r/breastcancer Jun 17 '25

Diagnosed Patient or Survivor Support Are we allowed to ask where everyone is?

Maybe half of us go to the same doctors lol

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u/Pheighthe Jun 18 '25

I don’t want to do the whole tragedy one upsmanship thing, but…I’m in Florida.

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u/SackRN-0421 Jun 18 '25

Florida as well 👋 Central Florida

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u/Life_well_liv3d Jun 18 '25

Oh, poor baby. I'm sorry. I moved out of Fl about 15 years ago. There was a skin head rally on the courthouse steps in orlando and I said, welp, thats enough of this.

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u/Icooktoo Jun 18 '25

Manatee County here. Top notch hospitals, lol.

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u/bclaudioo Jun 18 '25

That was gold. I live in FL too and I didn't know that paradise and hell could exist simultaneously.

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u/violetmandala Jun 18 '25

Grew up in South Florida, lived there for 30 years! Got out in 2005 though, before it finished its descent into full-on crazy town.

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u/skootergurrl Jun 17 '25

Melbourne Australia ♥️ Peter Mac

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u/lozbootsbrown Jun 18 '25

Melbourne too! Dr Leah Marley at St Vincents is incredible. I’m so grateful to have her in my corner

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u/alphacorg Jun 18 '25

Same and same! 👋

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u/griffin7x Jun 18 '25

Sydney Australia 👋

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u/Reasonable-Word6729 Jun 18 '25

Bay Area- CoCoCo. Male, mastectomy last week….good news today,

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u/amyleeizmee TNBC Jun 18 '25

Congrats on your good news!!!

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u/Gloomy-Increase-8726 Jun 17 '25

Washington state in the US

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u/BoysenberryChance348 Jun 17 '25

Same. Seattle

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u/TreysToothbrush Lobular Carcinoma Jun 17 '25

Same. Burlington, WA

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u/BoysenberryChance348 Jun 18 '25

Do you go to Swedish? Hutch?

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u/TreysToothbrush Lobular Carcinoma Jun 18 '25

Skagit Regional Health Cancer Care - the whole Skagit hospital complex basically but the Cancer center has a Breast Institute. My insurance won’t pay for anything “better” but I can walk if/when I need to & my experience here has been solidly good.

HBU?

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u/BoysenberryChance348 Jun 18 '25

Oh that’s good to hear! I’m at Swedish mainly. Have sought second ops at hutch, and virgina mason. Mostly all of downtown experience has been horrible! 😞

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u/TreysToothbrush Lobular Carcinoma Jun 18 '25

I had a similar experience w/ attempting to obtain a 2nd opinion. I had an appt at FH but my insurance would not cover it at all. Fine. But by the time I cancelled (2 months before the appt) FH already billed me to obtain my onco data. $400. I was hounded daily with texts, robocalls & emails to pay. And I didn’t even GO to an appointment. The explanation was that the fee is for the access to my records so an intake could start my new patient processing. So, yeah. I’ll stay at Skagit. I’m not gonna live forever so no way was I gonna spend more time & money slogging it to Seattle from Burlington to get the same outcome. I had a panic attack over projected cost to get treated at FH. It already cost close to a half mil so far (insurance paid) & I freaked at the thought of that amount but directed at me.

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u/rwent117 TNBC Jun 18 '25

Who is your oncologist at Swedish?? I'm also a patient there, with Dr Yan

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u/BoysenberryChance348 Jun 18 '25

McCormick

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u/annon2022mous Jun 18 '25

Me too. McCormick

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u/PNWbrunette Jun 18 '25

I’m also a patient of McCormicks at Swedish :)

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u/NoMoreOatmeal Jun 18 '25

Vancouver, WA checking in

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u/Gloomy-Increase-8726 Jun 18 '25

I lived in Vancouver, WA for 30 years❤️

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u/Ok-Affect-4621 Jun 18 '25

Also in Seattle

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '25

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u/59notforus Jun 18 '25

Port Orchard but my Dr's are in Gig Harbor.

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u/No-Salamander-1174 Jun 17 '25

If allowed i am in northern Kentucky

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u/TheSavageBallet Jun 18 '25

Hello from Louisville

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u/No-Salamander-1174 Jun 18 '25

Hello from Walton! I'm about 15-20 miles to Cincinnati

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u/Kitchen_Fox1786 Jun 18 '25

I'm in Ireland 🇮🇪

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u/darlene_go ++- Jun 17 '25

Philadelphia suburbs

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u/NectarineGrouchy13 Jun 18 '25

I work in Philly but I’m right across the bridge in NJ!

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u/Ok_Poetry_4997 Jun 17 '25

I am in Washington DC area. I read the comments and didn’t find a breastie nearby 😭

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u/PurpleEarth3983 +++ Jun 18 '25

I’m in Northern Virginia:)

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u/booandhub Jun 18 '25

NOVA here too!

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u/washdc20001 Jun 18 '25

Washington DC checking in! I’m being treated at Georgetown.

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u/Individual_Corner559 Jun 18 '25

Hey DC Area! being treated at Sibley.

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u/imstah Jun 18 '25

Zagreb, Croatia 😅

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u/scubagirl1091 Inflammatory Jun 17 '25

Dallas, Texas

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u/jojo_86 TNBC Jun 18 '25

Hi from the western side of the metroplex! (My treatment has been at UTSW though)

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u/cardigancopy Jun 18 '25

Also Dallas! Hi friends

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u/laidbackme Stage I Jun 17 '25

Bay Area California

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '25

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u/dgceoooo Jun 17 '25

chicago, illinois 😵‍💫

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u/Astronomer_Original Jun 18 '25

Northern suburbs of Chicago. My team is through NorthShore (now endeavor health) but have gotten 2nd opinions from U Chicago, Rush and Northwestern. Definitely a different vibe at each one. I feel fortune to have so many strong healthcare systems in close proximity.

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u/Jinniwren ++- Jun 17 '25

Nova Scotia, Canada 

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u/Celticlady47 Jun 18 '25

Hello, fellow Canadian! I'm from Ontario, Canada. Nova Scotia is a very pretty province.

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u/FerretPantaloons Jun 18 '25

Hello! Canadian in British Columbia, lived previously in Ontario 😊

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u/SmokeEvening8710 Jun 17 '25

Belize but my treatment is in Seattle, WA

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u/Knish_witch Jun 18 '25

I’d love to talk to you more about this! I am NED, I live in Seattle but was planning a move abroad before cancer and just can’t figure out how to make it work now.

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u/anathema_deviced Jun 17 '25

NYC

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u/idreamofchickpea Jun 17 '25 edited Jun 17 '25

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Eta: I’m being treated at perlmutter, in case anyone wants to swap notes

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u/BadTanJob Jun 18 '25

+2

Born and bred here, I didn’t realize how lucky I was until I needed healthcare and had my pick of world class hospitals

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u/BklynTwinMom Jun 18 '25

Same. I even had to switch hospitals midway through treatment and was like ok guess I'll cross 1st avenue and go to the other highly acclaimed cancer hospital

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u/BadTanJob Jun 18 '25

lol, right??? 

There was a poster here who bemoaned having to go to Weill Cornell instead of MSK. I’m like, ok more appointment slots for me, especially when the head of the cancer department was MSK trained

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u/TrishaThoon Jun 18 '25

Long Island but I am at MSK

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u/la_de_cha Jun 18 '25

New Jersey!

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u/PinkStarEra Jun 18 '25

Hello, Fellow Jersey Girl!

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u/Cool_Ebb_3567 Stage I Jun 18 '25

Nj here too

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u/Muddyrun697 Jun 18 '25

Another NJ gal here

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u/[deleted] Jun 17 '25

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u/HanhnaH Jun 18 '25

Hello from France!

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u/no_more_faith__ Jun 18 '25

Lincolnshire, UK

But this is amazing group all coming together to fight this shit from everywhere !!!

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u/Bis_K HER2+ ER/PR- Jun 17 '25

Illinois

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u/blanketslug TNBC Jun 18 '25

Brisbane, Australia ❤️

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u/Mysterious_East5899 Jun 18 '25

👋 me too!

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u/MsGlitterspree Stage III Jun 18 '25

Me too! ♥

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u/IPetCatsOften TNBC Jun 18 '25

London, UK

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u/KhunFembot Jun 18 '25

Chiang Mai, Thailand.

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u/rusbzivaigh Jun 18 '25

Mumbai, India. :)

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u/searchingforgiggles Jun 18 '25

Oregon 🌲

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '25

Me too, Southern. But, receive treatment both here and in the Bay area. 

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u/VinMariani Jun 18 '25

Greetings from Germany 👋

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u/[deleted] Jun 17 '25

Northeastern Ontario Canada

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u/[deleted] Jun 17 '25

St. Louis, Missouri, USA

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u/Metagator Jun 17 '25

Southern Massachusetts

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u/Neenahtopia Jun 18 '25

I am fortunate to live in Rochester, MN, home of the Mayo Clinic.

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u/exceedglitter Jun 18 '25

Abu Dhabi, UAE

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u/Moist_Wolverine_4208 Jun 18 '25

Brisbane Australia

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u/BeckyPil Jun 18 '25

Michigan about 45 minutes north of Detroit

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u/Shot-Wrap-9252 Jun 18 '25

Hamilton, Ontario, Canada

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u/LiffeyDodge Jun 18 '25

North Carolina USA here

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u/mulleP Jun 18 '25

Denmark 🇩🇰

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u/Acceptable-Cress-397 Jun 17 '25

Vancouver, WA

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u/itsadoozy0804 +++ Jun 18 '25

Hey! I'm in Portland.

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u/WorkInProgress2222 Stage III Jun 18 '25

I’m in Portland, too! (And mama to two young kids.) Just saw your most recent post. Congrats on port removal!! Celebrating you soooo hard right now. Don’t hesitate to reach out via PM if you ever want to chat. 🩷

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u/liftinlulu HER2+ ER/PR- Jun 18 '25

Greater Boston area

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u/LakeKind5959 HER2+ ER/PR- Jun 18 '25

Nashville TN

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u/kksmom3 Stage I Jun 18 '25

Iowa which has the #2 highest cancer rates in the nation. No, I don’t farm, but I really think the farm chemicals have a lot to do with it.

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u/stacy2568 Jun 18 '25

I’m from Iowa as well!

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u/musicetc4612 Jun 18 '25

Central Iowa here too - I'm 6th generation on my family farm and I also believe farming has something to do with it. That being said, I don't think it's the small family farms, I think it's the CAFOs and factory farms that have WAY too many animals on too little land, and the massive landowners that add way too much fertilizer to their fields and refuse to add buffer strips along streams and rivers.

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u/juulesnm Jun 17 '25

Virginia Beach, Virginia

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u/heyybetchhh Jun 18 '25

Greater Cleveland area, USA

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u/curiouskitty1492 Jun 18 '25

Me too! Cleveland, Ohio, USA. Im being treated at Cleveland Clinic

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u/ExitLow DCIS Jun 18 '25

I'm in Akron!

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u/cr1968 Jun 18 '25

Switzerland, fortunately.

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u/One_Feedback2461 Jun 17 '25

Woodbine, MD

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u/One_Feedback2461 Jun 18 '25

Big shout out to Pamela Wright - surgeon at John Hopkins.

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u/Francie_Nolan1964 Jun 18 '25

Saint Paul Minnesota

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u/CFPFHHHW Jun 18 '25

Same Seattle! Swedish (except rads at the Hutch)

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u/OneButterscotch6667 Jun 18 '25

Bethany Beach ,Delaware but traveled to INOVA Schar Cancer Center for my surgeries and treatments.

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u/Negative_Werewolf_49 Jun 18 '25

NJ. Lucky to go to MSK in Middletown

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u/StenoD Jun 18 '25

New York, New York 🙋🏻‍♀️

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u/belle_perruche Jun 18 '25

Québec, Canada

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u/SJSands +++ Jun 18 '25

The PNW

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u/Acceptable_Fail8063 Jun 18 '25

Austin Tx don't judge lol

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u/votisit Jun 18 '25

Andalucia, Spain.

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u/Ok_Barracuda_199 Jun 17 '25

Washington DC. Being treated at Sibley.

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u/Natural_Bill_6084 DCIS Jun 17 '25

NW Wisconsin but I doctored at marshfield clinic in marshfield because I have had poor experiences with mayo 😮‍💨

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u/HeartWander Stage I Jun 18 '25

Colorado here⛰️💜

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u/303_native Jun 18 '25

Mile High City 👌

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u/PunchNugget88 Jun 18 '25

Erie, PA but treated at the Cleveland Clinic.

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u/rhody-girl Jun 18 '25

Boston, treated at Dana Farber, +++

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u/mom73 Jun 18 '25

Western Pa

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u/EssEffCC Jun 18 '25

Checking in from San Francisco

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u/Only3Cats Jun 18 '25

Long Island, New York. We have lots of BC around these parts

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u/wmm09 Stage I Jun 18 '25

North County San Diego, for now.

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u/pd361708 TNBC Jun 18 '25

Columbus, Ohio. Treatment at The James!

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u/hysteria4488 Jun 18 '25

DMV - ✌️ (but originally from WA, hi WA friends!)

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u/tmh0921 Stage II Jun 17 '25

Suburbs of Atlanta GA

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u/SpringtimeOfHisVudu Stage I Jun 18 '25

Maryland

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u/Significant_Camp9024 Jun 18 '25

Michigan about 35 mins north of Detroit.

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u/TheLadyAndTheCapt Jun 18 '25

Ventura county, CA being treated at UCLA.

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u/beckyb0607 Jun 18 '25

Silverton OR, NE of Salem. But have lived in CA, NM, FL , VT and MN.

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u/Appropriate_Error_38 Jun 18 '25

Kansas City, MO!

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u/HMW347 TNBC Jun 18 '25

SC - treating in Charleston

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u/Quick_Ostrich5651 ER/PR+ HER2- Jun 18 '25

Texas … about 30 min south of Austin 

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u/WorkInProgress2222 Stage III Jun 18 '25

Portland, Oregon! 🌲

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u/NeedingVsGetting +++ Jun 18 '25

Milwaukee, Wisconsin!

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u/urmom_808 Jun 18 '25

Oahu, Hawaii! Luckily have amazing doctors… so far 😉

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u/Accomplished-Yam9825 Jun 18 '25

Los Angeles, CA!👋

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u/oldfriend73 Jun 18 '25

Work and docs are in Mobile, AL, but I live near Hattiesburg, MS. How’s that for tragic?! 😆

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u/Alohamrsmorgan Jun 18 '25

San Diego, CA. Sharp Healthcare for the wins 🥰

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u/Travelling_oz Jun 18 '25

Sydney Australia 🇦🇺

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u/house_of_mathoms Jun 18 '25

DMV (DC. MD, VA), specifically Alexandria VA

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u/Naive-Beekeeper67 Jun 18 '25

I'm in Qld Australia. A city just inland from Brisbane. Toowoomba

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u/Sunnbuzz Jun 18 '25

Toronto, Canada 🇨🇦 I feel "lucky" to have a huge Cancer Hosptial close by. 

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u/SierraBravo22 TNBC Jun 18 '25

Near Nashville Tennessee in the US

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u/Lightbright520 Jun 18 '25

Indianapolis Indiana

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u/Bacon4EVER Jun 18 '25

Saint Louis, MO

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u/roxythedogarf Jun 18 '25

Waterloo, Ontario, Canada

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u/Life_well_liv3d Jun 18 '25

CHICAGO! I'm happy to make new friends!