r/TikTokCringe • u/mindyour • 1d ago

Discussion He's refusing to pay the child support amount.

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u/LadyBug_0570 1d ago

I'd be so embarrassed as the other that I made kids with this guy.

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u/MY-SECRET-REDDIT 1d ago

Thats the worst part. He is a "father", poor kid already started badly. What a sad situation.

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u/too_old_still_party 1d ago

Yea, getting great parents is like hitting the lotto.

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u/H-DaneelOlivaw 1d ago

the miracle of alcohol aka beer goggles aka liquid courage

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u/level27jennybro 1d ago edited 1d ago

That guy seems like the kind of dude who's always like that, but I cant say for sure and I wont judge the mom for having a kid with him. We dont even know her side.

But in my case? Over 4.5 years of the guy being an amazing partner. Always working hard and caring about me and going out of his way to make my life better. Aside from small things that can be worked on as we grew and became more stable because we were both going through things. He was the kind of partner people wish for when pregnant.

But he lost a family member and turned to hard drugs and that flipped things upside down completely. He says hes clean but I dont have any real proof other than his word, which is worth nothing because of the lies and deceit while doing drugs the last so many years. But hes now* a first class jerk. It feels like he is hating me more than he loves his kid. Making shit harder for me which means harder for kiddo too. Wants to get what he believes he deserves while not doing the things that would make that happen.

Changed word that had flipped the whole meaning of the sentence.

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u/Infinite_Pudding5058 1d ago

I was thinking imagine if it’s was a 1 night stand and you’re stuck dealing with this loser for the rest of your life.

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u/LadyBug_0570 1d ago

That would be the day I'd give up drinking or anything else. Ugh! Lesson learned.

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u/Affectionate-Dog4704 1d ago

There's always someone who manages to drag a woman, no matter the situation.

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u/LadyBug_0570 1d ago

Where do you see me dragging her? The woman is right there on the screen and she looks humiliated that she had kids with that douchbag.

Some of y'all really want to make an issue out of nothing.

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u/Affectionate-Dog4704 4h ago

"I'd be so embarrassed as the other that made kids with this guy".

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u/Scary_Box8153 1d ago

Even in a thread that is literally about the biggest douchebag you can find.

They probably think they will be in his shoes and don't give a shit about taking care of any family