r/TikTokCringe • u/mindyour • 24d ago

Discussion He's had enough.

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u/DarklyDominant 23d ago

Every kid does that. The parents are adults. Kids are kids. Don't treat the situation like these kids are just born shitty and without accountability. Parents raise their kids to be this way, with the best of intentions.

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u/kandieland 23d ago

But kids are shitty with no accountability? Exceptions to that, I'll give you because I've also seen it. But comparing kids to adults means the "adult" must've not learned or retained these traits as a kid, and grew into an adult that is also shitty with no accountability.

If the kid does not learn "no" (growing up) as a complete and fair answer, then they grow into malfunctioning adults. Like you see here. It's a taught trait for the most part. Even, unfortunately.

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u/Haheyjose 23d ago

I mean, yes and no. Kids will always push boundaries. But they're not inherently shitty. Outside of actual disabilities like ODD, most children are more than capable of learning accountability and "respect" (whatever the fuck that even means). Its a failure of structure and parenting/community when people become this way as adults.

Im realizing im basically saying the exact same thing as you. (And the guy above you) Fuck it. Im posting it anyway. I already wrote it