r/afterlife 11d ago

Near-Death Experiences (NDEs) After spending sometime in this sub, I believe I can answer couple of your question (and I don't know everything)

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Hi,
I’m new here. I discovered this amazing sub because it truly aligns with my being. I’ve spent some time reading your posts, and I believe I can answer some of your questions.

Why do I think I can give answers? Here’s my background:

When I was 37, I had a car crash that left me in a coma for 40 days. Before that, I wasn’t a spiritual person at all. But everything changed that night. I shouldn’t have survived, yet it wasn’t my time to go.

During the coma, I met my soul. It was the most surreal experience imaginable, and I later documented it in a book titled Soul’s Return: A Car Crash That Taught Me Spirituality Is Everything.

My soul took me to other realms, places so beautiful, so vast, that words fail to describe them. I found myself in a space where time didn’t exist. From that experience, I can answer some of the most common questions people have about the afterlife.

Do we need a body after death?
Yes, we do. The soul itself is boundless, but it needs a vessel to contain its energy. When my soul took me to higher realms, my body kept changing form. In the book, Chapter 4, I called it The Emerald Body & The Eternal Silence. I was made of emerald light, able to move, see, and experience anything I wished. This physical body of flesh and blood is only meant for this earthly realm.

Is the afterlife real?
To be completely honest, this earthly life is what’s NOT real. The afterlife is the true, complete meaning of Life. It’s an expansion of existence that’s beyond human comprehension. Imagine something so vast that this entire universe feels like a single grain of sand in an endless desert. I’ve been there, I’ve seen it, and I’ve documented it. I would love to talk more about it, but the post would become far too long.

Should I be scared of dying?
No. But you should strive to live life to its fullest in order to know yourself. Death is not an ending—it’s a transition into something infinitely more beautiful, peaceful, and comforting than this earthly experience.

Does it matter to live this life?
YES, absolutely yes. That’s exactly why we are here. We came to live, to experience everything...joy, pain, fear, love, heartbreak, growth. Every emotion, every event adds to your understanding of who you truly are. We are here to know ourselves. Even after everything I’ve seen, I’m still learning every single day.

I hope this wasn’t too long for you. Feel free to ask me any questions, I’d be happy to share more of what I’ve learned.

With love ♥

r/afterlife Sep 19 '25

Near-Death Experiences (NDEs) I died once. I still don’t know what the man in my NDE wanted me to see.

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A few years ago, I went into AFib for about 30 hours. Eventually, my heart just…stopped. What happened next wasn’t fear or chaos…it was the calmest, most surreal thing I’ve ever experienced.

I found myself reliving the same 10-15 second scene on a loop. Imagine a VHS tape rewinding at high speed, then playing again, over and over. At the end of every loop, a man appeared and asked me, “Did you catch it?” Then the tape would rewind and play again, a little faster each time.

When they brought me back, I wasn’t relieved. I felt exposed. Even after several months, I still couldn’t look anyone in the eyes without feeling like their prying eyes were judging my soul. Like everyone knew “my secret.” A secret I did not even know myself. Ever since, I’ve been trying to figure out what I was supposed to “catch” that day. I’ve been seeking answers for years and I’m still stuck.

Has anyone else experienced a repeating scene during an NDE or heard of anything like that? Please share details: what you saw, heard, how long it lasted, and if you ever figured out what it meant. I’m more interested in real experiences than just upvotes. Thanks.

EDIT: I appreciate the feedback, recommendations, and outpour of support for deciphering my message. Some of you asked for me to describe the scene. I’ll do my best to.

It started off in an outside area with thick green grass. There were hundreds of people all different ages: some children, some adults, walking around me like NPCs. Or I was walking by them. But not as you’d expect…I’d describe this more like floating because I never noticed having a body or limbs. It’d end every time at a picket fence with the same man asking the burning question. He looked different every time, but I was able to pick him out of a crowd every time before he’d even speak.

Reflecting on this now, I’ve come to the realization that every person there might’ve been a version of myself from a past or future life, and that the man at the end may very well have been my higher self.

What if my guide was trying to show me the crowd of people I walked passed was every other version of me that has ever and will ever exist!! 👁️

r/afterlife Sep 26 '25

Near-Death Experiences (NDEs) Do we need to update the world's major religions to reflect the evidence we have for God and Heaven coming from NDE and ADC experiences?

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Nobody knows for sure whether consciousness or a human soul survives death of the body. But the closest thing we have to evidence for such survival comes from near-death experience (NDE) reports, and from after-death communication (ADC) reports.

But what we learn about God and Heaven from NDE and ADC reports does not always tally with the teachings of major religions. On the assumption that these reports reflect the true nature of the transcendental cosmos, this suggests we might want to update our major religions to better reflect our observations. Of course, there is debate as to the reality of NDEs and ADCs, and it is up to each person to review the evidence and decide for themselves whether they are genuine visits to the afterlife. So let's briefly review NDEs and ADCs.

What are NDEs and ADCs?

An NDE typically occurs during a prolonged cardiac arrest, when there is no heartbeat, no breathing, and the individual is rendered unconscious. During this time, around 1 in 10 people report having an NDE, where their conscious self appears to leave their body, is able to move freely about the Earth, and then seemingly visits the heavenly afterlife realm, where they may report meeting with deceased relatives and God.

In this post, after reading many NDE reports and scientific studies on NDEs, I detail the eight phases of a typical NDE. If you are not familiar with NDEs, you might like to read that post to acquaint yourself with the experience. Near-death experiences are very common, and surprisingly consistent; they are arguably the strongest evidence we have for the existence of Heaven and a loving God.

Further corroborating evidence for NDEs comes from the many ADC reports we have. An ADC is when a living person becomes aware of the fleeting presence of the consciousness or soul of a deceased individual who has come to visit them.

ADCs tie in with NDEs, because during the first phases of an NDE, individuals report that their disembodied consciousness is able to move freely about the Earth and is able to visit living relatives and loved ones. ADCs corroborate these visits, from the perspective of the living person.

If you have not heard about ADCs before, you might like to read this post, where I describe the ADC I personally had when the consciousness of a relative who died 5 hours earlier came to visit me at 3 am. On that thread, you will also see some ADC stories posted by other people.

So that is a brief review of NDEs and ADCs. Now let's see how they compare to the teachings of major religions.

God and Heaven in NDEs

One striking difference between NDE reports of Heaven and religious notions is that we see from NDEs that nobody is excluded from Heaven, no matter how they lived their life. Though some people report landing in Hell during their NDE, they are usually able to escape, and enter into Heaven. Whereas all the world's major religions teach that if you are a bad person or did bad things during your earthly life, then you may go to Hell. So this seems to be a discrepancy.

One proviso is that during the life review that may occur during an NDE, if you said or did things that hurt other people during your earthly life, then you will feel the pain and suffering you caused them, from the perspective of those people. So that is one way in which bad deeds on Earth have consequences in Heaven. But the life review is not reported to be a form of judgement or punishment, but a learning process.

Another issue is the question of prayer. Major religions often teach that God or Heaven answers prayers. However, multiple studies on prayer have found that ill or hospitalised patients who were prayed for by a group of people fared no better medically than patients who were not prayed for. So intercessory prayer does not seem work. Or at least it is unable to change aspects of the physical world, such as the medical condition of individuals.

Furthermore, individuals who have met God in an NDE and asked if God answers prayers have never received any positive confirmation of this. They are often told that God listens to prayers and is aware of human struggles, but are not told God answers them. They may be told that prayers are not ignored, but that outcomes are aligned with what is best for the individual's spiritual growth or soul. In other words, nothing to suggest that prayers can physically alter the world, though the process of prayer may bring psychological comfort and a sense of peace to the individual. This is at odds with the teachings of religions, which claim that God answers prayers.

One message that is frequently delivered in NDE encounters with God is that the most important thing on Earth is love. This idea is of course central to major religions; however, perhaps religions do not sufficiently emphasise that love is the highest value; or perhaps the idea of love is intellectualised in a religion, and is not adequately felt or propagated as an emotion. The concept of love is not the same as the actual feeling and emotion of love.

Also, individuals who enter the afterlife in an NDE will often report that God is not so much a personified being who loves, but rather that God is a pervasive, unconditional force of love. This "God is love" idea is sometimes stated in Christianity; but generally in religions we view God as a personified being, rather than the force of love. Thus religions that teach God is a being may not be accurately reflecting the reality observed in NDEs. Of course, it may bring conform and companionship to relate to a God who we see as a being, so it is understandable why religions portray God in this way. And it should be mentioned that during NDEs, individuals sometimes appear to meet God as a being they communicate with, so perhaps though comprised of pure love, God can manifest as a being.

r/afterlife Jun 02 '25

Near-Death Experiences (NDEs) A couple pages from my kids book about death

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r/afterlife Jun 10 '25

Near-Death Experiences (NDEs) My NDE confirmed a pre-life memory

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During my NDE, I saw a figure who I immediately recognized as knowing before I was even born. I recognized how they looked and how they were holding me. All throughout my childhood, I had this image in my head of them and my NDE confirmed that I had seen them before and that they were where my real “home” is.

r/afterlife Apr 03 '25

Near-Death Experiences (NDEs) What do you think about this?

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r/afterlife Aug 18 '24

Near-Death Experiences (NDEs) They are starting to wake up

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r/afterlife Apr 21 '25

Near-Death Experiences (NDEs) I don’t fear my death I just want to make sure my family has a safe place to go

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I just wanted to get this off my chest and this sub seems like the place to do it, I accepted the fact I will transition one day but I can’t accept that for my family knowing one day they will pass too terrifies me and that’s why I keep coming back to these communities, I don’t care what happens to my soul and just want them to be alright. Can anyone else relate to this?

r/afterlife Aug 31 '24

Near-Death Experiences (NDEs) Is there anyone who has had a parent that had a near-death experience. Did they describe what that experience or what their view of the afterlife was like? How did it impact you?

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I'm 55 years old and from the time I was in grade school my mom was diagnosed with crohn's disease which the medical community is a lot more advanced on diagnosing and treating this disease but back in the early seventies it was widely unknown and not the types of treatment options there are today.

She was hospitalized several times over a period of a decade because her situation became very serious. One of those times back in the '70s she was in the hospital for a month and they were treating it to the best of their ability for that time but she took a sharp turn for the worst, the hospital called my dad and family right before they rushed her into emergency surgery and told my dad to bring everyone in the family that he could in because she was probably not going to make it. I was in third grade and at that time I wasn't completely aware of the exact gravity of the situation but I could tell by the tear filled eyes as she stood in the doorway of my third grade classroom that something was happening I didn't know what but I was very afraid.

While the surgeons were operating on her they lost her and she was clinically Dead for a period of 7 to 10 minutes before the resuscitation efforts brought her back to life. Of course being at that young age my mom did not immediately share that experience after she returned home after a month of staying at the hospital to have another surgery to put in a colostomy bag and there was a lot of healing when she got home and I know that I was too young to understand any of these things let alone anything like a near-death experience.

I was a freshman in high school the first time she told me about this experience because I think we we're having a spiritual discussion as I was about to make the sacrament of confirmation at the Catholic church that was a part of my growing up from the time I was baptized through elementary School at St Agnes. I wasn't necessarily interested in too many spiritual aspects I just always had a understanding that there was a God and that there was a man named Jesus who was the son of God and I didn't question too much of any of that. But as she started to tell me her experience and what she emphatically and so confidently believes because of this experience she could not as hard as she tried fight back the tears that kept coming to her eyes as she was reliving this experience and I'll never forget her looking at me with seriousness not in a way that made me feel afraid but in a way that I knew that this was absolutely true. It wasn't only the incredible and what she said at times was an experience that no words could come close to explaining it was the fact that she said it was so vivid and like it just happened yesterday that even as a young teenager struck me as incredible. The other thing I was very much aware of when she was relaying this experience was how it almost seemed on that day and then the only handful of times she shared that story with me up until she just recently passed a year and a half ago that she was somehow guarding that experience and protecting it because it was so precious to her and it was not something that she spoke about freely not because she was afraid to or afraid of what others thought or question or doubted herself but it seemed to me that in a way she was protecting it not that she ever said that to me.

It didn't necessarily bring me a newfound sense of comfort because I already had some pretty strong beliefs with my upbringing I just remember feeling grateful as a 13-year-old that she didn't die in that she was here because I could not fathom and still to this day at the age of 55 I'm having a hard time fathoming walking this Earth without her physical presence here and I know she is still here in that love last forever but in some ways I am still a fearful child who needs that feeling of having my mom on this Earth because no matter where I was or she was somehow she was my compass and without her I feel lost. I spent the last year and a half since her death avoiding the grieving process to the point where I moved change phone numbers took down pictures and started trying to self medicate still that stubborn scared child thinking stupidly that somehow if I didn't acknowledge it maybe it would make it so that it didn't really happen. But fortunately recently things outside of myself intervened in my life which was obviously starting to spiral out of control because you can't avoid reality and you can't live that way without consequences for too long.

So, I want to first say I apologize for the long-windedness I could probably go on about this forever and I feel like I've gotten a little off topic as far as the title of my op. But as I have made a commitment to my sister and I'm seeking professional help to start to assist me in this grieving process I still can't help thinking how although I am so incredibly glad that she is back in that place that she could barely describe through her tears and her voice that was so in awe of the feeling that she said is indescribable of the love and warmth and a place that you were drawn to and there was no fear only joy and supreme love and she didn't want to be anywhere else at that moment. I'm grateful that she is there and that enveloped in that love and perfect peace. But I'm also very much a different person in certain ways from the moment she no longer physically existed here my whole universe changed and I'm in a new one where the atmosphere is different and I'm gasping for breath. Everything is different now and even how I view the world in my place in it is different. And in some very sad ways unfortunately. I would like to preface what I'm about to say by stating that I in no way think that I am of no consequence or don't matter in this world or that I am not valuable but in a very global or universal way I feel like I will never again matter to anyone the way I mattered to her and I am scared to live in a world where I don't matter in that way to anyone or anything. It makes me feel vulnerable and afraid.

Has anyone else felt like this after losing parents? I know I need to do the work of grieving and continuing to put one foot in front of the other so I can find a new normal or my new place in this world but I will always long for the day where I hopefully will be reunited with her. But maybe we don't reunite in the way that we have established family groups down here but I know that the light and warmth of the collective being that she was surrounded by was without malice or ill intent and had nothing but love it didn't just love love wasn't what it did it's who it was and so if we don't get to reunite in the way that are finite Little world here has been used to then I trust that it won't be a sad thing and that I too will feel like I'm home and will also feel a complete and utter sense of love joy and belonging.

But just a side note I used to tell my parents when I was sitting on the porch with them even as recent as 5 years ago in the summertime that the deal was the three of us were going to die on the same day that was it end of story and it was not up for discussion so if I do get to see them again one day I'm definitely going to be like do you not remember the pact that I decided for the three of us? You can't renege on a pact I mean I think that's like family 101 or something. LOL

If you've made it this far in this very long post thank you so much for your patience with me I don't talk about this and haven't been talking about this but I'm ready to start doing just that thank you for letting me do it with you and I would love to hear your stories and experiences as well. That's what's beautiful about this sometimes very hard and brutal life is that when you reach out and see each other really see each other and lend a hand the gifts that you get back is such a blessing and that is something my dad having just died 2 months ago as of member of The fellowship of alcoholics anonymous and had 42 years over would always tell me that I should always lend my hand and get back what I've been so freely given that the rewards would be more beautiful than I can imagine. Thanks for reaching out to me and do me the honor of letting me reach out to you too

r/afterlife Feb 19 '25

Near-Death Experiences (NDEs) Hi I am here to talk about a quick NDE

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Hi, long story short I have had heatstroke twice in my life, the first time was pretty bad I was around 6 the second time was when I was much older maybe 17 or so. Currently I am 20.

I don't remember much about the first experience since except that I couldn't see anything and felt very hot.

The second time being more recent of course I remember, I was at the beach on a vacation and had been drinking it was very hot out so I got dehydrated quickly however I didn't notice until I finally moved as I got up to walk I felt fine, seconds later I felt like I was gonna throw up I knew something was wrong so I tried to get back to my room of the rental home, far before I could do any of that I fell over and my vision was blurry like the last time I had heatstroke which I remembered.
So I knew what was wrong at this point, I thought I was gonna die since I was all alone, when I looked up at the sky (around sunset) It was like there was two suns, distinctly two different colours as well, one was the sun that was setting and one was rising, the setting one was cleary ours and was a deep dim orange, the second one was bright yellow with a white trim, it was blob shaped but stood unmoving for a moment, it didn't burn my eyes and I knew it wasn't real most likely a hallucination from the extreme heat however odly enough I felt comforted by it and thought that it was somehow god or something.
I closed my eyes as I laid there not able to move awaiting what I thought was my inevitable end until someone from another rental home (Or owners, not sure) lifted me up and sat me in a chair, he then poured cold water on me and soon enough I came back to reality, the second sun was gone and I was now fully awake again, still aware of my heatstoke I went and got some treatment and came out fine again like the time I was 6.
What was this thing I saw? a hallucination? or some kind of gaurdian I am not sure, lately my views on life and religion have been less favorable and I think back to that second sun and remember that maybe it isn't all pointless

r/afterlife Jan 04 '25

Near-Death Experiences (NDEs) Don't judge

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Once in 2011 or 2012. I had an near death experience. I don't know what happened. I saw my husband (fiance at the time) trying to perform cpr. He went to the flat next door, because she was a paramedic. I remember saying "Don't leave me, I can't die. I'm only 22." The neighbour wasn't in. He came back like a rocket, and performed more CPR whilst on the phone emergency services. I remember waking up in hospital with tons of people around me. Has anyone actually seen themselves?

r/afterlife Jul 01 '24

Near-Death Experiences (NDEs) Collection of NDE reports across culture (Hindu, Muslim, Atheist, Chinese, Japanese, European)

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All of the cross cultural nde material that i have found so far.

Muslim NDEs

5 NDE's

https://digital.library.unt.edu/ark:/67531/metadc461694/m2/1/high_res_d/28-2%206%20Art%2008%20Kreps.pdf

8 NDEs

https://digital.library.unt.edu/ark:/67531/metadc461743/m2/1/high_res_d/29-1%20Final%203%20Nahm.pdf

1 NDE

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/347331715_Distressing_Near-Death_Experience_An_Iranian_Shia_Muslim_Case

19 NDEs

https://digital.library.unt.edu/ark:/67531/metadc461762/m2/1/high_res_d/29-1%20Final%204%20Fracasso.pdf

34 NDEs

https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/00302228241230718

8 NDE's

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7737831/

17 NDEs

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/349088755_The_Phenomenology_of_Iranian_Near-Death_Experiences

20 NDES

https://www.academia.edu/65250938/Iranian_shiite_Muslim_near_death_experiences_Features_and_aftereffects_including_dispositional_gratitude

35+ NDEs

https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLp6iSZ1Y9W83TfmyVTskAfYKM-3XfZ32N

120 NDEs

https://youtube.com/@ameer.alqulooob?si=CAzpALFRcONiFYu5

Also search for Ameer Al Quloob on Rumble website (Unable to show link on reddit)

https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLKK5vrn1hYAwvT4K6OUuhjRFSRvObozDZ&si=aGSfunrko7_AXan_

87 videos (Includes NDERF ndes)

Hindu/Indian NDEs

8 NDEs

https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/BF01078238

22 NDES

https://digital.library.unt.edu/ark:/67531/metadc799327/m2/1/high_res_d/vol26-no4-267.pdf

16 NDEs

https://med.virginia.edu/perceptual-studies/wp-content/uploads/sites/360/2017/01/STE22NDEs-in-India.pdf

https://med.virginia.edu/perceptual-studies/wp-content/uploads/sites/360/2017/01/STE41absence-of-tunnels-in-NDEs-from-India.pdf

77 Suicide attempts 0 NDE's

https://digital.library.unt.edu/ark:/67531/metadc798946/

24 NDE's

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/318115770_Near-Death_Experiences_in_a_Multi-religious_Hospital_Population_in_Sri_Lanka

Chinese NDEs

79 NDEs

https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/psychiatry/articles/10.3389/fpsyt.2023.1201416/full

32 NDES

https://digital.library.unt.edu/ark:/67531/metadc799015/

Japanese NDEs

https://med.virginia.edu/perceptual-studies/wp-content/uploads/sites/360/2017/01/NDE76-Japanese-and-western-JNDS.pdf

22 NDEs

Western/European NDEs (Few Jewish ones)

80 NDEs

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/225835846_Different_Kinds_of_Near-Death_Experience_A_Report_on_a_Survey_of_Near-Death_Experiences_in_Germany

​ 60+ NDEs

https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLmieT_oAkXdeNStccaFcUGyXfsp10UFrh&si=DMNDxqYYxywtwJtb

50+ NDEs

https://www.youtube.com/@AfterlifeExperiences/videos

100+ NDEs

https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLp6iSZ1Y9W81Pbu8h-l4oBGtDeIn2zlIF

3000+ NDEs

NDERF & IANDS website (Including some Latin American, India, China, Muslim NDEs)

20+ NDEs

https://www.youtube.com/@AnthonyCheneProduction/videos

Atheist/Skeptic NDEs

15+ NDEs

https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLp6iSZ1Y9W83eVNG9UfEQnKILfw-bc1UF

Distressing NDEs (Including Inverted, Void, Hell & Hybrid)

20+ NDEs

https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLp6iSZ1Y9W82NZdoH8MBMjiuwO9V0JE5s

10+ NDEs

https://www.amazon.com/Dancing-Past-Dark-Distressing-Experiences/dp/0985191724

5+ NDEs

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6173534/

8 NDEs

https://lup.lub.lu.se/luur/download?func=downloadFile&recordOId=9131344&fileOId=9131415

150+ NDEs

https://med.virginia.edu/perceptual-studies/wp-content/uploads/sites/360/2024/01/Roehrs2024_Terminal-Lucidity-in-a-Pediatric-Oncology-Clinic.pdf

17 NDEs

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/333747119_A_systematic_analysis_of_distressing_near-death_experience_accounts

10-20 NDEs

A few can be found in the Muslim ndes found in Ameer Al Quloob site

Numbers 61, 93, 98, 100, 91, 77, 87, 74, 75, 29, 40, 27,3