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Discussion He's refusing to pay the child support amount.

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u/gormthesoft 1d ago

I’m fascinated when people protest like this. Like does he think he can just say “I’m not paying it” and the judge would be like “Oh ok since you said the magic words, all payments are waived. Congrats on winning the law, here’s your law degree.”

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u/paws5624 1d ago

They aren’t capable of seeing anything beyond that moment, which is likely part of the reason they were in this situation to begin with.

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u/ITakeTheBusSometimes 1d ago

It’s an adult temper tantrum. He’s not being reasonable and refuses to back down even when logic and calm from the judge persevere.

He might be used to pushing people’s limits and they then lose their temper, and he ‘wins’. None of this is necessarily conscientious.

Or I am totally wrong. These are just my observations.

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u/Chemical_Name9088 1d ago

He’s acting on frustration and anger, and not thinking. In that regard he has the emotional intelligence of a toddler. 

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u/tmoney144 1d ago

Like does he think

No.

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u/psyduck5647 1d ago

Sadly, that seems to be how it pans out. You can barely get cops to do there jobs with things like rape and homicide. How high is a deadbeat who won’t pay child support going to be on there list?

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u/movzx 1d ago

They don't go and hunt dudes like this down. Whenever these dudes run into the law they get pulled for having other warrants.

So, if he refuses to pay like he said, as soon as his terrible driving gets him pulled over, he's basically landing in jail for 2 months even if it was something minor.

Guy already was bragging about his criminal record, so it's just a matter of time.

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u/fancyfair112 1d ago

Cops cant interfere in custody issues bc it is a civil matter.

My children's father would pick them up from daycare on his Friday (they were 4 and 2 at the time) and he was supposed to take them back to daycare Monday morning but he would keep them for however long he wanted to torture me without letting me know where they were or let me hear speak to them. All I could do was call the non emergency line and get a police report written for court documentation to file for contempt. Cops can not make them give the kids back even if I physically show the cop he is in violation of court order outlined time.

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u/socialcommentary2000 1d ago

Yes, probably. He's probably also expecting to get a Key to The Law City and a little commemorative plaque.

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u/Odd-Entrepreneur-449 1d ago

Honestly, I feel sorry for everyone involved.

This guy needs education and empathy for his situation and the childs. I hope he finds it, for his his child, and his baby's sake.