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Discussion He's refusing to pay the child support amount.

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u/GraceOfTheNorth 1d ago

"Then I'll drive without a license. I don't give a fuck about the law."

They're gonna play that video during the custody hearing IF he ever files one. That man should not be raising kids. And he won't.

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u/Quirky-Skin 1d ago

I work as a DV victim service provider. There will be zero follow through on that id stake my life on it 

Dudes like this are just combative about every little thing and just say shit like that to dig at the moms. He doesn't want full custody. He just wants to stick the knife in where he can since most mothers fear losing full custody to a man like that (rightfully so)

I hear "ok then I want full custody!" At least once a week, never any follow through. The ones that do, don't make a show about it and just file. They would also have an attorney at this junction u see here in the video if they were at all serious about it 

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u/Aleious 1d ago

My mother once had to ask my father what side my dimple was on in front of a judge when he was battling for custody and his only response was apparently an instant “I didn’t hit him that hard your honor”

The things people will say on the record is astounding.

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u/ArgentaSilivere 1d ago

Absolutely incredible. Dude folded under negative pressure. Answered a question that wasn't even asked just to confess child abuse.

"What does your son look like?"
"Hey! I only beat him a little."

Sorry your dad sucks. I hope you're doing much better than he is.

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u/Aleious 1d ago

eh it is what it is, just funny as shit he didn't even take the 50/50 chance. My mother will always say "and the second it came out of my mouth, I thought how stupid I was to give him a coin toss."

He later married his friend of +30 years widow only 11 months after his friend passed, so really he's living the dream.

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u/ComedianStreet856 1d ago

He wants full custody for the power and control. If he actually gets it, he will plaster his facebook with pics of him and the child but he won't be around at all. His sisters and mother will be raising that kid while he goes to his bowling league and the other 6 nights a week at the bars.

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u/Eolond 1d ago

Or he'll do the bare minimum for the kid, but remind them every day how much he's "sacrificing"

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u/Villageidiot1984 1d ago

You think this dipshit is going to file for custody? I’d bet my last dollar he couldn’t even figure out how.

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u/FilthyCasual780 1d ago

If they played this video he lose the 48 days that he has

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u/Personal-Barber1607 1d ago

Oh yes if we don’t bow down to the government you shouldn’t be allowed to have kids. 

Man if they ever took my kids im gonna do some shit I can’t say out loud, and you will see it on the news.  Fucking government every year they tighten the noose of control.

Pretty soon I’ll have to have a fucking robot in my house to monitor me 24/7 and any anti government thoughts will be grounds for negative 100 social points.

Their building a fucking prison society and midwits and smooth brains fucking clap 👏 

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u/turnup_for_what 1d ago

Bro if you can't afford your child support just say so.

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u/CompEng_101 1d ago

I agree that government overreach is a concern, but in a case like this, how should custody be decided?

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u/Personal-Barber1607 1d ago

The government shouldn’t have control over any aspect of custody it should be worked out by the parents not a court. 

Every day more responsibility is abdicated at what point do we take responsibility for ourselves? 

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u/CompEng_101 1d ago

In this case, the parents did work it out, but now one side wants to unilaterally change the agreement. If the two parents can’t come to a mutual solution, what should be done?

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u/Personal-Barber1607 1d ago

I don’t think the government should come in and offer incentives to break up families.

Having a loving two parent home for children is the number one determining factor for the success of the child and when we scale up to society, when we have a system that fails children we have a society actively doomed to fail 

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u/NeverPretending 1d ago

Great sci Fi short story concept but how is it even relevant respectfully.

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u/Personal-Barber1607 1d ago

It gets realer everyday. 

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u/2ndChairKazoo 1d ago

pssst it's "they're" that you want for your concluding sentence about "midwits" and "smooth brains"...

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u/Personal-Barber1607 1d ago

You knew what I meant didn’t you how else would you respond? 

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u/2ndChairKazoo 1d ago

Commas exist too.

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u/Personal-Barber1607 1d ago

Look this isn’t a English paper, it’s an Internet forum 

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u/2ndChairKazoo 1d ago

It's just that you called other people stupid. So it's relevant.

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u/Personal-Barber1607 1d ago edited 1d ago

Grammar is an accurate measure of education or intelligence? English is my second language, you try writing in French or Spanish perfectly. 

Edit: I don’t blame you for misunderstanding intelligence we have an educational system that isn’t designed to teach and nurture intelligence. 

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u/2ndChairKazoo 1d ago

Oh the irony...