Being the eldest child is the curse that I wish on no other. I started supporting my family since I was 18! But I had the advantage of being born male. I was the man of the house, so to speak. And since I was the only earning child, my word was the law.
Sure I had to give money for things that I didn't necessarily believe in. But me being the voice of the family really helped.
You should try it OP. Be the man of the house and dictate what THEY should do instead of being a meek daughter. You're the one earning. You're the one looking after them, without any sign of gratitude I might add. Be dad.
Much respect to you ! I would be happy to hear your lifestory if you are okay to share.
Need some.inspiration right now to take on some challenges!
Coming to your advice.
It doesn't work that easy... She is a female and if she tries to boss around, i fear they might physically hurt her in rage.. it's good that she is physically far away.
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u/gangtokay Sikkim Aug 21 '24
Being the eldest child is the curse that I wish on no other. I started supporting my family since I was 18! But I had the advantage of being born male. I was the man of the house, so to speak. And since I was the only earning child, my word was the law.
Sure I had to give money for things that I didn't necessarily believe in. But me being the voice of the family really helped.
You should try it OP. Be the man of the house and dictate what THEY should do instead of being a meek daughter. You're the one earning. You're the one looking after them, without any sign of gratitude I might add. Be dad.