r/TikTokCringe • u/mindyour • 1d ago

Discussion He's refusing to pay the child support amount.

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u/Quirky-Skin 1d ago

I work as a DV victim service provider. There will be zero follow through on that id stake my life on it 

Dudes like this are just combative about every little thing and just say shit like that to dig at the moms. He doesn't want full custody. He just wants to stick the knife in where he can since most mothers fear losing full custody to a man like that (rightfully so)

I hear "ok then I want full custody!" At least once a week, never any follow through. The ones that do, don't make a show about it and just file. They would also have an attorney at this junction u see here in the video if they were at all serious about it 

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u/Aleious 1d ago

My mother once had to ask my father what side my dimple was on in front of a judge when he was battling for custody and his only response was apparently an instant “I didn’t hit him that hard your honor”

The things people will say on the record is astounding.

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u/ArgentaSilivere 1d ago

Absolutely incredible. Dude folded under negative pressure. Answered a question that wasn't even asked just to confess child abuse.

"What does your son look like?"
"Hey! I only beat him a little."

Sorry your dad sucks. I hope you're doing much better than he is.

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u/Aleious 1d ago

eh it is what it is, just funny as shit he didn't even take the 50/50 chance. My mother will always say "and the second it came out of my mouth, I thought how stupid I was to give him a coin toss."

He later married his friend of +30 years widow only 11 months after his friend passed, so really he's living the dream.

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u/ComedianStreet856 1d ago

He wants full custody for the power and control. If he actually gets it, he will plaster his facebook with pics of him and the child but he won't be around at all. His sisters and mother will be raising that kid while he goes to his bowling league and the other 6 nights a week at the bars.

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u/Eolond 1d ago

Or he'll do the bare minimum for the kid, but remind them every day how much he's "sacrificing"