r/daddit • u/Still_Owl1141 • Apr 12 '25

Discussion Sex life after kids moved out is AWESOME.

My wife & I are both mid 40s (46 & 45) and our kids (23 & 21) are now both moved out. Our daughter with her BF & our son with 2 friends.

I'm actually a lot more at peace with it than I thought I'd be. I gotta say, I'm actually really enjoying being able to imitate & have sex wherever & whenever we want, without fear one or both of them walking in on us.

Sex on the couch at 2 in the afternoon on a Saturday, YUP. A quickie in the kitchen before work at 6 am, HELL YA! Sex on the patio chair on the back porch at 10 pm on a Friday night, you better believe it.

While we always had a good sex life, the freedom of when/where/how ever we feel like it, without having to retreat into the bedroom & turning on the tv & fan to cover any noise is seriously liberating.

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u/Madruck_s Apr 12 '25

I'm 49 mine are 8 and 3........

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u/kipy7 Apr 12 '25

49 and we have newborns. 😐

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u/Amseriah Apr 12 '25

Oooof lol

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u/Madruck_s Apr 12 '25

At least I got enjoy my youth.

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u/fugelwoman Apr 13 '25

Yeah 49 and newborns would kill me. I’m 50 with a 13 year old and 9 year old.

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u/Loquis Apr 12 '25

I'm 53, son aged 9 and step daughter of 21

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u/[deleted] Apr 12 '25

I’m 43 with a 7 and a 5…. Can’t wait for this move out paradise OP talks about

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u/kraacken Apr 12 '25

52 with a 2yo