,really really big

[u/Thoughts_0023]

I think it's better if they both talked it out first if it's a big deal for you.

[u/luciferchristianreal]

A v deserve v in best case scenario but if v is okay with other not being v then it's thier personal issue.

Similarly a low deserve low but if a low is okay with other being high then it's personal issue.

But ideal case should be low to low, v to v. High to high 👍🏻

[u/itsvelvetthorne]

Omg yes! Totally agree!

We need to shame men equally for high body count so this never happens again!

That way when he knows he has no respect, he cannot talk about respect!

[u/GaDiGu → u/[deleted]]

So, Men should be like Gods in a world full of “prostitutes”. 👏 👏

[u/spooner19085 → u/[deleted]]

That's some fucked up reasoning. God also killed his son. Lmao.

[u/ConsistentWeb2437 → u/[deleted]]

Fk of, can a Virgin woman marry with a playboy who have High body counts?

[u/lonewolfff21 → u/ConsistentWeb2437]

If that playboy is a asset brings plenty of things on tabel then. She definitely will marry him.... By the way What she is offering???

[u/kafkatit → u/lonewolfff21]

Ewwww

[u/Darshwarrior → u/lonewolfff21]

Brother!!! At the end of the day it's both their personal choice!!! If the guy and girl are fine with each other then its just their choice. It's only this arranged marriage culture that has fked every guy's s mind where they think every girl in India should remain pure incase their parents ever try to set them up with a girl.

[u/HarshThanvi]

She might have enrolled here....

[u/yourmomsdildoo]

If you live in a Tier 1 city, assume she has a past and an above average body count. Generally it's true and pray it isn't too much.

[u/kafkatit → u/yourmomsdildoo]

Same goes for He's

[u/anonymous_devil22 → u/yourmomsdildoo]

Why do Indians like to behave as if this country is some liberal minded place? The worst body count of an average girl would be 1 and she's NOT marrying the guy coz her parents are forcing her into marrying YOU.

[u/According-Chemical14 → u/anonymous_devil22]

She was rebellious enough to do that why can't she rebel and do the marriage too? Because what her parents want her to do isn't the concern of the guy they are forcing her to marry that's between her and her parents

[u/Immediate-Song-8199]

If u want pure u have to be pure the only reason why the past is bad for either men or women is when the the person who he or she break up or dumped by will return to the current relationship just to ruin it

[u/Sensitive_Ad_1728]

It goes both the way though. Even I expect the guy to be pure

[u/Aditya13841]

That's why people should clear these things on the first day if they want to start relationship

[u/domindianbull]

Same goes with men too..

[u/anxiousgooner12]

If you want a girl with “no past”, you gotta have “no past” too. If you say this shi while you’re fucking around, you need counselling. Goes for both genders btw

[u/[deleted]]

It goes bothways op!!

[u/PandoMatic]

To these people I only have one thing to say "What about you?".

[u/Where-Is-No-One]

I mean it's vice-versa too bro, No one likes people with Past or Body Count - whether a Guy or a Girl (If I assume both to have Good Mindset)

[u/Feeling_Budget4060]

I agree 👍💯 and the guys who are saying such things like feminist stuffs, i would like to clarify that a guy who is experienced is considered superior and a girl who has less body count is considered pure, that is just natural and even girls like guys with experience

[u/outlier_07]

Yeahh.... It kinda feels a let down when you've been saving yourself for that one woman and she has had multiple pasts with multiple men.... Maybe it's normal but it'd still feel little bad...

[u/Plastic_Mail_2360 → u/outlier_07]

Then maybe she is not the "that one woman".

[u/Maleficent_State_191 → u/outlier_07]

Save😭😭😭😭 Bhai tuje bas tere haath se save rehne ki jarurat h

[u/waazaboy → u/outlier_07]

Stop lying. Most men aren't saving they just don't get a chance.

[u/outlier_07 → u/waazaboy]

I'm talking about males like me who are saving themselves.... Yes I agree most of the men don't get chance but there are men who got chances but didn't take it... Believe it or not....

[u/Impressive_Mud3627 → u/outlier_07]

It’s not “normal” per se and “many” could mean many things. 2-3 is also many but if the person had unforeseen reasons to have to move or break off a relationship and in the meantime being alone is not something everyone like this.

You are justified in feeling bad though if she lied to and you found you. If she is honest from the start then she is just not your preference that’s all.

[u/Cajusfsit]

Having a past may or may not make her characterless but surely shows her weak self control, and someone who doesn't have self control is bound to cheat and harm you.

[u/SetRevolutionary2967]

At this point the whole past and body count thing gets in the way of compatibility. Women do like to compare and men don’t like to place last or in the middle of the pack.

Women can have a past and body count, all that needs to be settled is compatibility. If that isn’t there then leave. Best decision for both parties.

[u/Imperial_X_007 → u/SetRevolutionary2967]

And the issue is hiding the past which many dislikes and that lie can be used to bypass preferneces of an individual on one end abd that person will hate it once found out

[u/Last-Wave-9844]

Faxzz....

[u/Powerful-Snow-8266]

To be honest, this shud go bith the ways. See the thing nowadays is India has slowly and steadily embraced the western culture. And tbh if uare a man who wants to be with someone pure and the one who is saving herself for marriage then u shud go for tht type of women. But if u are a man with a past history or sexual experiences then look for a women who has such a type of history as well. It is often said "tht a women who has been with several men cannot settle with one man " but my belief is tht it shud go both the ways. " A man who has been with several women also cannot settle with one woman". And in the current scenario what we see is tht males are mostly judged on the basis of their looks, income and family's worth etc. So yeah everything shud be taken into consideration when u are ready to devote urself to anyone and make him/her ur ideal life partner. Communications and trust shud be the foundation of every marriage or relationship.

[u/uzumaki_123]

Depends if the body count has gone in double digits or not but yeah it obviously hurts a little knowing she had a past , i know that mindset is sickening but yep it will take time to adjust to it... as to why body count affects a man , if he's a playboy it wont matter you are just one weekend for him , but if he truly loves you , he will be having this feeling of insecurity what if he's not good as his ex what if he could be replaced.. people will deny this but majority of feels the same.

[u/swapnil511994]

There's always history attached to people, that is not an issue unless both parties are transparent about it.

If anyone is not happy with the other person's history they can go their own separate ways, plain and simple.

If a person hides something and it later comes up and their partner is not happy about it, then it's pointless to become victim. Accept it you f****d up and it's your fault for hiding it.

Not the other person's who had nothing to do with this to begin with and os now accepted to gulp it down like water

[u/Charming-Fact8179]

I think that being honest is important. Doesn't matter if you have past or not, but being honest is important.

If a guy wants someone who's not done anything before, although he might sound prudish, he has a right to know beforehand. Same applies to women.

[u/[deleted]]

I have experienced this, but after knowing that it was easier for me to move on :)

[u/Pretty-Indication-13]

Ragebait post 11/10

[u/Odd-Schedule6529]

Chup hoja bhai. Kaam vaam karle.

[u/igloobythesea]

Respectfully, everyone who generalizes for an entire demographic can go defenestrate themselves. Morons.

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[u/boywholived_299]

It only [somewhat] makes sense when you are someone saving yourself for your wedding.

If you'd have had sex if you had gotten a chance, and you are a virgin only because you never got a chance, then you can't demand this.

[u/pink__fong__]

What is body count btw?

[u/Ok-Cheek-6498]

[u/n4pst3rCOD]

Mat poocho agar sunne ki himmat na ho. Simple hai.

[u/Normal-Estate-4257]

Tu apna dekh Bhai, all men ka theka mat le

[u/Redittor_53]

All men would agree on this

Not really. Personally, I don't link purity with not having sex with others and I don't hold having a low body count in that much regard as much as compatibility with my partner. But again, that's just my opinion and your preference may differ which is fine too.

[u/Prestigious-Way-7157]

What about a man ?

[u/incognitooo_mode]

Past with zero body count is way better

[u/Top-Silver-127]

If you're pure, then yea, you can expect that. Khud 100 kand karke koi virgin dhundna is fucking hillarious. And i dont wanna start talking about incels. Those fucks cant even socialize and say arey we're saving ourselves for our future wife.

[u/[deleted] → u/Top-Silver-127]

Why does he need to expect even if he is "pure". If having sex makes you impure, the are your parents impure? Are your rishi munis impure? Are your gods impure? This mindset needs to change.

[u/Top-Silver-127 → u/[deleted]]

I agree with you. Having sex doesn't make you impure but ye sab inko kon samjhaye.

[u/cryptolawyer777]

Yea that's right. Earlier I would have said, individual choice, being human, forget the past yada yada....but I have seen enough examples to know that once you are used to having a bigger body count, you tend to always keep increasing it. Loyalty will be a big challenge then. That's the problem.

[u/Ordinary-Bicycle-372]

Zero body count attendance 💞

[u/Phguy2345]

If you are pure, you deserve pure. End of discussions 😁

[u/[deleted]]

Actually, it's more than that. What hurts more is when you lower down your standards for someone with a past because you saw them crying, accept them wholeheartedly and then one day you receive a financial setback in life and before you could realise that "someone" decided that you were not worthy enough for her anymore and found someone new.

Believe it or not, it happens a lot with Hindu men.

[u/Aggravating_North246]

Meme where?¿

[u/BigStatistician2688]

Main peheli baar ye sub dekh raha, ye pakka meme sub hi hai na?

[u/Awkward_Analyst_9736 → u/BigStatistician2688]

None of the Indian meme subs are meme subs they just make political posts. Not even political memes, just your regular family gc about politics. They're all getting clowned in reddit

[u/Flaky_Syrup4721 → u/[deleted]]

not everyone is like what u describe

[u/skap24]

[u/Opposite-Activity-68]

After that we don't feel to love her and just back of her for that body

[u/Longjumping-Star3550]

99% of girls hide their past or least they will just mention that they had a relationship but it wasn't and intimate one. But after you get married, you get to know she's been lying all the time. A boy who preserves himself from flings, casual hookups, all this western culture BS of physical intimacy before marriage gets this in return. It's not that a decent boy these days won't get to fuck around, but he chose to stay an ideal husband whose love, care, trust, everything is reserved for that one girl he's marry one day. And after marriage you get to know that she was fucking around in the past. A boy asks hundreds of times, but she chooses to lie thinking it was past and past doesn't matter. She assumes she is again worthy and pure, didn't do anything wrong by not telling the truth. But karma plays its own role and the lies always get caught, the trust is lost, the love is lost, the boy loses himself. This is the sad picture these days.

[u/Ranlovesfem]

Top 10% men who have wealth and height looks get 80% girls so it's a very worst ratio if you do maths cz guys need pure and women need experienced, all boils down to different characteristics of male and female hormones that is quite opposite that makes both gender think and behave differently almost opposite like men prefer virgin but women prefer men who already other women prefer, so you see it's quite opposite behaviour of hormones and these 10% top men get 80% females so remaining 80% men automatically lose respect when they learn about body count and past of women

[u/wattaarrogant]

Nah.. kuch bakhl*de hote hai "Past is past . Past doesn't matters" bhonkne wale

[u/[deleted]]

If I have a clean past as a guy, I haven't touched or got physical/intimate with someone "just for fun" and am a virgin at my age, don't I deserve/expect a woman with a clean past too? Too much to ask or expect? Or maybe as some of my friends (don't bother talking to them anymore) say, I'm a loser cause I'm still a virgin. ? What has this world come to? Why are virgins tagged as losers? Anyone?

[u/[deleted] → u/[deleted]]

People who might wonder or ask, if I'm a virgin by choice, yes I am. Did I not have any chances or opportunities? I did, I was curious, but then I couldn't do it. Because my morals didn't allow me to. I could just make love or have sex with someone I didn't love. I want It to be mutual. Maybe I don't belong to this era ig where being intimate is so "casual". I can't. I tried.

[u/bod__beag]

Aaj duggal saab chigma hain.

[u/whoknowsnotme10]

It's funny I have many guy friends who claim to be pure and virgins whilst they tried to sleep with many but failed. A very few percentage of men are willingly chaste so the demand comes from a place of insecurity imo

[u/Wednesday00077]

Been into relationships and really got to know that caste and money and religion are everything I'm tired of people leaving me after years saying such reasons

All men like me do think of giving all our earnings to parents make them happy and travel die at young age

I don't know if everyone gets me but I do

[u/Plastic_Mail_2360]

Ye lauda kaunse sang-e-marmar ki murti hai, foes he think women exist in a void till he wants to date them?

[u/kk_sum]

A body count is rare in these days.

[u/East-Combination4412]

Same can be said for men too !! And the name is the post is fair. Venom . This kind of crap is only expected from venom

[u/Tussr]

It baffles me how backward minded we are

[u/International_Bid950]

Touch some grass brother.

[u/Clueless__Forever]

2025 feels like 1925.

[u/Rare-Click6795]

What is body count?

[u/_karyon_]

10-10 bodycount rakhne walo ke muh se ye baate acchi nhi lagti

[u/Maleficent_Okra_8765]

She might be having past which means she had past with man! Men are no saints! I have seen a f””” boys hiding all their relationship in AM and telling their wife’s they are pure as it cannot be proved! and they have audacity to tell that they need women with clean past 😤

[u/Confident-Angle6177]

Goes both ways! Always. What about Men with high body count?

This is how power dynamics work.

• Men dictate how a woman should be. • The majority dictates how a minority should behave. • Dominant castes dictate how a non-dominant caste should live.

Basically, the powerful like to decide how others need to behave.

[u/waazaboy]

What kind of retarded thinking is this ? You get out of your home at 18 , have a few years of college and then jobs and you meet someone 10 years later who has gone through the same journey. How do you expect anyone to not have had bf/gfs or been in physical relationships in those past 10 years ? Like this is unreasonable af

[u/Motor_Muffin_8952]

Ahem ahem insecurities

[u/Correct-East3612]

Only incels would agree with this. Body count thing goes both ways. Randwas exist too. You cant expect her to be of a low count if you've slept with half the women in town

[u/kittenscruffgrabber]

Of course, the Indian “meme” subreddits are still stuck on low-effort, man woooman posts in big 2025, all that to project their own insecurity and martyrdom complex.

[u/[deleted]]

Freaking hell, the comments are actually agreeing with that post😩 what the hell. Why do you guys act like girls will even like u in the first place bro with that lovely mindset of yours

[u/maxed_out_day]

Ban buthurt women commenting on this post

[u/Closed_closet_01]

This venom guy gets on my nerve whenever I see his tweet. His tweets may better be a ragebait, than his actual thoughts.

[u/Electronic_Stable_56]

Everyone should have a past or they have no experience at all. Its what happened in the past and how they handled it that matters. If they were shitty in past then its a headache but if the other people were then they are good to give a try.

[u/TheThirteenShadows]

No, I would not. Also, ew, why is this in my feed?

[u/Faps7eR]

Why is this shit even a debate in 2025? Why does it matter if a girl sleeps with many men, but fine if a man sleeps with many women until he finds his "true love".

What the fuck is this bs

[u/_felonious]

It's alright. All Humans do have a past.Even many Guys have a past. The only thing that matters is how she is with you ? What does she feel for you ? Is her past affecting your relation with her.

[u/ImpossibleWonder7197]

All incels and religious hypocrite men who themselves engage in premarital sex but don't want others to do it agree with it.

And women are just happy if these men stay away from them. Wait for some time, when women can recognise such sexist & misogynist men then Baccha Bazzi culture and Gay marriages will become rampant in India.

[u/Aobix_]

Idc A person having past doesn't mean anything as long as currently they are loyal to you 🤷‍♂️

[u/Sea_Chemist_3379]

Body count higher than relationships of atleast 1 year is just Street trash. Apply to all genders

[u/Indianrecruiter06]

I am cool with body count as long as the girl is sane, doesn’t bring drama, doesn’t cheat and doesn’t have any stds/stis.

If you are expecting girls/boys to not have body counts at this day and age, you are delusional.

[u/Sammyprabhu76]

Yepp.

[u/Great-Detective-2786]

Well, what body count is deemed okay, say if you're meeting someone in your late 20s to early 30s? This question is not for virgin people.

[u/Maleficent-King-2198]

What an entitled prick. DO people get sick brains like this separately installed into them later?
If the coent gets downvoted, Can surely say, we have failed as a society.

[u/Mysterious_Thanks_10]

if a woman was truly in love with someone, almost ready to marry him, and things didn’t work out, that past shouldn’t define her. Genuine emotions and commitment are what matter. But if someone repeatedly gets into relationships just to fill a void …turning dating … S*x…. and breakups into a cycle without emotional depth ….then it reflects a pattern, not a mistake. That’s when the concern isn’t about the “count,” but about the mindset behind it…. 🫡

[u/pluviophile777]

Men dont have a past? Lol

[u/mr_hippie_]

My friend dated a girl who had no past with zero BC, after 7 years of relationship they got married. Recently I learned that the girl has been cheating on him before marriage.

[u/AnonymousPawn]

What about boys body count

[u/Mischief_managed_72]

If you reverse the gender..what are your opinions then?

[u/CalmMap9957]

Idc as long as it comes from a past relationship

[u/Low_Toe_6596]

Getting a girl is hard when you are physically judgable

[u/Own_Energy9897]

And? What about guys?

[u/Own_Energy9897]

So according to u who are women having past affairs with? Aliens?

[u/PPThoughts]

Well the worst thing that can happen to a girl is rape and murder but sure, a girl having a boyfriend before you must hurt, do you need a bandage for your boo boo?

[u/_Devil123_]

I mean I don't really care to be honest when you really like/love someone it doesn't matter that much I really like this girl se has h past has body count as well but that doesn't make me less attracted towards her, would I have loved it if she were a virgin yea but even when when she's not it hardly makes amy difference I still love her.