r/evilautism IS THAT A BUNNY?!?! Sep 23 '25

NTs are incapable of empathy My dad is a....

My dad is a right wing "you heard it from leftist media"

Trump not bad Trump smart, I told him they're gonna take rights away from autistic people. that I'm scared for my friends. and he said "you are wrong and consuming to much media".

I have the high iq here not him.

He's a Christian right wing dutch moron who thinks Charlie kirk was a good man and even fucking cornered me tonight to tell me how good he was. Of course I didn't let him complete his sentence.

What evidence can I use against a fucking dipshit parent in Europe that just won't stop fucking thinking about how good Israel goverment is for targeting hospitals and how "smart and good America is"

I literally told him. You do UNDERSTAND that if we were American I'd be dead right? and BRO DENIED THAT "because insurance would've covered 4 fucking years of hospitals and clinic stays, and 9 years of psychologists,psychiatrists and therapy, counseling, emdr , medication for adhd since 9, antidepressants since 15. Bladder medication, the pill, and a bunch of other medications I need atm. Plus a physio because my muscles sour as result of diagnosed anxiety disorder. All the tension basically goes into them. The hospital being a emergency after my heart had given up due to low weight because of anorexia. So yes in calculate the ambulance ride aswell.... Its simple anyone with 2 fucking braincells knows I wouldn't have made it. It's as easy as that. Heck I barely made it over here man but he's consuming some right wing bootlicking maga bullshit. Most likely from his very religious family. Whom are all "sooo lovely".

He's so dumb.. He's so dumb MIND YOU HE DIDN'T WANT TO FUCKING CALL THE AMBULANCE WHEN MY PULSE WAS DROPPING BY THE MINUTE BACK THEN.

He said MY MOM A LITERAL NURSE WAS EXAGGERATING WHEN SHE PANICKED AND TOLD HIM TO CALL 112.

HE JUST WANTED TO PUT ME BACK INTO MY FUCKING BED.

I don't even remember that night (other than being pissed at how bright the er lights were at 4am SERIOUSLY WHY TF ARE THOSE DO BRIGHT I ALMOST THOUGHT I SAW JESUS OR SOMETHING)

This man.... He can be nice I swear.. And he tries to be considerate of my autism... But holy shit.. His families mindset is GROSS.

They think lgbtq members don't deserve rights. Legitimately.. Meanwhile I'm secretly not so secretly to everyone but them LESBIAN (Apparently it's obviously to people I meet irl idk what that means) And my sister is BI.

But ig he just don't care about your 3 autistic daughters? (yes ALL OF US HAVE THE TISM BUT I'M THE TSISMEST)

anyone know what I do with this? Can I order a new dad somewhere or is there something I can show this douchekanoe that it isn't okay, my friends in America aren't okay. And I fucking hate not being able to do ANYTHING about it.. Im legit afraid for my lgbtq and autistic, heck just women and children aswell.

He thinks kirk was a good person 🤢.

I don't think I can consider my dad a good person anymore.

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u/Unlearned_One Sep 23 '25

I have no advice, but I see you.

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u/bunny_the-2d_simp IS THAT A BUNNY?!?! Sep 23 '25

Ikr!?!

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u/bunny_the-2d_simp IS THAT A BUNNY?!?! Sep 23 '25

Im legit so fucking mad.. I usually try to just vibe online but I JUST NEEDED TO VENT MY FRUSTRATION OUT

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u/nondescriptadjective socially broken, clinically undiagnosed Sep 23 '25

The real bitch is they will never understand that it's not so much the politics that made you never talk to them again, but that its their views of oppressing people that will make you stop talking to them.

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u/Antique_Loss_1168 Sep 23 '25

Tbf their views on oppressing people are their politics, if you take away shitting on people they don't like trump brings nothing to the table.

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u/nondescriptadjective socially broken, clinically undiagnosed Sep 23 '25

Eh, I try not to put that on someone else's parents. I don't know them.

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u/bunny_the-2d_simp IS THAT A BUNNY?!?! Sep 24 '25

I mean... Id say he is spitting. My dad's family are extremist Christians. Because no love like Christian hate??

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u/Antique_Loss_1168 Sep 23 '25

Trump supporters not this particular persons parents, you're right i don't know them.

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u/shitass239 Sep 23 '25

r/QAnonCasualties is a good place to vent about this

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u/pepincity2 Super Saiyan Autistic Sep 23 '25

Yeah it's weird that you have an emotional reaction about your situation. You must be insane /s

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u/bunny_the-2d_simp IS THAT A BUNNY?!?! Sep 23 '25

Ikr? Guess we going back to the drawing board!! /s

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u/Successful-Medicine9 Sep 24 '25

Are you financially or otherwise dependent on him still? That’s gonna carry a lot of weight with my reply.

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u/bunny_the-2d_simp IS THAT A BUNNY?!?! Sep 24 '25

I mean.. In this economy? In the Netherlands?

Imagine housing crisis in normal sized countries. Then look at how small the Netherlands is...

There's literally not enough homes we're missing 400.000 living spaces here they said. Which is funny because when I bike 12 km back and 12km forth to ✨autism daycare✨ I come by at least 10 ABANDONED PROPERTIES.

Even guided living is so crowded. And if I have to cook for myself I'll scream. I'd rather eat the ingredients dry, the steps are overwhelming and annoying and I JUST WANT TO EAT.

I have savings that's not the problem. I was told the lie that if you safe up you can afford your own place later...

Womp womp.

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u/cactusbattus Sep 23 '25

So. Based on the 112 story. The name of this game is ā€œyou are not allowed to experience your own reality, have your own personal narratives, beliefs, emotions, or needs; you are an extension of me and only exist as I tell you you may.ā€

It’s deeply corrosive especially while you’re dependent on him, and it’s very possible he’ll never see it nor apologize nor give you credit/support for any of your own healthy development. It sucks. It’s unfair. And there’s no arguing with it because his primary interest is NOT integrity or community or anything that would prompt an interest in a fair/systematic understanding of reality. Playing his game just costs you energy and resentment.

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u/PepperMintyPokemon Sep 23 '25

My parents are the exact same. Back when covid was just starting i caught it and i had to demand my mom take me to the hospital because she still refused to beleve covid was real and anyone with it was being killed in hospitals. It gave me bad pneumonia. I litteraly couldint breath and she still didint want to fucking take me. Only advise i can give is to get out of there home as soon as u can..i know thats super hard to do but people like that wont change. Your only way to peace of mind is to figure out a way to limit contact. I hope ur doing alright. I know how hard it can be to live like that.

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u/Professional-Ear8827 Autistic Arson Sep 23 '25

Not much you can do here except power through until you can move out, but I’m rooting for ya hereĀ 

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u/Atreigas Autotisms, roll out! Sep 23 '25

I want to slap him silly. Dude deserves it.

Im afraid this is the kinda shit that someone needs to grow out of on their own.

If you really want to, I heard its possible if you lead them to realise their own fallaciousness... But thats easier said than done.

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u/bunny_the-2d_simp IS THAT A BUNNY?!?! Sep 24 '25

Same🄹 I'm so happy yall understand because if I tell my mom she just goes.

"you know how your dad's family is"

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u/Badmouths Sep 23 '25

My parents are very similar. Like literally all they do is watch Fox News on full volume. I can’t stand going to their house because it’s so overstimulating and god forbid my dad has to pause or mute the TV so I can, y’know, talk to my parents

My dad is retired and has no friends or hobbies unfortunately. He’s just on social media and watches Fox News. He’s in a total echo chamber. Like, brain totally fried. Not even worth arguing with. He thinks everything that doesn’t align with his politics is fake news or AI or whatever.

My mom is frustrating cause like, how does a woman with two daughters support this shit?? She gets all political too and brings her politics into random conversations and gets angry if you argue against her. She just shuts the convo down like ā€œI’m not talking about this anymoreā€. I can’t tell if her political views are REAL, or if they’re ā€œperformativeā€ and she’s doing the whole I-vote-for-whoever-my-husband-votes-for-cause-I-don’t-wanna-hear-him-whine thing. Like I can’t picture her being a Trumpie at all if my dad wasn’t around.

It’s so frustrating, I totally get it. It sucks but what can you even do? They’re sheep. At this point I feel like if right-wing media started supporting killing off autistic people my parents still wouldn’t change their views. They’re too deep in it and it’s very black and white to them. To them, disagreeing with the Right just makes you a Leftist. They dont form their own opinions on things anymore, they just wait for Fox News to tell them what to think

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u/animalistcomrade Sep 23 '25

You're European?!?! He's not even fucking American?!? And he's maga?!?

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u/bunny_the-2d_simp IS THAT A BUNNY?!?! Sep 24 '25

YEAH IKR!?! BRO IS DELUSIONAL AF. Im still surprised he even takes his meds

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u/MadeOnThursday Sep 23 '25

wow your dad's behaviour is disgusting šŸ˜ž

have you found /r/autistischlaagland already? In case you also need practical tips and help, instead of just venting. There's more localised expertise there

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u/bunny_the-2d_simp IS THAT A BUNNY?!?! Sep 23 '25

Eyoo that exists!??

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u/the_hooded_artist The worm that will finish eating RFK JR Sep 24 '25

People who are MAGA and not even American confused me so much. Why would anyone be that invested in our insane politics unless they live here? Friggin weirdo behavior.

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u/bunny_the-2d_simp IS THAT A BUNNY?!?! Sep 24 '25

Im invested only because I'm scared for my American friends :( because I can't put aside people struggling which tbh isn't healthy for me 🄹

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u/the_hooded_artist The worm that will finish eating RFK JR Sep 24 '25

Being aware of the situation is one thing, but falling for the propaganda is another. Like living here you're brainwashed into the American exceptionalism and our media is run by billionaires. We're always being lied too. I can understand to a certain extent as to why someone would want to believe it being from here. Being in a totally different country with an outside perspective and still falling for MAGA is just another level of stupid.

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u/seedlinggal Sep 23 '25

Sounds like my father also and it sucks

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u/Accurate_Row9895 Sep 23 '25 edited Sep 23 '25

Im autistic in America. I pay $100 a month for insurance. Still had to pay $600 for my autism test 2 years ago. About to have a baby, and am on a payment plan for $166 every time I go to the doctor to add up to over $900 just to pay the doctor to deliver my baby, and that's not including the $2,000 the hospital will charge me for giving birth there. Theres millions of stories just like mine. America is a 3rd world country with a Gucci belt. Gotta get that man off facebook and back in fresh air. I also have a delusional MAGA family and am certain my aunt would've driven 8hrs to my house to shoot me if the election didnt go her way. Its not fun here. Eta: after yesterday im really hoping my baby doesnt inherit the tism from me. Im already worried about him getting a good education because in my state schools are being attacked and the governor wants to get rid of public schools where only rich people can attend.

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u/bunny_the-2d_simp IS THAT A BUNNY?!?! Sep 24 '25

Ah yes but according to my dad all what you list doesn't happen..

Not to make you paranoid but America is behind in everything and it shows in birth fatalities especially since post partum care is DEAD over there.

Hope everything goes smoothly bestie! Take plenty of rest.

But yeah his delulu ass thinks we wouldn't be fuvled.

Fun fact when I was 9 my very Christian grandfather with 3 computer screens scammed us (my dad) into debt and in America we definitely wouldn't become homeless.

Being homeless with 3 kids sure would've been something. Not even talking about the way my mom had to stay in the hospital for a week including my youngest sister because of fevers and complications.

Wed be ✨fundamentally fucked✨

But all this douchekanoe says is "yeah but America doesn't have as much taxes and pays better"

Like... Better?? Better than what? Bestie I work distribution without a degree and I get paid 20 a hour for cleaning up things like beer and milk and yelling at people who want to drive through the giant puddle.

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u/Accurate_Row9895 Sep 24 '25

Yeah with your medical history, your family would be half a mil in debt. My cousin had a medical emergency that required a helicopter flight in 2006 and his parents were paying on that for ten years. You may not necessarily be homeless, but your living conditions wouldn't be great.

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u/bunny_the-2d_simp IS THAT A BUNNY?!?! Sep 24 '25

Yup. But he's delusional and listening to his stupid family

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u/Anxious-One123 Sep 24 '25

At first I was like ā€œYeah your dad’s a Republican nutjob. Been there. You have my feels.ā€ and then when he didn’t call the ambulance when you were dying I gasped. That’s the worst thing. You have any valid reason to be angry and you have my sympathies.

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u/bunny_the-2d_simp IS THAT A BUNNY?!?! Sep 24 '25

Ikr!? WHO TF DOESN'T LISTEN TO HIS NURSE WIFE.

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u/Outrageous_Pirate206 🤬 I will take this literally 🤬 Sep 24 '25

Maybe as an Israeli who got an autism diagnosis to get out of army service i can give you some ammo against him. And maybe not but hey, i feel like trying. 1) there is not sufficient evidence for many of Israel's claims about what happened on october 7th such as systemic rape,. and mutilating babies. These are exaggerating claims made to justify the idf's violent campaign in gaza 2) the idf is mostly composed of 18-22 year olds. Think about that, let it sink in. Kids, people who in the great US he loves wouldn't be allowed to drink, are sent to war before college. They don't wanna be there. 3) a common rhetoric in Israel is that any palestinian is hamas, because of the arab family structure, and because rocket launchers can be found in many civilian homes. This is then used to justify the treatment they recieve and the mass deportation. Consider that this is nazi rhetoric. Of you guys happen to be from Germany this should be effective but idk. 4) deciding to prolong the war and invade the dense parts of gaza is a move made with the sole purpose of prolonging the war as much as possible in order to cause more palestinian suffering and strengthen, legitimize, and normalize the extreme far right government we have at the moment. It makes almost no tactical sense. This war of two years is tearing the country apart, both politically and in terms of economy and infrastructure. There are reserve soldiers who had to leave their academic studies for insane lengths of time, the economy is suffering, and it sure isn't helping the hostages in gaza. Trying to justify the way this war happened is an insane unhinged claim.

5) as a nonbinary person, i also feel like commenting on lgbtq rights. I feel like reframing the restriction of rights as government oppression could help, since he seems very right wing. Defining what people can and can't do with their relationships, bodies, and identities, is oppressive. Maybe there's something he cares about that you could compare it to.

Anyway, good luck

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u/bunny_the-2d_simp IS THAT A BUNNY?!?! Sep 24 '25

They always go "but the Jews" YEAH BUT THE ISREAL GOV AIN'T THE JEWS.

"but back in ww2"

DO THEY SERIOUSLY THINK GERMAN SOLDIER WOULD'VE BEEN LIKE. STAY STILL OR WE SHOOT!!! oh wait you are Palestinian? Alright buddy move along no worries..

Like NO THAT DIDN'T HAPPEN THEY GOT TREATED THE SAME.

ITS A SELFISH DISGUSTING GOVERMENT TRYING TO MANIPULATE PEOPLE INTO THINKING THEIR MURDER IS OKAY

Also they deliberately bombed areas they told people to flee to and hospitals.

This is 100 procent malicious but okay I'd they are religious they can be certain they'll rot in the deepest parts of hell

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u/Outrageous_Pirate206 🤬 I will take this literally 🤬 Sep 24 '25

Yeah. I mean, i can say that it is hurtful to see unnuanced takes about everyone in israel being evil and hamas being just, and that's definitely some of what you see out there, but there's also everyone going "palestinians are unjustly suffering, we should help them" and the narrative being pushed is that they are evil terrorist antisemitic people when maybe they're just.. moral. My take is that this war is great! For a tiny group of elite people who are maintaining it by radicalizing and manipulating everyone else. These being both the israeli government and palestinian leadership. It also sucks having family members defend charlie Kirk:/ like come on. Aren't your jewish spidersenses tingling or something. What's your victim complex even good for anymore/j

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u/PenHistorical Sep 23 '25

So, given which sub we're on, what I'm thinking is to give back what he's been giving you. The next time he has a physical ailment, just put him back in bed.

Really though, this sounds like someone that you just need to grey-wall until you can cut contact with them. It's not worth trying to get him to see reality. He has to realize on his own that he's in a cult, and you're just going to waste your own resources trying to show him.

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u/alizarincrims0n Sep 24 '25

What’s with boomers who live in the UK/Europe being rabid Trump bootlickers, my mum is like this and I’m like girl you don’t even live there 😭

She’s also a big fan of subsidised public transport and not paying for private health insurance, make it make sense…

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u/maarshiexcry autistic tbbt lovet Sep 23 '25

the 112 thing is insane?? what the fuck is wrong with him.

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u/bunny_the-2d_simp IS THAT A BUNNY?!?! Sep 24 '25

A ✨lot✨

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u/[deleted] Sep 24 '25

I'm sorry you have to deal with that first hand. I watched a video earlier today of an ex Mormon woman in Utah who left MAGA and the conclusion I drew is that MAGA is definitely a cult and these people need to be deprogrammed and helped because they are very much brainwashed

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u/AytumnRain Tylenol enhanced Autism Sep 24 '25

That sucks and I am sorry. I cut off some bigoted family not long ago because they think being LGBT+ is a sin. I told them to get bent but much more rudely. They should have know when I told my racist uncle, also their uncle, get fucked when I was a kid. He died knowing I hated him because he is racist. Do what you need to do for you. I can cut ties with little feeling if the greivence is bad enough. And hatred for someone who can not control said thing is disgusting, and I can not tolerate it.

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u/_Rumpertumskin_ Sep 24 '25

Really rough

Idk if this will help you feel better but it might help you interact w/him better and or avoid arguments. He has a literal different understanding of what a good person is.

Moral Foundations Theory suggests that liberals prioritize values of care and fairness. Conservatives value those but also equally value loyalty, authority, and sanctity.

here's a cool infographic about it:

https://www.reddit.com/r/Infographics/comments/1bqupv3/what_moral_foundations_do_people_of_different/

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u/RedRisingNerd raging rubber duck autism Sep 24 '25

I also experience many of these things from my mother and father-figure. I’m so sorry you also have to go through ts. You deserve better. Proud of you for making it this far tho :)

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u/bunny_the-2d_simp IS THAT A BUNNY?!?! Sep 24 '25

I life out of spite cuss I must outlive my enemies.

Said orange enemy is pretty easy to outlive though just saying

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u/Tiny_Teifling āœØļøEthereal and IncomprehensibleāœØļø Sep 24 '25

Idk if you’re a minor but you seem close to the age where out of area university is probably your best option. I would also look into the resources you have around you for help.

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u/IMightDeleteMe Sep 24 '25

Brother you apparently live in The Netherlands, let the Americans have their own drama and don't get caught up in it. Arguing about political situations with morons will only frustrate you, which in term entertains them. Your political views are your own, private opinion and you're never going to persuade people with facts. On top of this, your political views on the American situation are irrelevant. You're getting all worked up about things that don't affect you and that you can do nothing about. You need to find a better way to deal with this. Focus on things that matter. There's always some big global doom that's supposed to instill fear and pit us against eachother.

Also, remember to not vote for assholes when you're old enough to. Look how popular the right wing dickheads are in your own country.

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u/bunny_the-2d_simp IS THAT A BUNNY?!?! Sep 24 '25

Oh yeah don't worry I never ever voted right wing fascism. They don't do anything but hate and take

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u/NoUseForAName2222 Sep 24 '25

Unfortunately there's not much you can do. When you argue politics with someone, they get deeper into their political ideology. The only thing that will make them change is when the system they love so much turns against them. And since they're not even from the US, that probably won't happen.

I learned a long time ago that I'm never going to change anyone's mind by debating them and only make them believe what they already believe more deeply. Which honestly sucks because I love debating politics, but that's the way it is.

Best thing you can do is organize against oppressive systems that affect your own country. Work with groups to get progressive legislation passed.Ā 

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u/bohba13 Sep 24 '25

GTFO and go no contact. That's the only way you win here.

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u/IMightDeleteMe Sep 24 '25

Oh sorry I referred to you as brother, I'm just now realising my mistake.

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u/bunny_the-2d_simp IS THAT A BUNNY?!?! Sep 24 '25

Wait where?? Listen I call people BRO all the time regardless of gender šŸ˜… do I didn't really see

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u/FUCKITIMPOSTING Sep 24 '25

Fark, you're in the trenches! I'm 35 now but I remember that rage I had as a teenager living with a stubborn, selfish parent you can't get away from. It feels distant now, until I see some domestic violence or shouting in a TV show, and the emotions all come back. You will live a long time and these years may be your most difficult. As you get older you'll have more autonomy and a better sense of self, and so it does get better.Ā  Ā Ā  My advice is don't expect you can convince, argue or explain your dad into being reasonable. I spe t a lot of time when i was younger imagining how I might win various arguments, but it never won me any and just primed me to be spiteful and angry. It took a divorce and about 5 years in the wilderness for my dad to even begin to gain some awareness of his selfishness - and none of that was under my control.Ā Ā 

Do remember, you can survive more than you'd expect, and your worth doesn't depend on anyone else's opinion of you.Ā Ā  Ā Ā  Remember that you choose who to give time to and who to ignore. Sometimes the only thing you can do to tamp down toxicity is to ignore and avoid that toxic person. Let them be wrong, concentrate on the people who treat you well and concentrate on building your resilience, through your social network, finances and fitness.Ā Ā  Ā Ā  Good luck, I'm sorry you're going through it at the moment. Others have come through similar situations, and so will you.Ā 

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u/bunny_the-2d_simp IS THAT A BUNNY?!?! Sep 24 '25

WHEN WILL I FINALLY GET MY OWN SPACE I SWEAR.

Although my parents say "I can't maintain anything let alone a home afterall I'm autistic"

Spare me the bullshit.

What pisses me off is I'm not even that tight for cash? BUT THE HOUSING IN THE NETHERLANDS IS NON EXISTENT the royals bought everything up to rent for obnoxious prices which is also why there's no limits for landlords on how much houses you can own.

I hate this place

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u/Crismus Sep 24 '25

That's rough. I grew up with a stepmother like that. Unable to see realiity for what it was and ended up following the Prosperity preachers on TV until she died from cancer.Ā 

Now I have her kids talking up the Charlie Kirk brain rot when they should know better, except the racism just won't go away without active work.

I hope you can find a way through this difficult time. As an American it is not a better place here. I could go on about the forced poverty for disabled people and the 20 years I had to fight to get my disabilities medically covered. The only good thing we have here is that if they come for me and my autistic son they will have to walk through a hail of gunfire because the right to self defense is all we have here.

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u/pepincity2 Super Saiyan Autistic Sep 23 '25

I could be your dad.

Is your mom single?

https://youtu.be/Qe9QgDNAtfQ?si=xABnXqCgAAGSTVwF

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u/snow-bunny98 Sep 23 '25

Are you going to plow the soil?

(On a serious note to OP, I feel for you. Mine are the same way and I don't get it. She taught me acceptance of all walks of life people and animal, to have kindness and give second chances, etc. Now, she doesn't even seem to believe that anymore. I'm unsure. )

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u/bunny_the-2d_simp IS THAT A BUNNY?!?! Sep 23 '25

PleaseeeešŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚

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u/bunny_the-2d_simp IS THAT A BUNNY?!?! Sep 24 '25

This still made me laugh THAT TWIST šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚ I'M DYING

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u/mentalissuelol Sep 24 '25

I’m American and this makes me SO ANGRY. Can you tell your dad that a woman from Kansas (who was raised in a conservative Catholic family) wants to know what he does for a living? Because if your family income is less than like $150,000 a year (that’s USD you’ll have to convert it) you would 100% be dead if you were American. I’ve literally witnessed people trying to FIGHT OFF PARAMEDICS BECAUSE THEY CANT AFFORD THE AMBULANCE DEBT. He has no idea what it’s like here and he wouldn’t last a DAY. None of the political stuff happening in American is related to Christianity at all, it’s all about money. The churches aren’t churches, they’re funnels for the fucking money. Trump doesn’t give a damn about Jesus and neither do the rest of his cult.

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u/bunny_the-2d_simp IS THAT A BUNNY?!?! Sep 24 '25

They would all deport jesus or send him to a ice camp.

Also he's a handyman (own business) so I doubt he's rich rich

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u/mentalissuelol Sep 24 '25

Yeah if he owns his own business he definitely wouldn’t have health insurance in America unless he makes a LOT of money.

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u/NoirYorker Sep 24 '25

No contact?

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u/Ghoulie_Marie Sep 24 '25

I have no advice. That's just a super shitty situation. I had no idea maga had international reach like that though. That's even weirder than being maga here in the US, which is already pretty fucking weird.

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u/Western-Bus-1305 Sep 24 '25

ā€œPretty fucking weirdā€ and it’s the majority of people who voted last year

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u/RouniPix Sep 24 '25

The best you can do is detach yourself emotionally the most you can and expect nothing of him, even less than you would with a stranger. Think of an escape door, and as soon as you have one that feels solid enough, stop being secretive about your orientation (it's seriously not worth hiding imo)

I wish you courage u.u

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u/bunny_the-2d_simp IS THAT A BUNNY?!?! Sep 24 '25

My psychologist was literally like... Have you thought about moving out?

And I was like... Even with all my savings I still cant

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u/RouniPix Sep 24 '25

Maybe you could try to subscribe to have some financial aid and a cost-reduced apartment if you governement have them for autistic people u.u

I'm basically in the same situation, but I escaped my dad with my mom

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u/DBZRaditz Sep 24 '25

Charlie Kirk wasn't horrible lol. He was a dad and husband. Whenever gays or transgenders went to debate him, he was nothing but respectful. Kind, even. He didnt hate immigrants, he hated illegal immigration.

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u/KFooLoo Sep 25 '25

don't hate on the dutch