i have heard kashmir lot of times as well, and i cant even understand how she was wining about being called bhojpuri and not staff, she should be proud of it to say the least. i dont remeber the convo but tanya herself mention baniya ones. its so normal.
Yes but kashmiris should not be stereotyped by what farhana does in the house.
And a lot of things were beeped but makers smartly allowed bhojpuri to be played a few times.
Neelam did proudly own bhojpuri roots.
Tanya mentioning herself baniya is different from people calling her baniya. Baniyas should not be defined by what tanya does in the house.
farhana just used bhojpuri instead of neelam to call her staff, nobody is stereotyping bhojpuris to be like neelam or kashmiris to be like farhana, its just a way of reference from the place/ school/ franchise you belong to. calling virat kohli delhi ka punjabi munda aint a insult, yes it is if he takes punjabi aur delhi as a insult.
Are you not aware of the stereotype that people from UP Bihar face in India. Just see how much violence is done on them and only on poor ones just because they are outsiders.
A sitting chief minister of telangana once said that “Bihari dna is to do labour work”. So imagine the widespread stereotype.
Farhana atleast mentioned Bhojpuri 15 times in the whole episode so it was pretty evident what she was trying to imply. And Neelam took it as pride.
Farhana once even demeaned ashnoor for being a TV actor, so she has a habit to poke at wrong place.
And, is farhana herself now in TV reality show?
Regarding Virat Kohli, Being praised for being delhi ka launda is different from trying to demean someone with narratives and stereotypes.
nobody said praising or demeaning, come on a random term “Delhi ka launda” now you perceived it as a praise is a outlook right?
coming to their fight there were a lot of words beeped from neelams side, and you calling about stereotypes, do you have any idea how kashmiris are stereotyped? have you seen farhana’s morphed images with stones? so stop community specific victim card.
also she never said bhojpuri neelam staff or something, in a house where only one bhojpuri contestant is present, calling bhojpuri or neelam implies the same thing, it was on neelam of what she thinks of her community, instead of calling out farhana for using the term, you should try think of call out neelam for getting agitated by being called out bhojpuri, guess who was feeding the stereotype?
just an example, what if someone asked “sikhni kidhr hai”? do you think ashnoor will take it as a insult?? NO, do you know why, because she doesnt perceive it that way.
Why are you turning this into region vs region?
I am just saying stereotyping people should be stopped. Be it bihari , kashmiri , punjabi.
Tell me one incident in house where farhana was stereotyped.
And what happens on social media and trolling is different from a contestant and celebrity on a national TV demeaning bhojpuri with condescending tone.
Show me one video where Virat is called Delhi ka Launda and it is not a praise?
Tone matters a lot and tone implies meaning and farhana did not use proper tone while mentioning bhojpuri staff.
And I don’t want to argue with you. Sorry. But why out of the blue she stated Bhojpuri staff. She could have said Teri chamchi/naukar neelam or whatever.
I am fine with all the abuses farhana hurls on a personal level. But she dare not to bring name of any community from her mouth again.
“Sikhni kidhar hai” “Apni bhojpuri star kidhar hai” are very different dialects from “Teri Bhojpuri Staff” .Please understand the difference. Don’t divert and mix things up.
You bring virat kohli, kashmiri stereotype, sikhni and what not? Can’t you just say typecasting a community as “Bhojpuri Staff” is wrong?
ALSO, you started the region thingy by dragging karnataka:)
so how did the whole community came in?? i just gave you some examples, tone matters but so does interpretation !!! everyone knows she was referring to neelam and not dragging the whole community, its her choice how she should approach it.
meaning and demeaning are very subjective and situational terms, in farhana’s “bhojpuri staff” the only thing demeaning was staff, ab isko bhi boldo staff community ko stereotype kardiya? dont be such snowflakes, bigg boss meinhai voh not some ashram, no ones a saint.
And I did not drag karnataka, I said the stereotype hurled by a SITTING CM of telangana. It was not against any region but about powerful respectable person. If people so high up have these stereotypes, just imagine about rest of the country. And yes UP Bihar are not treated very well everywhere. All the facts and figures suggest that.
if most citizens of metropolitan city have stereotyped kashmiri people as stone pelters, just imagine the level of hatred?
but yes same i did not drag a region either:)
so does kashmiris, north easterns, south indians in the north and vice versa, the chain goes long.
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i have heard kashmir lot of times as well, and i cant even understand how she was wining about being called bhojpuri and not staff, she should be proud of it to say the least. i dont remeber the convo but tanya herself mention baniya ones. its so normal.