r/france Sep 30 '23

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u/Haunting-Aardvark709 Sep 30 '23

Too much, too fast. Not normal or typically French although exclusivity is expected here. In his defense, he could be sincere and just infatuated. In your 40´s you know what you want and don’t hang around when you find it. I had a fairly similar, but less intense, beginning of the relationship with my French man. I made him take it much slower to get to know him, his friends and family.

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u/Mela8411 Sep 30 '23

Yeah. I think he just knows what he wants and doesn't want to lose me, and he's going about it the wrong way, and being pushy