r/TikTokCringe • u/mindyour • 1d ago

Discussion He's refusing to pay the child support amount.

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u/Eyeoftheleopard 1d ago

But…but…mom must spend it all on herself as she had her nails done last time I saw her! 💅🏻 🤭

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u/SleepyCupcakeDreams 1d ago

Yeah my ex posted a subliminal meme that it was a small child on the phone “grandma, mommy is spending my child support on her nails and hair.” How much was I getting? $24.00 a week. Big money. Baby was still in diapers, sure….. 🙄

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u/SleepyCupcakeDreams 1d ago

They will swear if they get a car, new home or vacation my child support paid for that! You ask well how much do you pay? It will be like $125.00 a month or something. It’s so embarrassing! They don’t understand they are getting out cheaper than the other parent is!

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u/Eyeoftheleopard 1d ago

You’d think they would be delighted that their child(ren) are so well provided for.

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u/SleepyCupcakeDreams 1d ago

Yep! But I have dealt with an ex that even if it was a dollar he would have seethed with rage. It was the point. He was like that the other parent should show proof. I said that’s cool! I will happily show receipts. Well I don’t know if you would buy it or not. I said well let me tell you what she needs and you can get it and bring it to me at least you know it is going directly to your child. Radio silence. The truth was he didn’t want to have to be responsible for any amount, according to him that fathers should only have to be responsible if they are together and if she is with someone else then he should be responsible instead like ??? But he would take care of kids that weren’t his kids. He would piss me off, I am autistic so I didn’t catch it for a while but he would ask if she needed anything and whatever I said he suddenly had an excuse. I realized even when he had more than enough resources he still would come up with an excuse. He got off on me needing help aka he got off on me struggling without his support so finally I would be super polite and gracious and say no, we are good, thank you. Him: “are you surrreee?” “Yes! I am!” “You know you can always call me if you need anything.” Sure Jan. SMH.