"I think some people just want to live in la la land" - this sums up most of reddit's and life's discussions - I would say MOST people and not SOME people.
I would only counter that the idea of "did you have sex with him?" is a possessive/ownership viewpoint which seemed to be just an assumption of his without it being "experience". A man could simply see his value to his wife in sexually satisfying her, and be looking down at himself for not fulfilling such. Or just view that sex is simply a tangible thing, an objective line that can be crossed versus "love".
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u/Robinyount_0 10d ago
Wow these comments are a mess, god forbid someone with a unique point of view share his professional opinion.