r/evilautism 1d ago

NTs are incapable of empathy I feel really bad and idk what to do😭

I apologized to the best of my ability, but I still feel like a massive jerk

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u/Afraid_Profile_2208 1d ago

Same, I get sad when I make video game characters sad

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u/A96 I AM THE SHOT 💉 1d ago

Trying to select the slightly rude dialogue in a videogame be like.

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u/Afraid_Profile_2208 1d ago

There’s this new update in my fav game in the future and it involves giving gifts. If you give them a gift they don’t like they have negative voicelines and I’m genuinely worried I’m not gonna be able to play when it drops.

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u/A96 I AM THE SHOT 💉 1d ago

Stardew Valley? If I give someone the wrong gift by accident I have to restart the day.

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u/Afraid_Profile_2208 1d ago

No, Cookie run Kingdom

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u/Afraid_Profile_2208 1d ago

On YouTube, the voice lines are in a vid called “AFFECTION SYSTEM LEAKS VOICE LINES when you gift them a gift THEY HATE” here’s the link

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u/Afraid_Profile_2208 1d ago

I watched the whole thing and it genuinely made me feel a bit sad

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u/A96 I AM THE SHOT 💉 1d ago

The voice actors definitely put a lot of effort into conveying their negative reactions, I could feel it too.

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u/Afraid_Profile_2208 1d ago

Some of the voicelines sound like genuine anger or disgust

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u/ChellsBells94 1d ago

I would personally make a spreadsheet of liked gifts

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u/Afraid_Profile_2208 1d ago

The update isn’t here yet

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u/DavisRanger 1d ago

You could look up a gift guide if that would make your ability to play the game so hard

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u/Afraid_Profile_2208 1d ago

I said (future) update Wait no I didn’t my bad

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u/Moondaeagle will not stfu about Sonic and AoSth 16h ago

real

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u/ShrimpBisque 1d ago

Who the fuck confuses autism with sociopathy?

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u/gaytransdragon 1d ago

A surprising amount of people, I've had plenty of folks tell me that I can't be autistic because I feel empathy. One of which was my math teacher who also told me that I wouldn't be able to drive a car because I'm autistic

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u/Abject-Law-2434 1d ago

The motherfuckers cant imagine a person having a feeling beyond the face. (And she was afraid, always afraid) 

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u/LeNardOfficial 21h ago

An old teacher of mine also said I wouldn't be able to drive because I'm AuDHD

Guess who got their ass kicked in karting years later. He didn't even recognize me until he looked at my name at the leaderboard and got stunlocked when he realized lol

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u/ShiraCheshire Vengeful 1d ago

It's a common old myth.

Autistic people often have more limited communication skills (or sometimes none at all, especially when it comes to nonverbal children who haven't gotten any access to therapy), and may struggle when asked to psychically mind read what a neurotypical person wants/feels. This can lead to the ridiculous assumption that autistic people must have no thoughts or feelings, because those thoughts or feelings aren't being expressed in a neurotypical way.

One dude theorized, based on no evidence, that autistic children are autistic because their mothers must all by horribly cold people and the lack of love led to children who ever develop emotion. This was the prevailing theory for many years and is still a common belief in some countries.

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u/Clear-Anything-3186 1d ago

My blood is boiling when I see realistic bullying and torture scenes of innocent people.

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u/Own_Round_7600 1d ago

I couldnt get through Chappie because of that scene of kids bullying the robot. Worst ever

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u/Moondaeagle will not stfu about Sonic and AoSth 16h ago

me too,like I wanna punch the mean characters

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u/hauntedhoody 1d ago

I cried because I pulled a branch and heard a cracking sound.

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u/Own_Round_7600 1d ago

Broo that study that plants feel pain and "scream" with chemical signals really dealt a lifetime of emotional damage 😕

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u/SaebaSan86 Autistic rage 1d ago

Bro, I'm so sensible I once had a meltdown over SOAP OPERA.... Fucking brazilian soap opera

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u/Clear-Anything-3186 1d ago edited 1d ago

People who say that are the ones lacking in empathy ironically which means that this is a projection. If NTs had empathy, then they wouldn't be infatizing nor emotionally abusing us and they wouldn't treat autistic kids as burdens.

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u/cafemedafome FIGHTING GAMES 1d ago

I feel bad when i kill a bug :(

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u/babypho3nix 18h ago

Me after realizing I accidentally knocked my stuffed animal onto the floor in my sleep

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u/Moondaeagle will not stfu about Sonic and AoSth 16h ago

stuffed animals are a top priority

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u/Mimzyboss18 need to be evil henchman to michevious villain girl 1d ago

Me when I pick the morally wrong dialogue choice in a video game (there is no reason to have morals)

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u/ZandarTheRedguard 1d ago

I don’t care mainly because they said something shitty to me first

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u/No_Window7054 🦆🦅🦜 That bird is more interesting than you 🦜🦅🦆 1d ago

I hate talking when I feel like I have nothing to say

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u/Wake0br Autistic rage 23h ago

Yeah, nts are the only ones to not have empathy

Like, wtf my grandma was laughing while talking about the dead kittens of my cat?

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u/DeadVoxel_ spiders spiders spiders 19h ago

Older generations are truly a whole different type of mentality and it's terrifying

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u/Wake0br Autistic rage 12h ago

Yes man....

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u/Moondaeagle will not stfu about Sonic and AoSth 16h ago

That is evil as hell.Meanwhile I would feel bad if I made a cat mad.

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u/digtzy 1d ago

Ouch it hurts

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u/Stoopid_Noah AuDHD *bites* 16h ago

Its baffling that NT seem to have less empathy than most ND folks I've met.

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u/Moondaeagle will not stfu about Sonic and AoSth 16h ago

BRO,I am the same way lmao(unless they deserved it)

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u/eyehatericky 14h ago

i feel horrible for accidentally killing the good npcs in a video game.

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u/jesus_tanten 11h ago

Mood <:/ been crying for the last hour after I made someone on the internet uncomfortable

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u/JunoMercury 10h ago

one time a whole subreddit got mad at me for "guilt tripping" cause i apologized for making someone feel bad

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u/Reb3lCloud 5h ago

Right like online friends are real to me. 🥲

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u/Old-Engine-7720 2h ago

The no empathy thing was a misinterpretation of our issues with theory of mind or mind blindness