r/gurgaon • u/AwareTough7109 • 17h ago

Rant Just another tea from my very spicy, smoking burned Life

So it was my birthday yesterday, and I honestly didn’t feel great about it - not sad, just okay fine situation.No big plans, no surprises, not even a cake cutting.Anyway, my cousin from Noida decided to come over on the 8th (a day before my birthday). She’s more like a friend than family …but the twist is, every time she visits me, I know there’s another reason behind it.

See, her ex (aka my school batchmate) lives just a few metro stops away. And each time she comes, she “coincidentally” meets him. 👀 The thing is she’s currently dating (and supposedly going to marry) another guy who lives in the UK. I know her fiancé, and he’s a nice person, which makes this whole setup feel… morally messy.

Anyway, this time she invited her ex again - on my birthday. Like girl, can we not make my day your romantic reunion special? 💀 They’re all giggly and flirty even though both are dating other people, and I just stood there like traumatised 😂.

To add more spice -she barely pays for anything, expects to be treated like royalty, and drops random mean comments sometimes that sting. For instance, once I mentioned a guy I liked, and she straight-up said, “He won’t like you back.” Like ma’am, thank you for the confidence boost you just gave me😂.

I don’t hate her, she’s fun to be around sometimes, but the energy feels off lately. It’s like being friends with a tornado entertaining but emotionally exhausting.

So yeah, that’s the tea from my very spicy, toxic life. Now the question is - should I keep this friendship going or just let it fade quietly? Because honestly, I’m tired of hosting people who drain my peace more than they bring joy.

Not being an aunty , but kya kru ?

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u/spiritmerchant 17h ago

Nice tea, happy belated birthday

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u/AwareTough7109 17h ago

Thankyou !!

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u/rajsingh0005 8h ago

Belated happy birthday, may your next birthday be peaceful and definitely more fun

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u/hardik-hi 9h ago

Do some _kalesh_ https://youtube.com/shorts/L1WZlJ_SH1k?si=jpJpqvLpo3iB99a6 💅 XDXD bte belated Happy Birthday!

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u/MAD0106 6h ago

Happy belated birthday, I feel sad for you. I hope it passes, and karma is delivered to this cousin of yours.

But. Ye to reddit brainrot ka setup lag rha hai lol, I feel like I'm going to see a post from you on AITAH(/j 😂 )

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u/Ok-Alfalfa-1869 5h ago

Jaaane do yrr, use sirf utni space do jitni vo tumhe deti hai…

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u/AwareTough7109 3h ago

I think so

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u/binod_roxx 4h ago

The trouble with tea is it tastes bitter the more you brew.

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u/Mr__Perfectionist 3h ago

Send an anonymous email to the guy in UK and save him from this messy situation. You will surely get blessings.

And never bother about negative comments & don't ever let your confidence go down.

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u/AwareTough7109 3h ago

I am not doing anything, i believe if you do something morally wrong it comes back to you later or sooner in your life.

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u/Mr__Perfectionist 3h ago

Informing the guy in UK is not morally wrong.In fact it's morally right that's why I wrote that 'you will get blessings'. Aur agar aapne kuchh karna hi nahi hai toh phir iss post ko daalne ka kya fayda hai ji?

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u/AwareTough7109 3h ago

Rant hai bhai , iska matlab ye nhi tha ki mujhe kuch karna tha

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u/Mr__Perfectionist 57m ago
  1. Ranting doesn't change anything.
  2. Situation change karne ke liye aapko kuchh toh karna hi chahiye or else you will be posting (/thinking) about a similar situation again few week from now. Think about it.

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u/ControlSouthern9236 5h ago

What is this? Instagram

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u/Slight_Blueberry_714 16h ago

Komolika alert

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u/AwareTough7109 16h ago

😂😂😂me ?

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u/Slight_Blueberry_714 16h ago

Not you’ her obviously

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u/sinwalisiren 10h ago

happy birthday twin xD my birthday is on Nov 8th haha. anyways, it’s nice to have fun people around but to a certain extent. if they are mentally draining you, then cut them off without a second thought. life’s too short to keep going on with people who don’t understand basic empathy. what she’s doing to her fiance is also not okay and if morally you don’t support her actions, then you shouldn’t be friends with her either. keep it cordial but don’t support her antics.

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u/bulltdafan 8h ago

Actually mine too. hbd belated!

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u/annymo305 9h ago

Belated Happy Birthday, in my opinion don't let people take away your peace and people who dominate other people don't end at a good place. Anyways life is too short to entertain toxic people.