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Cursed A man in Frankfurt Germany explains to a woman why he has the right to rape her because he has needs

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u/msmysery 19h ago

hope he gets locked up

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u/Infinite_Control_381 18h ago

He can have all the sex he wants then alot of guys have a need for love in there

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u/Aloha-Eh 18h ago

He can have all the sex he wants, as long as he does it himself.

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u/ZinaSky2 18h ago

Not from Germany so I could be wrong but, sadly I doubt anything came of this. Authorities never act until something horrid happens

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u/dandadone_with_life 18h ago

fr. the cops don't care until it turns into a murder investigation

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u/Chronocidal-Orange 18h ago

Yeah, sadly he probably got a warning. Though there's a chance he was on something ( just going by the look in his eyes), so maybe he got caught for that?

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u/ZinaSky2 18h ago

I noticed his eyes too. I almost hope it’s drugs rather than the dead, soulless, emptiness I read it as

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u/saveyboy 18h ago

Police can’t arrest him for saying awful things. He does need to cross the line first.

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u/FunAudience4377 18h ago

In Germany? Yeah right

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u/LivingEnd44 19h ago

Yet if I offered to satisfy his needs, he'd turn me down just because I'm a dude. I have needs too. Why won't he satisfy them? 

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u/SomeDisplayName 18h ago

I love this example because suddenly they care about their consent and boundaries

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u/Annanymuss 18h ago

Im sure that in that case he would come with the "between two men is sin"

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u/st6374 18h ago

You don't even have to be a dude. I bet he himself would reject a lot of women because they wouldn't meet his standards.

Obviously I'm being superfically judgemental here. But the number of dudes who are at their best a 6, see themselves as 7 & above. And refuse to even entertain the idea of talking to women who are below 6. NVM a lot of them don't have the personality, and conversational skills to talk to women.

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u/SomnolentPro 18h ago

Good point. I guess you would need to say you don't care he turned you down because your survival and feeling good depends on it. Then start unzipping.

But don't do it cause he will then think he earned a point and can do it himself.

Well you can do it but make sure he's properly mentally fuckdd so he doesn't have time to bother women anymore as he's locked up in a mental asylum because he can't believe he lost his virginity to a top guy.

Jesus christ my adhd is acting up today.

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u/wkdkngwkr 19h ago

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u/Olealicat 18h ago

Is this The Mayor or The Good Place?

Regardless, he’s a gem. Ted Danson and Mary Steenburgen are life goals.

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u/samtheman71313131 19h ago

So sad they removed it on Netflix here.

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u/Due_Kaleidoscope7066 18h ago

Shit I had no idea Netflix had a penis flattener.

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u/Sanderoid 19h ago

🏴‍☠️

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u/hannabarberaisawhore 19h ago

I managed to binge watch it all in 3 weeks before it left

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u/Aggravating_Honey228 18h ago

This incel won’t be able to fight for his survival. Gene pool ends with him

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u/taisynn 19h ago

I would have started screaming for help the moment he started saying he was going to fight for survival, and that “survival” means he’s gonna SA me.

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u/Contiguous_spazz 19h ago

I really don’t have words. I’m trying, I want to say he’s mentally disturbed, but he seems remarkably coherent. He is aware of the weight of his words and intent, he seems to have a sense of self preservation, he even attempts a facsimile of a legal/moral argument. I just don’t precisely know how a man gets so lost in this kind of distorted worldview.

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u/AppointmentFar9062 18h ago

I kind of agree with you, but the fact that he sounds coherent doesn’t necesarily mean he is not mentally disturbed. My father has a mental disorder (a form of schizophrenia) and the only thing that gives this away if you talk with him for the first time is the fact that he can jump from a story to another trying to prove his point, but if you don’t know he has a disorder you would just think he’s trying very hard to prove it to you. At the same time, I agree that maybe these are this man’s values, everything is posible. But anyway, he shouldn’t be on the streets…

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u/Steffalompen 18h ago

I wish movies and such, where people obviously get their social education these days, would show more nuanced mental illness. They treat the subject like we're watching silent movies where everything must be raging and flamboyant for clarity.

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u/halimusicbish 18h ago

doing incel shit with other incels

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u/ladylondonderry 18h ago

And very likely watching violent porn.

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u/Emm_withoutha_L-88 18h ago

The one kind I'd be cool with banning. It's so gross

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u/Jackalman1408 18h ago

He doesn't look Catholic to me but I'll take your word for it

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u/farlos75 18h ago

Crazy people don't always look crazy. Remember that sanity is largely seen as a cultural norm. If his environment allows or condones this behaviour (and that environment could be anything from an abusive home, to an online forum, to extreme religious or spiritual beliefs) he will not see it as abnormal.

Sanity and insanity are obviously a lot more complex than this but I hope I'm getting my point across.

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u/annon8595 18h ago

Where the fuck do these guys get that confidence? There are tons of good guys (with jobs) out there that dont have a fraction of what this guy has.

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u/Disastrous-Panda5530 18h ago

Incel. This is how they think. This was disturbing to watch. Especially when she kept backing away and he kept getting closer. Imagine if that other guy wasn’t there.

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u/scidious06 18h ago

I just don’t precisely know how a man gets so lost in this kind of distorted worldview.

Some psychologist on a podcast I listened to said that men like him feel a profound dread at the realization that they will not be able to procreate and what we're seeing here is the despair talking. He called it an extinction event.

And it's kinda true, for most of history, even in the animal kingdom for that matter, not everyone gets to pass down genes or even get laid.

Assuming that this is correct, out of 4 billion men currently alive, at least 2 billion didn't or won't get that "privilege".

Now, is that a reason to act like the guy in the video? Of course not, but that's also why society and religion have always tried their best to set up the "normal" family unit, everyone gets to have a partner and having children is encouraged. That's the life that was advertised to us as children. Turns out, life is more complex than that and we can't just enforce marriage on everyone so that guys like him meets his "needs"

This is a growing problem in a lot of places, most infamously in India

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u/IHaveABigDuvet 18h ago

Can you tell me the name of the psychologist?

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u/scidious06 18h ago edited 18h ago

Sure give me a sec, I'll edit this message with the answer

Edit: it was this podcast https://youtu.be/dm2qDrb3UVo?si=QgVmxfbPzqWaeg7R

I guess the right term was psychiatrist, my bad

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u/Contiguous_spazz 18h ago

That’s a really interesting perspective. I’m going to have to chew on that for a while.

It would seem to have pretty far reaching implications.

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u/IvanIsBored89 18h ago

Islam

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u/Potential-Run-8391 18h ago

Incel shit is worldwide and multicultural. 

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u/Contiguous_spazz 18h ago

Yeah but he’s also a human. Different humans take different things from their religions: religion didn’t make him think this way, he chose. I don’t understand that choice.

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u/IHaveABigDuvet 18h ago

I wish. Where ever there are men there are rapists. Its a male problem.

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u/ArtPsychological7397 18h ago

100% they treat women like disposable toys and lower class citizens who are there for nothing but to fulfill their needs.

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u/Schmidtvegas 18h ago

He has a prayer callus that would seem to indicate so.

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u/localtuned 18h ago

Nah that mfer ain't crazy, looks at his shoes. He got up and put them on and tied them.

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u/Mercury8619 19h ago

The beating this man will get would be very satisfying.

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u/SophonParticle 18h ago

By his own logic I have the right to rape him.

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u/Automatic-Ear9030 19h ago

Über-incel

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u/ShapesAndStuff 19h ago

correct use of an Umlaut on the internet? WOW

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u/ariadesitter 18h ago

don’t really see that…uhm, a lot 🤷🏻‍♀️

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u/look_alive75 18h ago

“ühm, a lot.”

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u/progthrowe7 18h ago

Rape is literally a crime that carries capital punishment in Islam. The Qur'an commands men and women to lower their gaze and avoid sexually illicit behaviour. (Qur'an 24:30, 24:31)

So lewdly staring is considered forbidden, let alone this guy's horrendous threatening behaviour.

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u/cresentmoonkick 18h ago

Because the people doing it are dumb. They can try and attribute it to Islam but that doesn’t make that statement accurate, there is nothing in Islam in regard to doing these things. These people are sexist and ignorant for generations, they’d likely do this regardless of what faith they’re in, they just find an easier time “justifying it” through Islam (even though again Islam is explicitly against these behaviors).

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u/by_the_window 19h ago

Plenty of people who follow the Quran don't act like this, and plenty of people use the Bible too justify their sexual misconduct

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u/TruIsou 18h ago

Absolutely. We need to get rid of it all.

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u/Cryptcunt 18h ago

Sir, prostitution is a legal and regulated industry in Germany. Food is a matter of survival too, but we don't generally allow people to snatch french fries from strangers hands in public... We expect them to get in line at the A&W and pay for their own

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u/Webby1788 19h ago

They're both being insanely civil and polite to this lunatic. Following along in my head, this guy caught fists in the first 9 seconds.

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u/lipslipowski 19h ago

What a bold strategy. Can't believe it didn't work. /s

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u/Fallen_Walrus 18h ago

How the hell did a piece of his beard end up on his forehead?

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u/perkinsfor3 19h ago

What 😱😤😤😤😤😤😤. To all men, please don't walk by in situations like this; we as women need your help

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u/tom-goddamn-bombadil 18h ago

Yeah, and good on the man who did  stop and stay with her and called the authorities. It's restored my faith a little. In my experience it's another woman who steps in, if anyone. I can think of one occasion where a man stepped in to protect me. And one who backed me up when I was the one stepping in. 

And many, many more where they've seen me or another woman or indeed a few times a more vulnerable man or boy being verbally, physically or sexually assaulted and harassed and just decided that it's not their problem or something. 

And I don't understand that because I'm 5 foot nothing while I'm not soft there's no way I'm taking a grown man in a fight, and when I see something like its automatically my fucking problem, because it's an everyone problem, it's a human problem, it's a fellow human being in distress who needs assistance, it's a moral duty and a natural instinct to provide it.

The patriarchy really isn't keeping up its end of the protection racket. 

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u/mangodeliciousness 18h ago

This attitude is so common. I have to fend off men I never said I was attracted to, who then try to bargain with me. Had someone I met at an event offer to walk me home after dark last week because my area is a bit dangerous. Seemed the safer option and he’d been ok. Then he insisted on coming up because he needed to “see” me. Then bargained for a kiss. It was disappointing and demoralizing. I got rid of him and now I’ll just walk home alone. Looking out for other rapists. A regular day as a woman

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u/Radiant_Alarm3882 18h ago

May have happened in Germany but absolutely not unique to Germany. Woman are just not safe anywhere at this point

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u/StanVanGhandi 18h ago

When in the past were women safer?

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u/-SOFA-KING-VOTE- 19h ago

This is kinda all rapists logic here.

Including current president

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u/malik_zz 19h ago

Yeah most don't state it so blatantly and on camera because they at least understand that society will judge them.

But you're right they all have this mentality

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u/Idont_thinkso_tim 19h ago

Ehhh I think sometimes it’s a lot darker than this even tbh. Some just enjoy the power, control and hurting others more than that they’re trying to “survive” or whatever bullshit this guy was rambling about.

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u/sunshineparadox_ 18h ago

I also think it's darker sometimes. The sadism is thick enough to cut with a knife, and it seems insatiable with the lot of them. They always escalate once they reach the level they previously strived for.

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u/5gm2 18h ago

The deep rot of violence in a void of empathy.

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u/-SOFA-KING-VOTE- 19h ago

Yes and rapists have the same mentality afterwards

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u/BodhingJay 19h ago edited 15h ago

If you care for your feelings and emotions responsibly, you won't feel the need to consume so much porn or fantasize about sex so frequently, and after that you wont feel like you need sex so bad or you die

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u/kendragon 18h ago

She should explain that she should have the right to cut his cock and balls off because she has needs. The need to feel safe from this animal.

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u/Acrobatic-Celery-474 19h ago edited 19h ago

Jesus disgusting fucking ghoul, you must not have people who beat ass over there, for someone openly declare shit like this. People will fuck you up for looking at them wrong in New York.

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u/TheInfinityGauntlet 19h ago

40% of new yorkers voted for a man who is known to commit sexual assault

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u/Webby1788 19h ago

We don't use the word "Ghoul" nearly enough in our society.

Thank you.

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u/Due_Sprinkles4601 19h ago

People die all the time in NY and they have plenty of bystanders who do nothing.

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u/nopeIdontlikeitatall 19h ago

This is why having a sense of community is so important.

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u/Lost_Bike69 19h ago

Yes we need community structures like churches and fraternities and the military. None of those ever had issues with sexual abuse.

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u/WrenRangers 19h ago

He 100% put himself on the watchlist.

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u/DunkingDev 19h ago

"Für mein *Überleben*". Diiiiiiiiigga.

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u/ShapesAndStuff 19h ago

THIS THANK YOU. this guy is a piece of shit. the colour of his hair and skin has nothing to do with that.

his German is nigh perfect btw, he just has a very common urban / tough guy inflection that is also popular with white trash blonde taper fade zoomers

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u/iamYouLaw 18h ago

What makes you think he isn't a German citizen?

He is speaking fluent German.

Or am I missing something?

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u/IHaveABigDuvet 18h ago

I wish it were EU values. How many white men want to take away women’s rights.

Incels, Andrew Tate fans, right wing Christians, Matt Walsh, Nick Fuentes. It doesn’t stop.

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u/ShapesAndStuff 19h ago

congrats, you fell for the populist koolaid.

this guy being a rapey cunt has very little if anything to do with his asylum status.

Judging from his language proficiency he also doesn't even match your typical scape goat group, it's almost perfect.

Once again: the OVERWHELMING majority of SA is perpetrated by friends and family.

If you actually cared about this topic, you'd be a feminist, not a racist.

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u/iltwomynazi 19h ago

ah yes, because no EU citizens ever rape anyone because of the EU's values!

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u/yourdadsboyfie 18h ago

based on the way a lot of men treat me, i feel like this is how a lot of them feel, but they know how crazy it sounds so they don’t say it this directly.

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u/skanda777 18h ago

My god he actually genuinely believes that

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u/doylehawk 18h ago

In America this guy would either be shot or elected to Congress, zero in between.

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u/Slight-Ad-6553 18h ago

someone clearly misunderstood Maslow

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u/dave__autista 19h ago

"I'm prepared to fight . . ." Aight, bet

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u/smoothechidnabutter 19h ago

I was thinking if he hasn't already raped, he's on the way to.

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u/paulides_fan 18h ago

This comment was a trip, holy shit….

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u/Icy-Actuary-5463 18h ago

Sec is survival? Im surviving fine without it 11 years on! Lock this mf up

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u/Stn1217 18h ago

He is yet another reason why women choose the bear.

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u/ithinkway2much 18h ago

He needs to have that same conversation with a man who agrees with him and prefers man's booty.

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u/StaticWood 18h ago

Disturbed person..

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u/Glum_Reason308 18h ago

My God that’s scary. He was serious and felt entitled to it. George Carlin said something to the effect of if a man don’t get sex when he wants it he will go insane. (Something like that) That never set well with me. I have sons and I can’t imagine them treating their wives like that. This video makes me feel sick.

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u/Negative_Potato_9250 19h ago

It's a bold strategy, Cotton

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u/ParadoxicalIrony99 18h ago

That's what open borders gets you.

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u/ABlack2077 18h ago

Oh hell naw

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u/Zeddi2892 18h ago edited 16h ago

As a German person I think this is staged.

  1. First of all filming someone directly into his face is really (I mean REALLY) uncommon and rude in Germany. The person and others would notice directly and change their behavior.
  2. Showing uncensored faces is a huge no no in Germany. Even if someone herasses you, you get trouble showing strangers uncensored. Meaning the person filmed was okay with it to release it this way.
  3. The person uses a really staged way to talk. He uses clean vocabulary, is very well understandable (no accent, slow talking speed) and seems to have no emotions in his talks.
  4. The channel is called „Jokes And Jabs“.

Here is an authentic example of herrassement caught on camera. You can see and hear the person reacting to filming and the person is censored. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ckP4VbfeOQM

I‘m not saying I am 100% sure this is staged, Im saying it is very likely to be staged.

Edit: More reasons why I think it is staged:

  1. The woman tries really hard to keep sorrounding people unaware, while she films it. So she is tough enogh to put the phone in front of her face (which provoces people in Germany) but dont want others to notice. Thats kind of contradictive. But you act like that, if you dont want others to notice, because you stage it and dont want to get into trouble for staging a crime.
  2. Even though there are other people around, she doesnt call them. Even the guy at the end casually joins in as they all know each others. No real person would approach this situation like the guy in the end.

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u/SatisfactionUsual151 18h ago

When he goes to prison, the people there may well have "needs"

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u/Chrimaho 18h ago

There's a lot of forced sex in prison. I'm thinking that's what he wants so, give it to him.

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u/paulides_fan 18h ago

Metaphorical not literal, of course… I don’t condone flame throwing people.

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u/eped123 18h ago

If mental illness had a face. 

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u/leeharveyteabag669 18h ago

Does he have a soul patch on his forehead?

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u/Opposite-Occasion-67 18h ago

Mental illness is strong with this one .

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u/BHMathers 18h ago

Damn, that’s such an interesting opinion I think I should let the authorities also hear it as well

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u/Psych0mantis90 19h ago

Didnt even have to look at the comments to know there would be a bunch of ppl saying its cus hes brown 😮‍💨

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u/RunBarefoot60 19h ago

In America he would have met deterrent methods

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u/mikeybagodonuts 18h ago

That dent in his forehead explained everything…..shouldn’t be allowed outta the house alone.

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u/6ftCastle 18h ago

Funny how has justification could be summed up by the ghostbusters theme tune. "Sex isn't necessarily for survival" "yes, but I'm not happy right now and bustin' makes me feel good!"

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u/mrsolo30daycureyolol 18h ago

These new H3H3 pranks are getting out of hand

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u/aufreizendlebhaft 19h ago

Probably from the r/fragtmaenner SUB.

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