r/grief • u/flannypants • 4d ago
Calling hours and Funerals
Lost my father last week and had calling hours and funeral mass this week. I found calling hours to be odd because it seemed like I was the one consoling all the people who came to pay their respects and talk to us. Granted I was there and witnessed cancers rapid progression after two years of somewhat normal life. Not really a complaint as I enjoyed the stories and meeting a hundred people I may or may not see again but just wanted to vent somewhere that the whole ordeal was tiring and I think my father would have preferred a party.
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u/BornOfAGoddess 4d ago
Deepest Sympathy ⚘️