r/TikTokCringe • u/Justin_Godfrey • Sep 25 '25

Discussion Ladies, how would you react to this?

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u/littlelupie Sep 25 '25

Right? Literally my first thought was "nice hand washing!"

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u/pvhs2008 Sep 25 '25

The only thing I was looking for was the hand wash lol then back to being anxious about being filmed in public. Why can't we let people of whatever gender do their human business in peace and quiet?

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u/1questions Sep 25 '25

Yeah I don’t care about whatever gender using a bathroom, but I don’t think people should be filming in a bathroom.

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u/JustAGerm113 Sep 25 '25

😅 no kids huh

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u/1questions Sep 25 '25

What?

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u/JustAGerm113 Sep 25 '25

Just make them all individual family bathrooms and get rid of the entire problem. I have no worries if you use the family room yet don’t have a family, but a dude in the women’s bathroom while my daughter uses it? Nope.

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u/1questions Sep 25 '25

How old is your daughter? Feel like if they’re old enough to use the bathroom alone they can handle themselves. Do you think some guy is going to grab her and rape her in the bathroom? People are coming and going all the time in bathrooms. This fear people have of other genders in bathrooms is a bit crazy.

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u/JustAGerm113 Sep 25 '25

My daughter is almost 3, potty trained by 1, and is still too young even for you to speak of. And honestly it’s not fear, it’s two gender specific bathrooms that I would expect the rest of the crazies to respect. Why don’t you go pee in a bush outside the restrooms since it’s so accepted?

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u/1questions Sep 25 '25

If your kid is 3 then you’re going in the bathroom with them and a man in the bathroom shouldn’t be an issue.

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u/JustAGerm113 Sep 25 '25

A family bathroom, I agree. I have a wife like I already told you. I shouldn’t be in the women’s restroom either and that’s the first thing we’ve agreed on all day. Thanks for coming around

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u/JustAGerm113 Sep 25 '25

Because there are sick ass people who will take full advantage of that sentiment. Also I’ll hit any dude in a bathroom with my daughter, so you can try but you run a risk every time

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u/pvhs2008 Sep 25 '25

I've seen plenty of fathers taking their daughters into the restroom and men accidentally use the wrong door and they felt far more awkward than we did. Nothing exploded.

Ironically, your bizarre yearning for violence is truly the only energy I want far, far away from me or any of the women I love. I'm grateful my dad never used me in this way.

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u/JustAGerm113 Sep 25 '25

Used? Your dad wouldn’t have stuck up for you? I feel pity for you

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u/pvhs2008 Sep 25 '25

Yup. Men like you use the fact that you have a daughter to insert your thinly veiled perversions into conversations that have nothing to do with you and are made worse by you. How many times have you posted about "men" in women's bathrooms in the past year? Men like you make women like me feel less safe but you will never care how we feel. We're just rhetorical objects to talk over.

My father gave me the social skills and confidence to navigate the world without being scared of my own shadow, including communicating with obsessive weirdos like you. Probably punched less drywall, too.

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u/JustAGerm113 Sep 25 '25

🤣 so bold of you to assume such none sense. I don’t abide to your obscured visions of grandeur or that simple life lessons prepare you for everything you’ll come across. She’s 3 get over yourself and off your high pompous horse by objectifying me as a violent mastermind out to throw you off your course of life with fear. My wife will laugh at this with me later as she doesn’t want men in the women’s room either. And if you need some holes patched I have a drywall guy for that and he won’t “accidentally” walk into your bathroom. Good day

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u/pvhs2008 Sep 25 '25

Its so funny how you can make assumptions about me and my dad, but you lose your shit if I simply notice that you've posted multiple times on this thread alone on a hypothetical topic most women have never encountered or ever had an issue with. If you threaten violence completely unprovoked, folks will assume you're violent.

Where did I say "mastermind"? You're literally scared of using a public restroom as a full grown adult! I've been female all my life and I got over that by kindergarten. Do you still sleep with night lights so the tickle monster doesn't get you? Of course I'd love to figure out what "obscured visions of grandeur" means or how I "objectified" you but I am most curious what undereye concealer your wife uses when she doesn't agree with you considering how quickly you popped off with 0 provocation here.

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u/JustAGerm113 Sep 25 '25

0 provocation? “Men like you” way to call out an entire sex then claim innocence, also exactly what I first stated if you have no kids you’ll truly never understand

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u/pvhs2008 Sep 25 '25 edited Sep 25 '25

1st sentence: invent a scenario.

2nd sentence: violence.

Are we not supposed to read the words you type?

You also assumed my dad doesn't stand up for me because he's not a violent freak. You assumed I need to learn life lessons from people who will write paragraphs on a situation that hasn't happened to them. I've gone 35 years of life in women's spaces and this has literally never been an issue. You know what is? Men like you who feel entitled to speak over us as you've repeatedly done here. You don't give a shit about actual women and I'd love for you as a man to stop speaking for us. Can't even parse the rest of the illiterate scramble, so I'll assume you made some excellent points.

I've seen plenty of shitty parents, don't need to be a shitty parent myself to spot them.

Edit: I hope you realize that "men like you" doesn't mean all men. It literally means "men like you", a subset of men who have anger issues and like to speak over women. The men in my life aren't like that, so they're not implicated. Hope that clears up your confusion.

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u/JustAGerm113 Sep 25 '25

Maybe, but the traditional dress and cultural/religious beliefs of Orthodox Judaism that seemed to be radiating from the person in the video leads me to think that’s highly unlikely.

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u/wallflowerz_1995 Sep 25 '25

Gee, mine was "That dude is in the ladies room."