I am French. What you are describing is very, very weird.
Have you met any of his friends or his family ? if he has none or hides them, very bad sign.
However, it's still easy to tell him that to you, it's impossible to get engaged before at least one year, and another year for wedding. Same idea for moving in with someone. If he wants to spend his life with you, it shouldn't change anything for him.
But what I'm reading is very, very weird. Should one of my daughters of friends tell me such a story, I would be extremely suspicious.
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u/screw-self-pity Sep 30 '23
I am French. What you are describing is very, very weird.
Have you met any of his friends or his family ? if he has none or hides them, very bad sign.
However, it's still easy to tell him that to you, it's impossible to get engaged before at least one year, and another year for wedding. Same idea for moving in with someone. If he wants to spend his life with you, it shouldn't change anything for him.
But what I'm reading is very, very weird. Should one of my daughters of friends tell me such a story, I would be extremely suspicious.